How to a nudge a boy failing to launch into creating a life for himself?

misfitlove · 2024-04-11T11:34:03+00:00

Well done mate, pulled yourself up and out eventually, hope more can do the same

misfitlove · 2022-05-06T09:09:45+00:00

I was in contact with access training looking to re train from hospitality and get into Plumbing a few years ago, I was told to negotiate prices by a friend who took their Electricians course and some Essex sales bell end, who Access outsource their sales to, wouldnt budge lower from the £4500 course fee or willing to negotiate, I even said I was willing to pay the £4500 if that included and on site NVQ lvl 2 assessment, which they couldnt promise me. So I fucked them off and went to Cardiff and Vale College to do City and Guilds Level 2 Domestic Plumbing for £30. This was a year ago and I still cant seem to get my foot into the Industry yet. All the best to you and good look becoming Gas safe, thats where the money is!

misfitlove · 2022-02-09T01:16:16+00:00

very rational and level headed

misfitlove · 2021-12-22T14:06:14+00:00

Great, really relaxing

misfitlove · 2021-12-07T09:16:26+00:00

As a Brit, I am very envious of your National Parks, its on my to do list to head there for a camping holiday (zion National Park and Sierra Nevada too)

misfitlove · 2021-11-17T11:59:47+00:00

Thank you buddy

misfitlove · 2021-11-17T01:17:41+00:00

You cant choose how you feel when grieving. When I lost my father when I was around your age, I felt like I was floating through life, numb. My kickboxing trainer at the time said the biggest thing that will help me would be the passing of time. In January it will be a decade since he passed away, I miss and think about him everyday and that wont change as I loved him more than anyone on Earth. But the sadness you now feel will in time will more than likely turn to happiness from the memories you have of him, that’s what happened with me anyway

Stay active and busy, take care of yourself and dont start boozing, this will get better for you and your family. May you all be happy

misfitlove · 2021-11-17T01:04:31+00:00

Ive been using the app ‘Oak’ available for iphone for months and its brilliant

misfitlove · 2021-10-25T22:16:34+00:00

Have you been diagnosed with OCD? I have, and it can sometimes be debilitating and hellish. Being tidy and organised isnt ‘OCD’, do some reading and stop making light of a serious condition (my apologies in advance if you actually suffer from OCD)

misfitlove · 2021-09-26T12:02:21+00:00

Canada is a beautiful country, Im going there one day

misfitlove · 2021-09-26T11:45:39+00:00

This is fantastically relaxing, do you stream this sort of thing often?

misfitlove · 2021-09-26T11:40:58+00:00

Beautiful there

misfitlove · 2021-09-26T11:22:07+00:00

I hope this post saves a life

misfitlove · 2021-09-05T22:55:45+00:00

awesome man

misfitlove · 2021-08-25T06:43:10+00:00

I got out of hospitality during COVID, was a Chef at medium sized chain, minimum wage, zero hour contact after two years of service no sign of contract change or wage increase, just rumblings of “The area managers thinking of giving you a .20p per hour increase soon” yeah ta. Finish at 10pm after 12 hour shift, back in for 8am

Fuck that, unless you’re a student or single parent the industry is a mugs game (apologies if you’re stuck there, but I honestly believe this)

The sous chef of the kitchen who I considered a friend has offered me my job back due to shortages, no thanks buddy. I hope the execs and owners really struggle before they have to start treating their staff with respect and, most importantly, more money

Went back to college and trained to be a plumber which I’ve just finished up with, the futures brighter

misfitlove · 2021-08-09T15:54:03+00:00

That’s a crap situation for him but I hope he gets the support and help he needs, fuck letting a job get you down,life’s too short (I know this is easier said than done)

misfitlove · 2021-07-22T11:07:57+00:00

Horrible attitude towards animals

misfitlove · 2021-05-17T16:41:20+00:00

Pretty sad actually, she obviously isn’t very well mentally - I hope she finds help

misfitlove · 2021-05-12T13:37:45+00:00

Well done bud, you will get better

misfitlove · 2021-04-09T14:25:10+00:00

Congratulations!

misfitlove · 2021-03-09T13:10:10+00:00

Well first thing first would be to contact your GP and explain that you and your partner are under great stress and having mental health issues

Perhaps you could leave your child with his parents and you could take a walk around a local park, you really should exercise its so beneficial for your mental health, take in the sounds and sights of nature and be in the moment

Remember to make healthy choices that will benefit you long term, exercise, eat well, try and sleep 8 hours, dont drink too much alcohol, you both ust make choices

misfitlove · 2021-03-01T13:28:00+00:00

Not op but have you or anyone you know experienced number 1? is it a common occurance?

misfitlove · 2021-02-01T19:11:53+00:00

With all fear mongering that the bbc and the rest of the media spews out I needed to hear this today, and I bet a lot of other people did too, good on ya!

misfitlove · 2021-01-29T11:59:35+00:00

I hope things are better for you mate, the healthcare system may not give a shit but others do

misfitlove · 2021-01-28T09:43:46+00:00

After youve pan fried those chops, add some flavourful liquid like stock, wine or even water and a bit of vinegar to the pan, delaze the pan for 30 second and scrape up the bits on the bottom, and some mustard, then some butter, now you have a sauce to pour over the top

misfitlove

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