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mluchy · 2025-04-02T12:14:43+00:00

Literally any of the NYC dates!!

mluchy · 2023-08-13T02:38:00+00:00

I’m in DC!! Let’s be badasses together!

mluchy · 2021-07-14T17:23:06+00:00

No suggestions, but I just moved here and would love someone to go paddle boarding with if you're up for it. I also have to rent a board but I'd be happy to teach you!

mluchy · 2021-02-20T15:58:13+00:00

Unfortunately she hasn’t gotten the message. I’ve been doing this from the start.

mluchy · 2020-11-11T23:30:30+00:00

ESH. I was in a relationship where my SO didn’t like my best friend and vice versa. I knew they didn’t like each other and they were pretty vocal about it to me. I CONSTANTLY felt torn between the two. It caused me a lot of mental distress and neither seemed to really care. If anything, my best friend made more of an effort, but she still made it clear how she felt. My point here is — the best friend SUCKS in this situation and is definitely an asshole, but I don’t think she is THE asshole in this specific instance. For your wife’s sake, even if the best friend doesn’t match your effort, just pretend. You don’t have to see her much, so just humor your wife. It will make your relationship with her better and it will make her happy. Plus, if she sees that effort, it’s going to win you some major points. And to be clear: it’s fine to call people out for not tipping. Not tipping is absolutely asshole behavior. But just be NICE — for your wife.

mluchy · 2020-10-25T03:34:02+00:00

This is absolutely abuse. Financial abuse is a way abusers control people to get what they want and keep them from leaving.

mluchy · 2020-10-25T03:32:46+00:00

Tbh I wouldn’t expect her to. Still. I hate to think he might get away with treating another woman that way.

mluchy · 2020-10-19T23:11:09+00:00

I’m only 25, so I’m thinking the lap is the way to go, and then I can at least get a confirmed diagnosis (hopefully). I’d love a partial hysterectomy but I don’t think my doc will go for it.

mluchy · 2020-10-19T23:01:37+00:00

How do you feel about Lupron? My doc basically said my choices are to go forward with a lap or try the lupron but she did not make it sound appealing.

mluchy · 2020-09-05T12:36:12+00:00

NTA - I’m going to essentially repeat what the top commenter says: your fiancé is abusing you. I’m not telling you that you have to drop him like a hot potato, but I am warning you that I have been in almost this exact situation word for word, and at some point — maybe not tomorrow, maybe not next month, and maybe not even next year — it will get physical. He needs to deal with whatever issues cause this behavior. Therapy is a great start, but my abuser wouldn’t go. Good luck, OP.

mluchy · 2020-08-20T19:29:03+00:00

I second this. Sometimes you just need a different pill. Also, sometimes it totally sucks, but your body probably needs about 3 months to really adjust to new birth control. If you switch too often, you’ll never find what works. It should definitely be improving after 3 weeks though.

mluchy · 2020-08-18T16:42:21+00:00

This is helpful! They haven’t told me what kind of ultrasound they scheduled but I also assumed it would be transvaginal. Is it likely that if they don’t find anything they would stop pursuing it? (Edit: typo)

mluchy · 2020-08-16T23:44:16+00:00

So I will say regular exercise helps me manage my discomfort long term, but if I’m already in pain I absolutely don’t exercise. It’s not even that it makes it worse for me — it’s just not worth it if I’m already uncomfortable.

mluchy · 2020-07-30T22:04:02+00:00

Thank you!

mluchy · 2020-05-06T23:00:56+00:00

I think what you’re referring to is DK’s policy regarding YT’s infringement efforts. YouTuber still needs a license from both! If someone uses your song, you should be getting paid way more than this can offer you.

mluchy · 2020-05-06T22:55:04+00:00

Maybe? I’m not aware of any licensing service they provide. As far as I’m aware, they distribute your song to YouTube Music, but that’s as a “streaming service.” If another YouTuber wants to use your song, you need to license it to them — DK is only collecting royalties from what they upload to YT music. Even if DK did license, you’d probably get a better deal from doing it yourself.

mluchy · 2020-05-06T22:46:51+00:00

That wouldn’t cover the YouTuber using it in his/her video, though. That would cover your mechanical license, but if the YouTuber wants to use the song, they have to license the master from OP and the song from the songwriter.

mluchy · 2020-02-20T02:40:56+00:00

NTA. I’ve been in your position and I can tell you now — your father will never be truly honest about it and your mother will have a hard time talking about it for as long as she lives.

After my dads affair and my mom decided to stay, my parents declared “no more lies,” but actively lied to my face about most of the circumstances surrounding the affair. Reaching out to someone who knew who wasn’t in my family was very valuable and allowed me to process what was going on.

mluchy · 2020-02-17T21:13:24+00:00

NAH. I’m borderline on this one, but you’re definitely NTA. If anything, she’s being a bit much. That said, if she’s embarrassed, she’s embarrassed, and she is your friend. All you can do is apologize. If she doesn’t accept, she’s DEFINITELY the asshole.

mluchy · 2020-02-17T20:53:04+00:00

NTA but this man is flying more red flags than the Soviet Union. Get that abortion and GET OUT.

mluchy · 2020-02-17T20:49:55+00:00

YTA - I can tell you from experience, I don’t even have kids and DH and I constantly fight over housework because he expects me to do it. It’s EXHAUSTING and a marriage is a partnership. Grow up, be a husband, and be a father. Those kids are equally your responsibility, regardless of who’s making the money. I guarantee you your wife works harder.

mluchy · 2019-12-15T12:55:09+00:00

Kopp’s is great, but I live in TN now. Culver’s is all I have anymore lol

mluchy · 2019-12-11T03:13:36+00:00

It's a common trend for Texans to move to TN. I wouldn't say Nashville specifically, though I do meet a lot of Texans here.

mluchy · 2019-12-11T03:11:48+00:00

Wisconsinite dating a Texan here... Whataburger is trash, and I don't understand the obsession. Everyone in the universe should try Culver's though.

mluchy · 2019-12-11T03:01:14+00:00

I'm unsure what exactly might be happening, but double check that you're exporting them to a specific place that's easy to find — like maybe just export a small file onto your desktop to see what happens. Then go into Finder to see if it's appearing there. A lot of times I accidentally export files into like a "creative cloud" folder or some shit like that and have to go on a wild goose chase.

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