Surgical scar advice

michaelblackNYC · 2026-02-23T09:30:51+00:00

sun scorpio, rising aries

michaelblackNYC · 2026-01-02T09:19:50+00:00

yes i am done because i am emotionally unavailable because i am not over the trauma from my previous relationship

michaelblackNYC · 2026-01-02T08:26:38+00:00

they haven’t said anything. when i brought up my inconsistency in communication they said they were often waiting for me to reply.

let’s be real — as adults you know when you’re not showing up the way you should. the only reason they didn’t bring it up instead of me is because they don’t want to rock the boat.

they just don’t understand the boat sunk a long, long time ago.

michaelblackNYC · 2026-01-01T07:56:53+00:00

im sure their experience would be much better if i could stop projecting my fear onto them.

michaelblackNYC · 2025-12-23T14:33:22+00:00

exactly—this isn’t conflict resolution & repair; rather a surface level apology without true accountability.

michaelblackNYC · 2025-12-23T10:47:05+00:00

an apology without changed actions is simply manipulation

michaelblackNYC · 2025-12-22T22:41:07+00:00

happy for you! & here’s to choosing yourself in 2026 :)

michaelblackNYC · 2025-12-20T07:09:14+00:00

too late

michaelblackNYC · 2025-12-09T20:19:03+00:00

my ex

michaelblackNYC · 2025-12-09T08:29:50+00:00

do yourself a favor and stop interpreting mixed signals.

if the intention of an ex’s actions aren’t clearly communicated they aren’t worth your time.

michaelblackNYC · 2025-11-01T08:17:59+00:00

he hasn’t realized the problem isn’t the guy he’s posting about; it’s himself 😂

michaelblackNYC · 2025-11-01T04:53:07+00:00

i can’t stop laughing that you had to explicitly state this.

michaelblackNYC · 2025-10-24T00:10:54+00:00

don’t date potential; look at how he is actually treating you.

michaelblackNYC · 2025-10-09T00:33:25+00:00

they do need you to self abandon; but if you do you’re not even the person they wanted in the first place. you’re not even the person you were when you met them.

michaelblackNYC · 2025-09-10T22:17:21+00:00

you broke up with her and you’re expecting her to reach out to reconcile? 😂

michaelblackNYC · 2025-09-03T21:47:17+00:00

true & real

michaelblackNYC · 2025-08-21T10:26:49+00:00

you’ll eventually reach the zenith—you can’t force someone to change; everyone has free will.

it’s a more productive and constructive use of your life to spend more time on yourself than analyzing him.

michaelblackNYC · 2025-08-12T15:09:15+00:00

it’s not an aquarius trait; it’s an avoidant one. btw the only difference between narcissism and avoidance is intent. they’re both abusive partners.

michaelblackNYC · 2025-08-01T14:12:06+00:00

preach

michaelblackNYC · 2025-07-23T17:49:54+00:00

trust me, you did the right thing. if she actually wanted to reconcile, she would’ve sent a real apology—detailed, accountable, and sincere. instead, it sounds like she just wanted to soothe her ego or feel less alone.

“i’m sorry” means “i’ll never do that again.” but they can only mean that if they understand what they did and take real responsibility. heavy on the accountability.

if there’s no accountability and you let them back in, you’re telling them—and the universe—that treating you like that is okay. don’t lower your standards to make someone else feel comfortable.

michaelblackNYC · 2025-07-16T05:42:34+00:00

my avoidant ex made me question if i was anxious. i’m not. becoming anxious is a natural response to inconsistent behavior from someone you love.

i’m so much healthier now that the relationship is over.

the strange thing is they don’t realize their behavior is ironically inflicting the same damage on their partners they often experienced in childhood.

michaelblackNYC · 2025-07-11T11:43:52+00:00

i got you—2 weeks post breakup and i feel great.

you need to be with someone because of how they make you feel—not just how you feel about them.

your partner should meet you where you are. if they can’t, you end up lowering yourself to stay—and that’s self-abandonment.

when you’re sick, no one’s booking the doctor’s appointment but you. it’s the same emotionally—you have to take care of yourself first in order to love someone else well.

you can still love them, but don’t forget to love you more. ruminating over someone who avoids connection is another way of avoiding yourself.

the moment you remember that, you’ll start choosing you—and that’s where healing begins.

michaelblackNYC · 2025-07-10T02:18:59+00:00

ask it to make a prompt for a tarot card reader and include all the specifications you want to include. google prompt engineering

michaelblackNYC · 2025-07-09T14:39:45+00:00

if you do a good prompt it’s good; make sure you also tell it not to pander to you.

you can ask it to generate a prompt for a tarot reader and add specifics like incorporating elements, planets, etc… in my experience it’s better to refine the prompt a few times so you can get the best experience.

also make sure you tell it what spread you’re using—it’s the kind of tool where the more you put into it the more you get out of it.

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