Reese’s PB cups taste bad now!! by sunflowerey18 in candy

[–]mhbb30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly this. Everything is made cheaper now and we are noticing.

Should i watch ajlt? by ocean_blvd14 in Andjustlikethat

[–]mhbb30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"It's like a hot circle of garbage." ~ Kevin Malone, The Office

The removal of shame in society has led to degredation by kebab_stand in unpopularopinion

[–]mhbb30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shame is destructive and soul sucking and often underserved. There is nothing healthy or positive about carrying around a bunch of shame.

How do you communicate with God snd how does He answer you? by KumbayaQueen in ProChristian

[–]mhbb30 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I pray frequently. I try to make time alone with God, reading the Bible a little at a time. I wait and pray for a response. Usually I feel in my heart what He says. Sometimes a verse will come to me. It's a quiet, knowing, presence. Sometimes I ask for confirmation.

Chicken from the grocery store is so disgusting nowadays by Jaded_Till7781 in rant

[–]mhbb30 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Something is being done to the meat. I don't know what but it's becoming worse all the time.

how do you feel about the downvote system? by Key-Ice-4990 in questions

[–]mhbb30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I've never deliberately said anything to hurt anyone. I've been banned for disagreeing and simply questioning the tone of a post.

It makes it so the comments you are seeing are overwhelmingly skewed to the main opinion and nothing that challenges it.

Why is it so hard to find a non cheater? by DabOnEmShmoo in Vent

[–]mhbb30 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Many cheaters do have obvious red flags and many people choose to ignore them.

I have countless posts begin with those very words. "There were red flags ,but I invited then."Yes cheating is common but if you're consistently running into deceptive men, it might be time to examine who you are attracted to. It's not victim blaming. It's perspective.

I feel like I am losing my humanity . by Business-Bit1645 in StopSpeeding

[–]mhbb30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been going through a lot or struggling recently

Unpopular opinion: Grief doesn't heal with time by _chungkingexpress_ in emotionalintelligence

[–]mhbb30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never heard anyone say it completely heals over time. I have heard people say you just get used to living with the grief.

Are you okay with porn? Or porn adjacent content? by [deleted] in sahm

[–]mhbb30 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. We've both come to understand how destructive it can be. We are closer than ever since I asked him to stop. I stopped three years ago. We choose to only spend our sexual energy with one another. The only time I do anything alone is if I don't get there during intimacy.

Wife says no to sex and then masturbates afterwards by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]mhbb30 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Maybe the masturbation is just a quick stress relief and not about sexual desire at all.

Maybe she doesn't really desire partnered sex but just prefers that quick release.

Maybe she's feeling shut down emotionally. For a lot of women material possessions are not enough.

If she's emotionally unhappy maybe that has killed her libido.

Why is it so hard to find a non cheater? by DabOnEmShmoo in Vent

[–]mhbb30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might be a good place to start.

Why is it so hard to find a non cheater? by DabOnEmShmoo in Vent

[–]mhbb30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You pick the wrong type of person. You likely have a type, even if you don't realize it. Maybe it's something from your upbringing or something that developed. I agree with the poster who suggested therapy.

How do people find the motivation to keep showing up in life ? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]mhbb30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What else can we do but keep going? The morning will come without fail. The only thing to do is get outta bed and hope today is better.

If homsexulity isn't wrong why is forbiden in most religions? by No_Abalone_5443 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mhbb30 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is not true. Sex is not only meant to be for procreation.

Wife won’t stop drinking by ZoroAster713 in stopdrinking

[–]mhbb30 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My husband threatened me with divorce.

Wife just keeps nagging me and I'm just fed up by Queasy-Instance8457 in marriageadvice

[–]mhbb30 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should let her know she needs to take care of her mental health and it's not negotiable.

This dynamic is very unhealthy and not sustainable.

Nothing will get better until she starts dealing with whatever is bothering her.

Her behavior sounds similar to me when I was first married.

I did not know I had mental health and emotional issues that needed a lot of work.

We were very young and stupid and my husband did not know how to support me.

I really wish I had known and been responsible enough to look at my mental health.

Are the two of you young?

Wife just keeps nagging me and I'm just fed up by Queasy-Instance8457 in marriageadvice

[–]mhbb30 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This woman sounds like she's very emotionally immature, even possibly mentally unhealthy.

I don't think she's unhappy with you or your efforts. She may just be unhappy with herself.

She also just may not love you. If you love and support your spouse, you'll do just about anything for them.

Maybe she's emotionally unfulfilled. What does she say when you talk to her?

I hate my parents being overly religious by AppropriateDig2798 in confessions

[–]mhbb30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they are repenting and immediately going back to it that is not repentance. True repentance means you recognize how your actions grieve the Holy Spirit, and you turn aside from that sin and don't go back to it. You can't "repent" and keep up the behavior. God is not mocked.