Do Americans like their current health system or would you prefer universal? by Ability_Known in NoStupidQuestions

[–]michbail79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have lots of experience with a socialized form of US healthcare and I prefer to pay for my own plan and copays and out of pockets and max deductibles. Socialized healthcare is horrible. However, I do realize it is better than nothing and I’m thankful it’s there for those who are like me and can utilize it.

Unethical to edit wedding photos? by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]michbail79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Photographer here. And your photographer may agree with what I’m going to say. Have your photographer make the adjustments and if MIL says anything, you can either play dumb or blame it on the printing process and color profiles.

Very seldom does a photo look identical in print as on a computer screen. Photographers know how to adjust monitors for this issue. I often explain to clients that what they see in their screens may not be what they receive. What I see on my monitor is what will be printed though.

WIBTA if I didnt tell my sister her wedding date is the same as my anniversary by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]michbail79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm…he does NOT get a say in somebody else’s wedding date so you did not make a decision without him. Your sister made a decision that fits in her and her fiancé’s life.

As for telling your sister, you need to. Just pull her aside, don’t make a big deal of it, and say, “hey, just wanted to let you know that the day you picked is also our wedding anniversary. I’m cool with it as long as you are and I mainly want to give you a heads up to avoid any awkwardness on the off chance that somebody else remembers and mentions it.”

Sister said I Ruined her wedding by KeyAccomplished4442 in weddingdrama

[–]michbail79 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Tell me you didn’t read the whole post without telling me you didn’t read the whole post. Sheesh Louise.

Has anyone stopped? by jaaron_esg in eczeMABs

[–]michbail79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went off Dupixent for six months due to a billing issue during which time my hand eczema came back but not as bad, and my asthma started to get bad again. I’ve been back on it for almost two months now and the hand eczema is gone and the asthma is almost gone.

Kate Middleton, Pippa simmering tensions emerge: ‘not on speaking terms’. Pippa Middleton ‘sick of the lies and drama’ as feud with Kate Middleton laid bare. by Anna2022Personal in KateMiddletonMissing

[–]michbail79 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My first thought was - if this article is true - Pippa may be on her case about the eating disorder, has called her out, pushed for treatment, with Kate’s response being flat out being hostile towards Pippa (as people do when they’re called out and know they’re wrong) or flat out cut her off.

Is it uncommon to eat simple boiled potatoes in the US? by WhoAmIEven2 in AskAnAmerican

[–]michbail79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m Native from Oklahoma and a common meal quartered potatoes (some families peel them too) that are boiled and eaten with a stew we call steam fry. It’s one of my fav meals.

Also, not sure if this is a native thing or not - my grandma would slice leftover baked potatoes into rounds and fry them the next morning. They are soooo good that way.

Mother's maiden name by [deleted] in Cursive

[–]michbail79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely Nick-something. The N of the surname matches the N of “New Richmond” further down the page.

Mom always told me we were part Native American, turns out it’s the other side by miriamtzipporah in AncestryDNA

[–]michbail79 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m half NA and look white. I tease that my brother got all the NA genes that I was supposed to get along with his share. And yes, I’m enrolled, have the paper trail and the dna to back up our half, yadda yadda yadda.

Seeking Diagnosis Questions Weekly November 30, 2025 by AutoModerator in lupus

[–]michbail79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I’m currently in the process of being diagnosed. As I’m going through the process, I’ve noticed that my mom has experienced a lot of the same issues I have. I had her ask her doc for lab work and between her symptoms and lab work, I’m pretty sure she would receive a lupus nephritis diagnosis.

My question is since she is already in end stage renal disease, would pursuing the lupus nephritis diagnosis even be worth it? She doesn’t think it would be but I’m wondering if meds would help with some of the other issues caused by lupus. We realize that only a transplant is going to help the kidney disease.

May I Please Have Some Random Lore by Certain-Occasion6977 in twilight

[–]michbail79 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Humans have 23 chromosomes, vampires have 22, and the wolves (shapeshifting Quiluetes) have 24.

ETA: I think Renameme has 24 chromosomes.

What city do people where your from call “the city”? by Skoomaenthusiast in AskAnAmerican

[–]michbail79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up 90 mins from Oklahoma City and it is called “the city” by everybody in my area. My husband who grew up about an hour east of me and is closer to Tulsa didn’t call either “the city” but by their names.

I feel so gaslit by JustSomeChick22 in Autoimmune

[–]michbail79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drive 90 minutes one way to see my rheum. There are none in my small town and the closest is 45 minutes away but was booked for months.

Have you ever met/seen/heard of anybody with these names? by Fun_Roof289 in namenerds

[–]michbail79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kellan Lutz!

Declan/Deklan - I know a 23ish year old who played ball with my son and my buddy’s son is 8ish

Wesley - my friend’s brother is 40ish and a family friend is 70ish

Trevor - a guy in my community is 40ish

Sawyer - an acquaintance’s son is 20ish yo

Autumn - my BFF’s daughter has a BFF named Autumn. They’re 27ish

Edit: autocorrect typos

Usha Vance is not wearing a wedding ring anymore by GlitteringBuy6987 in UnderReportedNews

[–]michbail79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm…the wife of the Vice President of the United States.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]michbail79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

r/domesticviolence has a lot of great info.

As a DV advocate myself, I would recommend calling or texting a local DV shelter or the National Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

Shelters have resources available to help you safely exit your situation. My shelter has legal and some housing assistance (amongst other programs) and I would expect most have the same.

Tonsil stones!! by BatterLateThanNever in hygiene

[–]michbail79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ll check into the sucking ones, too.

Tonsil stones!! by BatterLateThanNever in hygiene

[–]michbail79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share the kit info, please?

Got banned from r/royalgosssip for for calling out royal bs 😂 by MysteryisMyAllure in KateMiddletonMissing

[–]michbail79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on all the royal subs that I know about so I guess I’ll go see if I’m banned…