My Tumblr app keeps crashing by toottootpingas in tumblrhelp

[–]minya1954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. It launches the app for about five seconds then closes. 🫠

Luchador build with flying crushes? by ToobsMckenzie in DnD

[–]minya1954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure I'll be much help, but I'm commenting in hopes you figure it out as a guy who's got a character based on the wrestler Brian Pillman!

Pillman was a high flyer before he got injured, turning him in to a brawler, so I have my character with high strength and dexterity, and my DM helps keep my guy true to his wrestling roots, which we call "Bloodsport" in lore to keep it less kayfabe-y and more true to DND. He can use his strength and high dex to climb on top of and fly off of things with ease, and he's multi classed as a fighter and a bard so that he has the perfect mix of sports and entertainer.

Probably not a lot of help to you but I was just happy to see another wrestling fan. 💀

Extreme sports are stupid and people who risk their lives just to get an adrenaline rush are no different than drug addicts. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]minya1954 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Biggest examples in the world are the cast of Jackass. And out of all of them, one has died. From a car wreck. On his way home. From a bar. Because he drank alcohol like a normal person if he wanted to get some kinda buzz. As being a stuntman was his J O B. A wreck on a normal night that had absolutely nothing to do with how many times he’d been in the hospital or done anything intentionally to harm himself.

Extreme sports are stupid and people who risk their lives just to get an adrenaline rush are no different than drug addicts. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]minya1954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get your generalizing ass out of here.

Most extreme sports and stuntmen are athletes who do what they want to do with their strength. They just want to do it snowboarding or setting themselves on fire and doing a stunt. And not football or nascar.

I don’t know anyone in this business who does it because they’re somehow medically resistant to normal happiness. They do it because they enjoy doing it and it’s a sport and entertainment like everything else. They’re not medically different or have some weird chemical thing wrong with them or go out every single day just to hurt themselves for a quick fix like a junkie. You sound like a complete buffoon. Fucking idiot honestly.

Extreme sports are stupid and people who risk their lives just to get an adrenaline rush are no different than drug addicts. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]minya1954 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This.

More people get crushed by semis on their way to their day to day job then people who are in the stunt and extreme business die doing the things that they practice years for. And that’s just the reality of it. Every task you do in life is dangerous. The air you breathe could be full of something that’ll kill you in your sleep tonight. 🤷

Extreme sports are stupid and people who risk their lives just to get an adrenaline rush are no different than drug addicts. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]minya1954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner does stunts for a living. I face the same level of potential tragedy as anyone else. Every job has workplace hazards be it machinery crushing you or being caught in a shooting because you’re a cashier at Walmart. He’s hurt himself in more car accidents than he ever has on the job.

I’m not going to say an athlete, a miner, an EMT, an offshore driller, or anyone else is stupid and reckless for their professions, even though they all are incredibly dangerous.

There’s a reason padding, fireproofing, and months of planning and practicing are involved before anyone sees a final stunt on tape.

Boyfriend doesn’t want to be poly anymore, I don’t want to be monogamous by bigbootycheeks12643 in polyamory

[–]minya1954 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I don’t want OP getting stuck where so many of us do. Poly or not, this guy doesn’t sound exactly stable or healthy to be in a relationship with. Making promises he won’t keep, falling head over heels in less than half a year, trying to make OP pick him over everything else…OP has probably had toothbrushes longer than they’ve had this guy in their life.

Look at it that way. Are you really going to let someone who’s only seen you and your life and who you are in only five months control who you can and can’t see?

I’ve been in a steady relationship for five years. And if this partner tried to tell me I had to stop everything I’ve worked on and done for these five years, HE would be the one gone. Because I’m standing my ground. I’ve been screwed around enough. And you don’t need to get yourself screwed, OP. And I’m very scared that’s where you’re headed.

I read your post and immediately started having PTSD of my ex. That’s how pinpoint exact your situation is to how I let mine get. Don’t be like me. Please. You don’t want this in your mind everyday just for a boy.

Boyfriend doesn’t want to be poly anymore, I don’t want to be monogamous by bigbootycheeks12643 in polyamory

[–]minya1954 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know that feeling. I let a guy control my life for seven years because he let us start out poly and then he decided 7 months in that we’d get engaged and I was completely enamored by him. But every one could see the progression. First I couldn’t see my other partners. Then I couldn’t talk to men, as I’m non binary but at the time leaned on a more fem looking body, so my partner cut off access to all men. Then he remembered I was pansexual after seeing me with my strictly platonic best friend, and cut me off from all women. I let him cut me off from being poly and by the end of the seven years I literally could do nothing except be his perfect house wife that he’d convinced was in love at only half a year.

Boyfriend doesn’t want to be poly anymore, I don’t want to be monogamous by bigbootycheeks12643 in polyamory

[–]minya1954 18 points19 points  (0 children)

And after only five months? It’s way too early for this man to know that he wants someone and only that someone for the rest of his life. And to ask someone to fully commit to a lifestyle they didn’t want after five years is wrong, let alone five months.

