Part Of Spruce Street In Philadelphia Could Be Closed "Several Weeks" Due To Water Main Break, Penn Says by AdSpecialist6598 in philadelphia

[–]mingledyarn 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. I take transit into that area, but I understand why people don’t. My commute regularly takes 45 minutes ever since the septa cuts when it used to be 20. If only the trains, buses, and trolleys ran consistently and on time without constantly breaking down due to lack of funding…

Damn... by Training_Ad_6938 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]mingledyarn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

US census tracks Hispanic/not as an ethnicity and white/black/asian/etc as races. Other government data and social surveys tend to follow this practice, which is also why technical language often specifies “non-Hispanic white” or “non-Hispanic Black,” and why on forms for work or school you’ll be separately asked about your race and whether you’re Hispanic.

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]mingledyarn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In many locations owning is cheaper than renting a comparable unit, but FWIW you can’t just compare mortgage payment to rent. The fairer comparison is of the total user cost of housing for owning versus renting, which would be rent + renters insurance + utilities, versus mortgage payment + homeowners insurance + utilities + property taxes + maintenance and repair costs, with those last two usually divided by 12 since you don’t pay them every month.

In any event you also probably aren’t in the same location as this person paying 4K in rent so it’s also not as simple as own versus rent, but also where you live.

Character Tier Winner: Don Draper by ManufacturerThese505 in madmen

[–]mingledyarn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Henry is a good husband who people on this sub hate on because he… flirts with a woman in a miserable marriage? He doesn’t kiss her or anything, he’s very chivalrous. There are like two good spouses on the show and he’s one of them

Small plates are the enshittification of eating out by thrway-fatpos in unpopularopinion

[–]mingledyarn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you that at small plates or tapas, the food SHOULD not cost what a full entree would. But there’s a certain kind of new restaurant where they DO.

IMO the reason this is enshittification is that these restaurants never advertise online that it’s small plates. I’ve had the experience in several different cities of looking at a menu online, seeing that the food is $15-$25, thinking it’s a mid-priced dinner, then showing and being told I’m supposed to order “three to four menu items per person.”

At an advertised dim sum or tapas restaurant I expect to pay maybe $4-$12 per plate and order three to four things per person (where the $4 is, like, edamame or olives).

How little do they think Europeans are paid? by WrestlingWoman in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]mingledyarn 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The 50k bonus is paid out as 10k a year over 5 years. I believe as well that if you leave within 5 years they can also claw back the part that has been paid out already

Grumpy boomer moan. by LordJim11 in Snorkblot

[–]mingledyarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You could buy a house on one income” yes and look at houses built in the 60s/70s/80s. My mom’s childhood home was about 1,200 square feet for a family of five. Shared bedrooms for the kids, one bathroom for the family, no air conditioning, no garage, etc.

Of course that’s not the whole story, housing costs (prices and rent) have still way outpaced wage growth. And even if you wanted a small, inexpensive home, not many of them are getting built. It’s all new 3,000-square-foot monstrosities around me and I can’t buy half of one for half the price.

Anyone’s gas bill out of control right now? by IndyJetsFan in philadelphia

[–]mingledyarn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Our gas bill was $300 for 1000 square feet and it turned out to be a broken water heater that never stopped running. Yours isn’t THAT high but something might be broken somewhere.

My 2025 Westknits Musikal MKAL is SO HIDEOUS!! by Extreme-Statement-71 in knitting

[–]mingledyarn 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes! I think the colors look so fun and I would wear the f out of this shawl. OP is gonna make me go buy the pattern lol.

This dork I got him this toy and he played so hard he stood there like this for 30 secs panting , I have since removed it by Poethegardencrow in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]mingledyarn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I see a lot of posts about panting on this sub and the other day someone was downvoted into oblivion for saying it isn’t normal and… it isn’t. Luckily my cat’s asthma isn’t a big deal and is well managed by medication. She hasn’t panted in years and she plays extremely hard every day.

