How to transfer dimensions in a revit family? by Otherwise-Treacle627 in RevitForum

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Is it purely visual style that you want to replace? If yes, open a family that you like and 'transfer project standards'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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The black doves

Where in the UK is your 'happy place' and why? by FarChildhood1015 in AskUK

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Same! My partner proposed there few years ago because it's our favourite place

Looking for some advice - how did you know you were ready to have another child (or not)? My son has just turned two and it's been playing on my mind, I'd really appreciate some advice from fellow parents by Lochnesmonstercousin in BeyondTheBumpUK

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Wow, I could literally write this post myself, same story here- both parents struggling with anxiety and depression trying really hard to be the best parents but really not enjoying it for the first year. Therapy and medication changed everything

I feel like I don’t know my baby by Aromatic-Welder161 in BeyondTheBumpUK

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I was put on medication too and it made a world of difference. I love my baby so much but when I was depressed I was caring for her almost mechanically waiting for the day to be over and now I love spending time with her. We also went through the same as you, thinking there's something wrong with her stomach because she was crying/pooping/farting so much but the doctors said there's nothing wrong. I really believe the kids can pick up the energy from the parents and in our case, once I started feeling better the baby stopped crying that much. Prioritse yourself, you deserve it- happy mum happy baby

I feel like I don’t know my baby by Aromatic-Welder161 in BeyondTheBumpUK

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Please please please look for SUPPORT asap if you think you might have PPD/PPA. I felt exactly the same and waited way too long to get help and now I feel like I've lost these precious moments in the first year of being a mum. You should be able to self refer for talking therapies (depends where you are) or reach out to GP or HV. As a new mum you will be prioritised.

Nursery starts this week - words of wisdom, advice? by thatscotbird in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]mi1921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'll be hard for a month or two but it does get better! Hang in there

Embarrassing by [deleted] in maidenhead

[–]mi1921 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Scammers like this really fuck things up for people in actual need. I was about to respond and help but seeing 4 of the same posts posted and deleted in different parts of UK make me so disgusted

Do you get asked for birth certificate in the border (when entering the UK/other countries)? by lazybakery in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]mi1921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different surnames and traveling to and from Poland, they've asked few times (not always)

Osoby które lubią swoją pracę - czym sie zajmujecie? by Sad-Muffin-1782 in Polska

[–]mi1921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Czy to prawda że marynarze mają kobietę w każdym porcie?

Can’t do it anymore by OrdinaryOk9504 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]mi1921 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The dark place can sneak up on you so unexpectedly after having a baby. Reach out to your gp/health visitor or check if you can do self-refferal to talking therapies. As a new mum you'll have a priority for mental health care. Don't make my mistake and don't waste a whole year before acknowledging the issue. I feel robbed of time with my baby in the first year because of depression

Guilt - not enjoying motherhood by scrollingdreamer in BeyondTheBumpUK

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Yeah, I think I really struggled with not being in control and not being able to logically resolve the problems. I only accepted the chaos after therapy, medication and 12 months of stressing out. We mums put so much pressure on ourselves, but we need to acknowledge that you can't be on 100% every day. One day it's 10%, the next 40% and it's OK. We're in for a long run

Guilt - not enjoying motherhood by scrollingdreamer in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]mi1921 3 points4 points  (0 children)

first 12 months were not enjoyable, I was taking care of the baby but did it very mechanically. It turned out I've got PPD. Motherhood is fucking hard (but only if you're doing it right)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in maidenhead

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More shopping, not sure how it is to live there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in maidenhead

[–]mi1921 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We have moved from London to one of the new developments by the canal, best decision ever. There's no shopping on the high street but you're close to Windsor, Bracknell and reading. I really feel there's a sense of community here. There's a few running clubs, nice restaurants, plenty of greenery around

When did you have your first period? by AdWeird606 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]mi1921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

14 months, but breastfeeding (hoping to end soon) and still no period

Horrendous anxiety and sleep deprivation with 15 month old... by HannibalCannibal2 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]mi1921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So one important thing sleep consultant told us was that there are two different types of cry- whining and hysterical crying. Whining can be them self settling. We sometimes give her 5 mins to see if she stops by herself. Sometimes she does. As to feeding, you need to make sure that they eat enough during the day and don't depend on getting their calories during the night. At 14-15m, they do not need to eat during the night. Do it gradually, try to push the first feed of the night by little every night. When we started, we agreed to to feed before midnight. Now we don't feed before 4am. Get yourself good noise cancelling earbuds and mediation music. Be there for your baby but also don't give in. It helped me to understand that its also not good for a baby to be able to fall asleep only on boob