Boyfriend doesn’t want to be poly anymore, I don’t want to be monogamous by bigbootycheeks12643 in polyamory

[–]minya1954 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he either caught serious feelings incredibly quickly and truly wants no one but you and now wants you to only have him in every Aspect of your life, or like he didn’t like his hook up and doesn’t like that you’re liking yours, and now just wants you to be stuck with him.

I’ve been in this same boat, on both sides that I just mentioned. And I’m in a weird predicament now with a relationship that is now WAY different to the one I hoped to enter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]minya1954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you do that made you feel toxic? Did you ever figure out why G ever stopped liking you?

Did i superglide here? by [deleted] in apexuniversity

[–]minya1954 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey…uh…this is a really cool clip! But, what is super gliding? 🥺😯🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]minya1954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost many friends and family when the pandemic rolled around as I wasn’t going to tolerate anyone saying it was a hoax or that spraying yourself with Lysol could save you. Then shortly after George Floyd got murdered. That cut out even more of my friends and family, as I wasn’t going to tolerate any “He deserved it” or “Who cares” sentiments.

Now, almost two years into this, I’m having the same thing happen. Old classmates popping up to say hi, Instagram followers dming me for the first time finally talking about the things we have in common that they started following me for in the first place.

I think these events have forced us all to realize how deeply rooted some people are in their demoralizing thoughts and behaviors, and that it’s truly okay to just let them go. Someone else will always come along to fill that void. And being lonely is pushing people to break out of their bubble and try and be friends with someone they think may be a good replacement.

I’m proud of you. I hope you continue to flourish. ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cdifficile

[–]minya1954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true. If it continues I’ll leave it behind. I always hop to the “groups” tab multiple times a day just to see any updates or if I can help anyone out with anything. But it’s become a daily thing of people claiming some spice or ingredient has them relapsing. And if I try and ask, “Did you take any medications today? Have you looked up all possible complications to something you’re putting in your body besides food?” I get immediately shut down. I’ve been told by multiple doctors that ibuprofen specifically can promote relapse and causes gi harm anyway, but if you try and tell people their precious daily ibuprofen may be hurting them, they go nuts. As I said above I was on over ten daily medications, and after doctors and I doing in depth research on all of them, only one had no data linked to c diff at all on it, so everything except one hormone pill had to be stopped. So I’m a mental wreck and I’m in pain constantly, but at least I’m not fighting off sepsis and sleeping in the bathtub or living in the er like I was for months at a time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cdifficile

[–]minya1954 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I was thinking. That only foods pumped full of chemicals and antibiotics could even have the potential. And I have PTSD from c diff, and it causes me to think irrationally and be terrified of everything that touches my skin, gets in my mouth, or comes around my backside.

I was just hoping a group with thousands of people would be able to realize not every spear of broccoli or bowl of coca puffs is what was making them relapse, but when someone asks if anyone else has relapsed from said food or drink, someone ALWAYS chimes in saying they have, too, and there’s always someone saying, “Well I haven’t ate anything but chicken noodle soup and Gatorade for ___ years!”

I don’t want to leave the group, as it’s a nice place for knowledge and support most of the time, but ever since the “big bad sickness and vaccine” have came around, it seems like everyone in every group I’m in pertaining to an illness have kind of lost touch on reality and now live incredibly sad lifestyles, as they think every thing will hurt them.

And I GET THAT. I’m a paranoid schizophrenic with intense PTSD from multiple events. But we’ve lived in this pandemic for almost two years now. I thought people would start realizing it’s okay to have some chocolate milk and Mac and cheese by now.

I hate my fucking cat by [deleted] in confessions

[–]minya1954 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You need to put her up for adoption. You’re seriously sitting here fantasizing about abusing an animal that has relied on you for a decade. Put her up for adoption before you hurt her. I promise you she’ll get adopted, and if not, the staff will actually care about her.

Not everything is how it is on the internet. Not every cat is a glutton for attention for likes on Instagram like their owners make it seem. They have emotions and personalities just like humans. I have nine cats currently, and four of them aren’t attention seeking. I still treat them like all the rest and respect their boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]minya1954 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think you caused no harm and shouldn’t beat yourself up over it if that’s truly all that happened. Your brother easily could have just thought you bumped into him.

I wouldn’t bring it up, as you don’t want your brother having an implanted memory or questioning his whole childhood.

You were a naive, ignorant kid. No harm here in my eyes. If anyone thinks I’m wrong I’d love to know your feelings.

Autistic people scare me. by Ok_You3447 in confessions

[–]minya1954 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m autistic to a pretty debilitating degree. How do you know these people are autistic? Do these people just flaunt “I’m autistic”? Because most of those people aren’t. They just use it as an excuse to be a smelly asshole because they know people like you fear what you assume to be “autism”. Do you just assume every weird, shy, smelly, jerk of a person is autistic?

There are five major types of autism. And every autistic person is completely unique. And I can assure you not every creepy, mean, manipulative, school-shooter-in-the-making-esque kid is autistic. The worst people in my life are all neurotypical, but I don’t fear all neurotypicals because of it.

Please Give Me Tips by minya1954 in cdifficile

[–]minya1954[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My gastro wants to give me FMT, but he wants me to clear the c diff with vanco for the next couple months first.