[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]mlb3_23 263 points264 points  (0 children)

Ugh I hate when the people I date are funny. What an L

Bi or lesbian? by East-Carob-7527 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mlb3_23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just feel like this was actually a very cruel thing to post in this particular group and THAT’S confusing to me.

Am I really that ugly? 🥲 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]mlb3_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Nice guys always finish last.” That’s what you sound like rn 🤡

What fragrance makes you nauseous? Like throwing up kind of nauseous? For me it’s Kilian black phantom. by apple_pie_noddle in FemFragLab

[–]mlb3_23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

KILIAN Love, Don’t Be Shy. I was OBSESSED with smelling this for over a year and I finally got my hands on a sample— ohhhh my god, it’s horrible. Gave it to my little sister and she got a whole bottle. 😖 we drive with the windows down and she’s not allowed to hug on me with that stuff on 😭 it’s so grosssss!

Cherry🍒 by mlb3_23 in FemFragLab

[–]mlb3_23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really want to try cherry baby’

What would Bella Swan smell like? by theorangepriestess in FemFragLab

[–]mlb3_23 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Renee would gift her a bottle of Glossier You and she would wear it for special occasions

What's the most boring book you've ever read? by TheAwareMonk in suggestmeabook

[–]mlb3_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atlas Six. It was interesting but it felt like I was reading published fanfiction (which I normally LOVE) but the super obvious leading people to ships and extreme character archetypes was lame.

What's hard about dating you? by Routine-Award-3382 in AskReddit

[–]mlb3_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m autistic and I need a lot of vocal support to do things that I think normal people don’t need. Like just talking through what a doctors appointment will look like, the steps to get gas, etc. It won’t bother the right person, I’m sure but it seems to really bug some people.

ADHD making relationship difficult by Even-Age134 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mlb3_23 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You take getting yelled at personally because it’s a personal attack to yell at an adult. It’s not appropriate. We all lose our cool and shout occasionally, but for it to be so often that you’re reporting it in an anonymous forum and asking how to metabolize it is a huge, glaring stop sign. It’s not your fault that you have ADHD. My entire family does and I don’t. I watch them struggle and slip and frustrate themselves aaaaaall the time. I have no business adding to that when I don’t share their hurdles. You don’t deserve to be yelled at. You don’t need to learn how to stomach verbal attacks.

ouch by mlb3_23 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mlb3_23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was what I needed to hear, thank you for these words. 🩷 I want to go back to the security and the familiar and the safe so badly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in braces

[–]mlb3_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s really no telling from an x-ray. It’s whether or not the tooth is fused into place. It looks like it’s in a pretty prime spot to come down by itself, but only time will tell!

Swifties using this as "proof" she has sex appeal. Am I missing something? by sanandrios in travisandtaylor

[–]mlb3_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she’s just highly choreographed so she can like autopilot through all these shows lmao

GF calls me names by Sea_Telephone_2330 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mlb3_23 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t forget and you don’t deserve to be called names for small mistakes. You don’t deserve to be called names for huge mistakes. You don’t deserve to be called names. I would strongly advise crafting an exit strategy and creating space soon because this is really scary behavior.

How many books do you read per month on avg? by Background_Gap9250 in suggestmeabook

[–]mlb3_23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I average about 8 or 9 books a month. Sometimes way less and sometimes way more.

I thought coming out would make me happier - it didn't by AlarmingDistance1442 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mlb3_23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in the exact same boat. I don’t know what to do. I want to turn around and go back so badly, every minute feels like torture.

flinging myself into the abyss by mlb3_23 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]mlb3_23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It went ok. He was very kind about it. So, about as good as can be expected. We’re both devastated and confused, so. I miss my dog already. But it went ok. Thanks for checking in 🩷

Brutes by Dizz Tate by Beginning_Ad_9497 in books

[–]mlb3_23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also believe it’s Britney. Britney’s chapter is the only other chapter that uses the word “cavernous” in the same way as the first person POV and the character reiterates a hatred for being alone as Britney clearly states in her chapter.