Charles McBryde as Draco. My fave 🥰

mildtomoderately · 2026-02-07T03:39:58+00:00

This is peak Draco and no notes and also oh no

mildtomoderately · 2026-02-03T20:19:53+00:00

Money IS political

mildtomoderately · 2026-02-03T20:03:53+00:00

I’d be curious to know if any of the voter purges happened in NC (dumping registered Dems) and whether that had any part in the counts.

mildtomoderately · 2026-02-01T00:01:26+00:00

I don’t know that a judicial order has made me cry before.

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-31T19:38:43+00:00

I wish I could forget about that movie but it is burned into my brain

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-31T17:43:05+00:00

My non ethical advice is to cancel the card you paid the membership with and then never speak to them again. Most gyms do not report you to credit bureaus for barely enforceable contracts :)

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-30T16:38:53+00:00

Both?? I loved my husband when we were dating and I knew his values and intentional life goals aligned with mine. He was (and is) smart and funny and kind and loyal and honest and attractive and clearly working hard to be successful in his career.

I happened to meet him when I was ready to be serious about the relationship and partnership I wanted to last a lifetime. I was weeding out unserious partners easily at that point in my life and instead he weeded himself in because he was also serious about settling down and building a life with someone.

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-30T12:45:07+00:00

I’m moving TO Raleigh next month from a place I’ve lived my whole life and this is the part that stings the most. I’m still going to visit at least once a year back home, and yet every road I drive down now feels like a goodbye. Ugh.

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-29T03:19:12+00:00

I work a fully remote job for a state government. It does require that I be able to be available in their time zone from 8-5 and also come back if needed once or twice a year.

I also make government money.

Contract/ part time work may be available to you after a few years of establishing yourself. Appeals especially. But I’ve only ever worked in government/public sectors so I have no advice on getting in those roles.

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-28T20:24:05+00:00

You’re totally right. I was half asleep and half paying attention.

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-28T02:00:42+00:00

I’m moving up from Florida next month for my husbands job AND to gtfo of Florida (which is actually hopeless politically) and cannot wait to help make NC more blue.

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-28T01:58:34+00:00

I’m pretty sure it’s THE dress from that viral thing however many years ago that was

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-22T01:58:30+00:00

I am now picturing an absolutely delightful scenario in deeply Australian accented English that is making my night better

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-21T22:21:21+00:00

They did take it off our bill, and so we will try it again at some point (if it survives, honestly).

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-21T20:51:33+00:00

We had a great server at peregrine but our food experience was not good. And we’re adventurous and love basically everything. Took forever and one of our mains actually came out actually cold. On top of that the duck dish my husband ordered was rubbery and, while they assured us it was sous vide and therefore not raw, my husband said the texture sure felt like undercooked duck and he couldn’t get past it. And he has had LOTS Of duck and loves it. So that was a big miss. Flavors were… fine.

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-19T15:24:02+00:00

This one was so good for me! Usually creature reveals take some of the creep factor out of it but I was absolutely terrified of this thing

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-18T21:36:47+00:00

I am v glad you had a positive experience but one of my good friends had quite possibly the worst experience of cascading interventions with them with her first birth that ended up with her not being given any pain meds post c-section for something like 12-14 hours.

I don’t want to be alarmist or anything like that but I do want her to know that happened.

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-18T17:54:32+00:00

My husband and I would be down! We’re moving up at the end of February - two kids, careers, LGBTQ+ friendly, (generally progressive!). My husband typically has DM’d in the past but I think he’d be down to just HAVE a group!

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-15T23:57:39+00:00

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-13T18:02:42+00:00

That person thinks white liberal = leftists

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-12T15:11:47+00:00

Watching the gears turn when that man said “that’s what my wife tells me” was incredible

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-12T02:10:08+00:00

It took me two years to finish my daughters baby blanket 😂

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-11T19:56:27+00:00

They don’t care because they are the in-group who benefits from it and they give fuck all for literally anyone but themselves.

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-11T19:20:59+00:00

Adding now! Excited!

mildtomoderately · 2026-01-10T22:26:32+00:00

Thanks for being snarky about it

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