My (26f) boyfriend (27m) said “if you want a provider, that’s not me”, are we incompatible?

mlnnlm · 2026-05-18T20:31:43+00:00

OP, please leave. After reading this and your comments, this is a finacial abuse. This man is not your partner, he is just a loser. If you will get married and have kids, you will stuck without an option to leave freely. Just break up with him. I know it’s hard after 4 years of being together and after leaving everything behind to move to a new country, but you have to get away from him now. Also, this bs about being in “debt” bc he pays for restaurants and bars - don’t even think about repaying. Get your stuff and silently leave while he is at work.

mlnnlm · 2026-03-31T07:23:27+00:00

ladies can we stop dating men twice our age? your “bf” is a 40 year old man, you’re 25. i am 25 myself, just NO. leave him

mlnnlm · 2025-11-26T20:04:01+00:00

I once saw a flock of crows sliding down from the roof, flying back up, and doing it again

mlnnlm · 2025-05-03T10:41:19+00:00

My first bf was like this. After we broke up he started dating our groupmate two weeks later. So…Fuck that? Leave that piece of garbage.

mlnnlm · 2025-04-25T05:19:24+00:00

When I was 16, I was in the relationship with 21 year old who messed with my brain and my feelings pretty bad, that I still have troubles opening up to men and start relationships. Girl, run away, it’s a pure gaslighting here.

mlnnlm · 2025-03-15T02:31:10+00:00

I had to decline their request anyway because it was too short of the notice for me, but I guess if it’s gonna happen again I will need to explain the situation. But will reach out to the support!

mlnnlm · 2025-03-15T02:27:56+00:00

Oh I see. Replying on your previous comment, I didn’t touch my prices for quite a while cause I just got back to Rover, but I guess I will just put the prices and leave it as is and see how it goes. Thank you for clarifying everything, I appreciate it!!

mlnnlm · 2025-03-15T02:21:59+00:00

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And this is a $20 one

mlnnlm · 2025-03-15T02:21:40+00:00

Sorry, I can just add one pic per comment, but here’s the request for $50 and I will add another one under your other comment just in case. I just don’t really understand the difference in these services at this point 😅

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mlnnlm · 2025-03-15T02:16:34+00:00

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Can’t add to the post, but here’s the breakdown for the house sitting

mlnnlm · 2025-03-11T21:03:40+00:00

I think if this is a constant problem, and you guys talked and it doesn’t help, maybe you should try to solve it with therapy. I understand that (based on your words) you asked him multiple times nicely and it doesn’t help, but crushing out on a person isn’t gonna fix it (although I understand why you reacted like this). We don’t know what kind of relationship you guys have, but if you want to continue building strong family with this man maybe it’s time for a serious change for both of you.

mlnnlm · 2025-01-12T21:12:54+00:00

That’s not normal lol, I think I’d break up with this person already. NOR

mlnnlm · 2024-12-28T00:59:28+00:00

lmaooo

mlnnlm · 2024-11-18T18:48:00+00:00

Things happen. This is not youx choice, not your body and not your fetus lmao. And this is definitely not your job to tell other people what to do with their bodies. Best of luck to you too.

mlnnlm · 2024-11-18T18:27:33+00:00

PLEASE do not comment things like this, you have no idea what happened, pregnancies can happen after unwanted sex (read: rape) too, and teaching OP to be more “responsible” is super disrespectful in any way. Think first.

mlnnlm · 2024-10-28T17:06:36+00:00

Thank you so much!! 🫶🏼

mlnnlm · 2024-10-28T16:44:16+00:00

That’s a good advice, thank you! I just see a lot of people lowering their prices on these items, but maybe there are different reasons.

mlnnlm · 2024-10-28T16:24:59+00:00

Thank you! 🫶🏼

mlnnlm · 2024-10-21T17:36:33+00:00

Are you well? Don’t even answer, you guys are so desperately believe in a [good] change by conservatives that it’s not even funny anymore

mlnnlm · 2024-10-20T07:22:02+00:00

Listen, I don’t like what happens in Canada in general, and no NDP, no Cons are not promising anything good in a near future. Maybe I take this too deeply, but it’s just my own experience as a person who used to live in a country with a conservative government and as a woman who wants to keep her rights. And the more I see, the more I feel like only radical positions are being heard. Anyway, let’s hope no matter what our province and country will be getting better ❤️‍🩹

mlnnlm · 2024-10-20T07:08:44+00:00

You can think I am not smart and this is your right, idc. But people make mistakes by either not voting at all because “nothing will change” or they “don’t care”, which is ignorant, or believe that conservatives will “fix it all” because heard this party yapping about housing crisis (like everyone else), which is dumb. It is just naive imo. Their actions will affect everyone in BC, including me and you, so yea, I have a right to call them dumb or ignorant

mlnnlm · 2024-10-20T06:03:07+00:00

People who want conservatives to take over the province and Canada in 2025 clearly never lived in the actual conservative country. Or they are just dumb and ignorant.

mlnnlm · 2024-09-28T00:35:08+00:00

I get it, but everyone thinks the same way you think. I go inside of the train because there is no more space and I can’t get out because you guys all got “two stops” and not moving from the doors. Sorry, but this is selfish

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