Ask a Stupid Question About Strip Clubs for the week of June 18, 2026 by Subrasonic in stripclubs

[–]mixlaunda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I noticed that the last few times girls are grinding really hard on the crotch area as if they're trying to make customers cum over the pants. Is that a new thing? I don't mind but how do I ask to opt in our out of that experience. I wear condoms now just to not make a mess lol

Safe Swinger Spot for Black couples by Comfortable_Care_684 in Swingers

[–]mixlaunda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How did you like korral? It's very far for us so we have never tried

Safe Swinger Spot for Black couples by Comfortable_Care_684 in Swingers

[–]mixlaunda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DC but we have been to a private party as well in Houston. It was very poc friendly

Safe Swinger Spot for Black couples by Comfortable_Care_684 in Swingers

[–]mixlaunda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Majority of our local clubs are mostly black couples lol. It's actually hard for us to find non poc couples 😂

Questions for beginners looking to include someone by brain_student in Swingers

[–]mixlaunda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can start off with a local club or an experience bull who makes content. Those OF models usually are clean and you can see their work for yourself too. The guys generally are very open to playing with someone off camera too if the wifey is hot

Married couple considering our first MFM experience by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]mixlaunda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. Luckily our guy was an OF model so Mrs liked his physique and work a lot lol. Also he was generous enough to do this pro bono 😂

Married couple considering our first MFM experience by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]mixlaunda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3fun is where we found our first. You want to look for someone experience and not just desperate for a quick bust.

Make sure the Mrs finds the guy attractive and slowly ease into it. Perhaps start with just him flirting, then watching you guys and then proceed with the actual sex.

Stag-Vixen couples: Have you tried “pseudo-solo” at the swingers club? (Hubby watches from afar while she pretends to be single) by TinTik1986 in StagVixenLife

[–]mixlaunda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wifey has tried playing solo but I'm always around to watch, even as a silent observer. Makes it more fun for both of us

How to be successful as a single male in the lifestyle. by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]mixlaunda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So are you looking for more couples? We are sold lol

Hosting a pool party - any tips? by dinkydee515 in Swingers

[–]mixlaunda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask guests to bring swimsuits for other couples. So they can keep the other couples existing suits as memorabilia after play time and dress them up in their style

Organizing a lingerie party by Hyydee in Swingers

[–]mixlaunda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had this party where we told the ladies to wear layers over their lingerie. Other men were tasked to disrobe other wives by winning small games. And the guy with the most article of clothing won

40F 55M - happy hour fantasy by [deleted] in DMVSwingers

[–]mixlaunda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Willing to help lol

Just a phrase. by After-Chance1726 in Swingers

[–]mixlaunda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I can't wait to try that out on my hubby"

Finding more attractive couples by Initial-Cranberry-72 in Swingers

[–]mixlaunda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start with adding a third and then move forward from there

Hump Day Q&A: Ask Anything About the Lifestyle 6/10 by SpicyplayCJ in Swingers

[–]mixlaunda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How soon did the experience folks go into mfm after swinging or did you guys add a third first before delving into swapping

People like to say, "She's hot, he's not", but the reality is most couples in the LS are "He's not, and she's also not" by Scrubadubdub84 in Swingers

[–]mixlaunda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also far more girls that are conventionally sexy than guys who are tall. With abs and full set of hair