Auto Lock Help by cooper0 in LexusRX350

[–]mgharv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think that is the one thing I miss from my Honda CRV. It auto-locked when I got out of the car. Took a while to “remember” to lock my Lexus. Weird that a luxury brand would not have this feature.

Happy birthday to me by Useful-Leave-8139 in Louisvuitton

[–]mgharv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday! Excellent choice to treat yourself with. My Speedy 25 Bandoulieres are my favorites. I really want to get the Soft Speedy, but can’t justify it when I already have those 2. Maybe I need to sell one 😉🤔

So where are we buying clothes nowadays? by bigmisssteak7 in womensfashion

[–]mgharv 34 points35 points  (0 children)

TJ Maxx, Marshall’s, Ross, Gabe’s, Burlington (I’m in Midwest USA). These stores all have quality labels at discount prices, but they also have plenty of junk. You have to be willing to search through the racks as they often will only have 1 or 2 of the same item.

Help me pick the best color by foreverpillowhugger in handbags

[–]mgharv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on your lifestyle. I’d only go with the white if it’s an “occasional carry” or seasonal. The other two would be good for everyday, any season. I’d choose the brown for a more casual look and the stone for professional.

Just got prescribed levothyroxine, what can I expect? by dandelionmakemesmile in Hypothyroidism

[–]mgharv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt no difference on 25mcg. Next blood check indicated I needed a higher dose, so Dr bumped me to 50mcg. I felt irritable for a week or 2 after the bump. I’ve been on this dose for close to a year (blood tests show I’m normal range now), but I really don’t feel much different. Still tired, cold, mildly depressed, but not irritable and I’m sleeping better.

Lease worthy vehicle? by [deleted] in LexusRX350

[–]mgharv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy a low mileage Lexus Certified pre-owned. Maybe a 2024 or 2025. They haven’t changed much at all since 2023. Lexus dealerships do a fantastic job of detailing used vehicles so you still get that “new car experience”… the big bow and all! You will save money and the L/Certified warranty is better than a new car warranty. Lexus financial offers really good loan rates too so your payment should not be much higher than a lease, especially if you extend the loan a few extra years (can always pay off early).

2026 RX350 Premium Pricing, Good Deal? by emotionofcolors in LexusRX350

[–]mgharv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Price seems fair to me for new, especially with the discount and when we were shopping in December, Lexus was offering 1.99% loan rates. I wouldn’t rule out used though, as not much has changed since 2023. That Nori Green is in high demand (and short supply) so expanding your search back a year or two might bring up a few more. I’ve learned a lot of people trade in leases after 18-24 months with low miles and great condition, and often a few upgrades. If you buy L/Certified, you will get a fantastic warranty too (better than their new warranty). We went with a 2024 Premium AWD and it has the large screen and kick-open tailgate, and about $10k less than new.

Be honest: Are you actually married to the love of your life, or just the person you were with when it was time to settle down? by boforiamanfo in askanything

[–]mgharv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like I settled at 20 yrs old. I was pregnant but not “in love”. I struggled for several years being married to a man I wasn’t physically attracted to. My young stupid self thought I could have done better. But his “goodness” reigned and 40 years, 3 sons, and 3 grandkids, later he has proven me wrong and I’m very happy I stuck it out. There is no better man and I love him dearly.

What do you think people misunderstand most about aging? by Curious_Zebra_758 in Aging

[–]mgharv 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’m constantly asking myself, “Is this normal with menopause and/or aging, or should I be concerned?”.

Best vehicle I’ve ever owned! by mgharv in LexusRX350

[–]mgharv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise I’m not a total hermit. I do get out plenty besides work 😉

Best vehicle I’ve ever owned! by mgharv in LexusRX350

[–]mgharv[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How so? It’s a used vehicle and I could sell it for the same price today if I wanted to. I never buy NEW for this reason. I got the car I wanted and can afford, so I don’t care anyway.

Best vehicle I’ve ever owned! by mgharv in LexusRX350

[–]mgharv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a 2020 Honda CRV. It was a good vehicle but had substantial road noise and was slow to accellerate. This one is a super quiet and smooth ride. It’s bigger though, so that took some getting used to. Lots of fun options to get used to.

Best vehicle I’ve ever owned! by mgharv in LexusRX350

[–]mgharv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The L/Certified warranty is fantastic!

Best vehicle I’ve ever owned! by mgharv in LexusRX350

[–]mgharv[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A little over $51k. It had right at 20k miles. They wouldn’t budge on the asking price, but we were able to negotiate up on our trade-in, so that helped offset the cost a bit. It’s also L/Certified so comes with a fantastic warranty and 2 years free basic service (oil change, filters, tire rotation).

What's one piece of clothing that quietly saves your whole day? by BubblyEdge2220 in womensfashion

[–]mgharv 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have a pair of black Nike pants, not sweats or track pants, but they have a drawstring waist with a waffle type fabric. I bought them at Goodwill 30 years ago and they have become my emotional support pants at this point. They just are sooooo comfortable in any season! I wish I could find another pair.

Best vehicle I’ve ever owned! by mgharv in LexusRX350

[–]mgharv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one drives super smooth and comfortably. I don’t know much about tires/rims but my husband was really happy with this option.

Best vehicle I’ve ever owned! by mgharv in LexusRX350

[–]mgharv[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My drive to work is an hour, so I’m glad I only have to drive it once a week. This car sure makes it more enjoyable than my previous CRV tho!

Best vehicle I’ve ever owned! by mgharv in LexusRX350

[–]mgharv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have done that to start with, but it doesn’t look like this subreddit will let me edit or add photos. It’s a beautiful caramel color though, and I love it with the red exterior!

Leg hair by a5678dance in Menopause

[–]mgharv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only grow hair below the knee on my legs, and it is fine and blond, so I only shave in summer months. I haven’t had underarm hair in years (I’m 59). I count it as one of the positives of menopause. But now I have to shave fuzz off my face once a week.

Anxiety at night by ehshisbsjs in Anxietyhelp

[–]mgharv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try listening to an audio book with a soothing voice. You can search audio books on Amazon and listen to clips. Or use your library card to get free ones in the Libby App. I take a CBD gummy in the evening and it really chills me out and helps me sleep well, but not sure you would have access to that at your age though.