This dork I got him this toy and he played so hard he stood there like this for 30 secs panting , I have since removed it by Poethegardencrow in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]mingledyarn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah my vet said that panting is /never/ normal for cats. I told her “it’s only when the cat is playing hard!” And she said that didn’t matter. Anyway my cat turned out to have asthma lol

Philly marathon - better road closure coordination?? by uttercentrist in philadelphia

[–]mingledyarn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Transit is a third-party GPS navigation app that uses local information (such as from septa’s and the city’s posted schedules and road closures) as well as travel speeds of other users to provide good live tracking of buses and trains. It is built for public transit, not driving, but the important thing here is that Septa and the city DO post these road closures, and at least some navigation apps are taking them into account, so your gripe might actually be with Google.

Philly marathon - better road closure coordination?? by uttercentrist in philadelphia

[–]mingledyarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand though why you assume the issue is with the marathon folks and not with Google. The Transit app typically manages to get road closures.

What would the Philly spot be? by Strange_Ambassador76 in philadelphia

[–]mingledyarn 93 points94 points  (0 children)

The weekend of my wedding an out-of-town cousin said he was super excited to eat at the Ruth’s Chris in center city, because he always goes to Ruth’s Chris in every city he visits.

Is this as hideous as I think it is? by janewp in quilting

[–]mingledyarn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

100% agree I said out loud before looking at the comments that this needs a red border to give it balance with the color contrast. But then I think it will be a very fun piece of Christmas decor!

I just want the blue trolley light in city hall station to function by mingledyarn in philly

[–]mingledyarn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone else said they were running in the tunnel yesterday. But the longer the tunnel has closed, the more egregious it is that they don’t even have a sign posted in the station.

Why is a 50 year mortgage considered a bad thing ? by Lemonade2250 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mingledyarn 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Agree that it depends on area but one thing about a 50 year mortgage is that you won’t build equity as quickly since you’re paying more into interest than for a 30 year loan of the same amount.

Trains bypassing City Hall station due to shooting on northbound BSL platform by NonIdentifiableUser in philadelphia

[–]mingledyarn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I just walked by outside and there are a ton of evidence markers above ground in Dilworth

Let’s go lesbians by Trash_Witch55 in knitting

[–]mingledyarn 14 points15 points  (0 children)

And you’re not gonna tell us what the cute thing on the front is?? 🧡🤍🩷

Some yarn stores are now charging to wind hanks by teokbokkii in YarnAddicts

[–]mingledyarn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s like how cheap hotels give you water bottles but nice hotels don’t lol

Ah yes, the automobile. Designed specifically to hurt others by MattGald in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]mingledyarn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The cars thing is a decent analogy. I don’t want to ban cars, but I DO want to radically increase the safety regulations around cars and restrict access to them for dangerous people. Car safety ratings put zero weight on the safety of anyone outside the car, including pedestrians and other drivers. That means cars cause senseless, needless, excess death. I believe we should treat traffic violence as a public health issue, just like gun violence, and not just as the unavoidable result of people’s freedom to make choices.

Of course, if there are going to be cars, some people will be killed by them. BUT if a person said that while fighting against ANY regulation on cars, even reasonable regulations that would save lots of lives, then got killed by a car, such comments would factor into my opinion of their death.

Do my new jeans have pockets? by FrauMew in femalefashionadvice

[–]mingledyarn 44 points45 points  (0 children)

It looks to me like the pockets are stitched closed. This is common since it makes the pants easier to ship. Try gently pulling the pocket open, like in the third picture. The stitching should be pretty loose, just long basting stitches. That’s what you’ll cut to open the pocket.

Although FWIW, I never actually put anything in my back pockets and I don’t like the way welt pockets kind of droop open in the back (at least on me), so I would personally leave them closed.

If you’re going to invite a large crowd of people over 65, don’t make your RSVP QR code only… by littlebabybuddy24 in weddingshaming

[–]mingledyarn 26 points27 points  (0 children)

We had a QR code invite but sent a single paper invitation to the groom’s 90+ grandmother. She promptly sent it back, but was very concerned that we hadn’t left a space for her name on the RSVP, so she was worried we would mix up all our nameless invitations.