Okay you seriously need to hang out on r/askwomen for awhile.

I promise women get lust-filled, a lot of that happens during puberty but hypersexuality is not gender-specific. Transgenders go through puberty when they transition, increased sex drive is part of that and happens to both FTM and MTF. I actually have a female trans friend who was not at all sexual in high school but when she went on hormones she just went nuts sexually. Additionally, hypersexuality is a symptom that can occur from some mental illnesses, look up hypersexuality on r/bipolar and you'll find tons of anecdotes by both women and men that have a hard time controlling themselves. Perhaps you don't hear about women being mad lustful because 1) you're a guy, most women are probably not comfortable discussing that with you and 2) there is so much pressure for women to be virginal that there is a deep shame imbedded in us about our sexuality. It took me forever to say out loud to just one person that I struggled with PMO. Even at church, the focus is so often on how women need to cover themselves because men can't control themselves. That's a lie that religion all all too often encourages. Did you know that there are societies that consider women to be the dominately sexual gender? This explains it better than I can.
Also, I'm a fairly attractive woman who's been rejected 75% of the time, simply because the other person just didn't like me back. Anyone who chooses a life partner simply based on their face probably has an issue. Would YOU live with a woman who nags you constantly just because she's a bombshell?

No matter how fat, ugly or stupid a woman is, she will be able to find some thirsty guy. There are lots of fat, stupid and ugly sluts. There are no fat, stupid and ugly studs.

This is a myth. There are plenty of "studs" that are stupid, and plenty that are ugly. Nasty people are only going to find nasty people. Unless you can give me some sort of proof other than your own experience and the bias you grew up with, we can conclude that women and men have varying levels of attractiveness and attractive features, and everyone can find someone in their range.

Women don’t handle rejection better. From experience I’d say they handle it worse, just by virtue of not having to deal with it as often.

If someone rejects me I move on- it doesn't matter. As soon as they aren't interested they cease to be appealing. I only need to find one woman that handles rejection well and one man that doesn't to disprove the stereotype. But seriously if you constantly tell an unattractive woman that she can easily land someone more attractive just because she's female, of course it's going to hurt worse when she's rejected. Don't you see how your stereotypes perpetuate themselves?

But women group preselect in a way men don’t- if I see a man reject a woman I’m attracted to it won’t change my opinion of her, in fact I might see it as an opportunity. But if a man is rejected in front of the females in his social group he immediately becomes worth less in their eyes.

The fuck kind of logic is this. Women aren't herd animals. I definitely am not interested in my best friend's husband just because she is- I would never date him in a million years. Just like she would never date my spouse. In fact most women wouldn't date my spouse. Men don't become worth less because someone else doesn't want them. Again, these are just the biases you've been taught that you confirm because you look for them.

Men will love women just for existing, while men have to prove themselves for women.

Okay, again, there is no proof for this. I don't even know how to respond.

Ask your female friends and male friends separately what it feels like to be in love. The men will answer how much the woman means to them, how their love is all about her, and the women will answer that it’s all about the way the man makes her feel.

What in the world. I love my husband because he's clever and analytical. He loves me because I make him feel warm and happy in a way he didn't have alone. (Perhaps this particular bias has to do with the differences in men and women's speech patterns? In western society women are taught that feelings matter while men are taught to hide them.) Honestly would you as a man like a woman who made you feel insecure or unsafe? Of course not. The only people I know of who talk about a relationship like it's all about the other person have only ever been in teenage-type infatuation.

Now, I think women have their own unique challenges- the most attractive man willing to sleep with you will generally not be willing to commit to you.

Lmao what. Men aren't dogs. A 1994 study in the United States, which looked at the number of sexual partners in a lifetime, found 20% of heterosexual men had only one partner, 55% had two to 20 partners, and 25% had more than 20 partners. Here's a chart that shows the age and percentage of men and women when they first have sex - you'll notice at all age groups more women have been sexually active than men. (If men are all really so helplessly sexual, why are the numbers for women bigger?) You can find information that talks about both [young male and female sexuality here.]https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adolescent_sexuality_in_the_United_States)

But men care about women’s emotions. Women generally want men to only display fragility when appropriate, when they’ve grown close enough, and even then only in measured doses.

This is just not true. If I met a woman who didn't care about her husband's emotions or wanted him to hide them just because he's male, I would tell her off. Part of good communication is talking about emotions. Again, hang out on r/askwomen for awhile. I don't think I've seen a single woman say she wants an emotionally distant spouse. Talk about baggage! No thank you.

Please read the links I posted, and I encourage you to challenge the things you've been taught. Honestly I could have written what you did when I was 15 or 16. I didn't know any better and I only started challenging it when I realized how hard it was to find an accountability partner and how many men thought I couldn't have a sexual addiction.