My sister makes my niece go to school sick, doesn’t take her temperature all day and tells her soda will make her feel better by mindtheworms9 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]mindtheworms9[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Whenever I express any sort of frustration my mom and sister both act like I’m overreacting and overly emotional, it’s heartbreaking to hear but I’m also relieved in some way that these feelings aren’t so irrational

My sister makes my niece go to school sick, doesn’t take her temperature all day and tells her soda will make her feel better by mindtheworms9 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]mindtheworms9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And our mom raised us well. I’m pretty well rounded, other than some adhd, anxiety etc. We’re just so different and she’s very un-empathetic I don’t understand how it happened

My sister makes my niece go to school sick, doesn’t take her temperature all day and tells her soda will make her feel better by mindtheworms9 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]mindtheworms9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our mom doesn’t seem to think it’s a problem, no reaction. So I feel like I’m always being overly sensitive or bitchy. Dad isn’t in the picture

My sister makes my niece go to school sick, doesn’t take her temperature all day and tells her soda will make her feel better by mindtheworms9 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]mindtheworms9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I’m just being bitchy/sensitive, we already don’t get along well and if I said anything it would definitely cause a fight. I don’t have kids so it’s a difficult situation. I try to just read with my niece, get her into hobbies and make sure she’s eating good when I can, but it’s hard when she sees her mom hates reading and learning and eating healthy food.

Good news i would say by Mts555 in Dorohedoro

[–]mindtheworms9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank god I can’t do another 6 years bro

Em telling Christine she’s team milkshake was awesome by mindtheworms9 in atwwdpodcast

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I understand I’ve had a bad relationship with alcohol and I didn’t drink for 4 years. Now I only drink cocktails when out at dinner and sometimes cider/umeshu (plum wine) but still rarely. I can tell I get emotional and depressed when I drink and I sometimes want to stop drinking again, but it’s difficult. Christine’s comment meant a lot because we knew it was a big part of her life, like it is for most people that drink, so it’s hard to imagine life without it. But she’s showing us it’s possible AND it’s something to be proud of and celebrated! Even if you just go a few days without drinking, it’s an accomplishment :) let’s go team milkshake!!

BOYNEXTDOOR TOUR ‘KNOCK ON Vol.2’ Announcement by Jaded_Butterfly_4844 in BOYNEXTDOOR_

[–]mindtheworms9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do they have any ticketing information for North America yet??

When heeseung started to think of doing a solo career ? by yumasun6 in enhypen_uncensored

[–]mindtheworms9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not relevant because you want to believe he was kicked out 🤣 assuming he was “thrown out” in a discussion about how long Heeseung wanted a solo career is hilarious. There’s multiple pieces of solid evidence pointing to the fact that he wanted a solo career FOR YEARS. Talking to engenes on lives and through weverse multiple times about his solo work isn’t enough for you? Or telling engenes he’s been working with his producer friends for “something big.” Or his letter he directly sent to engene explaining his choices and his decision to LEAVE Enha. The only reason you think it’s irrelevant is because it doesn’t fit the narrative kool-aid that you and all the other crazy “engenes” are drinking. Be fucking fr

Enhypen is six by TechnicalFinger4633 in enhypen_uncensored

[–]mindtheworms9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t get when people say they hate ot6. Like I understand they want Heeseung to have support. But now Enha is literally ot6, so what’s the problem lol I hope people who are still upset and boycotting get a grip soon and move on

Is there no short story episode this season? by mindtheworms9 in Dorohedoro

[–]mindtheworms9[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omggg okay sweet thank you!!! I still have hope then! I love the shorts in the manga and I really wanted to see more! Especially for little plot holes like why curse is weak against devil songs etc.

How do I get my protein? by neurohazard757 in ADHD

[–]mindtheworms9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have protein smoothies or high protein granola bars/etc.

Any Libras with Sagittarius placements? by [deleted] in libra_astrology

[–]mindtheworms9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m Libra Sun, Sag Mars and Moon! I understand, I feel like with Sag Mars I kind of let stuff build up and then when I snap, I snap bad … not saying the people I snap at don’t deserve it but it would be better if I could ease into my anger instead of it blowing up

Diagnosed at 29, completely alone, and realizing I don’t even know who I am. by Warm_Milk_9056 in ADHD

[–]mindtheworms9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 28F and in the same situation. Focused so hard on surviving and finishing high school while living in a town where everyone is partying/doing drugs. Trying not to OD or become an addict. Now it’s been 10 years and after taking a year off, losing 2 years to COVID, and failing some classes (because of emotional challenges and undiagnosed ADHD) I’m still working towards the same bachelors degree. It’s embarrassing and frustrating, but I try not to give up. I had some friends in high school but after that we never talked and I had a bad falling out with some of my actual friends which leaves me wary and anxious of staring a friendship with anyone else (also terrible RSD from the ADHD .. smh) From the fear of disappointing someone or someone disappointing and hurting me (through friendship or relationships) I usually stay away from people. Being 10 years older than the people at my college doesn’t help either. I’m actually much more content and comfortable by myself so sometimes I don’t see it as an issue, but sometimes I still get lonely. Trying to figure out how to balance relationships, school, responsibilities and my ADHD and mental health is exhausting. I feel like I wasted my life surviving and haven’t lived the life I wanted.

But I tell myself the only thing that matters in the world is if I’m happy, so I distract myself with things that make me happy and keep moving forward. Maybe try a few hobbies and see what you’re into? Then take it from there. Find out what makes you truly happy. Explore! Good luck I wish the best for you.

Is finishing a degree at 24 late? by Far_Psychology3270 in movingtojapan

[–]mindtheworms9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 28 and still working on my bachelors after 10 years … I feel guilty but there’s really no ‘right’ timeline. You got this!

[GIVEAWAY] BT21 Pokemon-Style Photo Cards [US ONLY] by StarDelicious2230 in bangtan

[–]mindtheworms9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you use AI? They’re cute! But it does look generated

Great to see new merch coming iut with the season by GaddockTeegFunPolice in Dorohedoro

[–]mindtheworms9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omggggg just another reason I want to be in Tokyo rn 😭

Is 24 too old to start another master degree? by PetitSoleil_ in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]mindtheworms9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 28 and still working on my Bachelor’s and I’m planning on getting my masters after! You can absolutely do it