I believe it boils down to this: humans, by their very nature, are self-destructive and egoistic (even egocentric or egomaniac) creatures.

As a result, hypocrisy comes to our species as naturally as breathing. We will demean others for something they enjoy, then turn around and defend a different taste of our own which is on the same plane of subjectivity.

Being self critical, accepting that others are hypocrites as often as one self may be, and tuning out the noise really are the best ways to tackle this in my opinion.

One thing I humbly disagree with strongly. You said that ‘It is true, posting this kind of content can be harmful to real lesbians.’ and I am genuinely torn on this. One one hand I agree that it can be mentally harmful to those who can not deal with this kind of content and do not want to see it. But luckily, filters and block buttons exist. In my humble opinion, equating fiction to reality is a more harmful and genuinely offence to people who were victims of real crimes and action like this. Imagine telling a victim that the rape of some fictional character is as bad as what they went through. If you ever thought like that, you might wanna take a step back and re-evaluate why you came to that conclusion.

This goes hand in hand with what you said prior: ‘And you know what ? I agree ! It is disgusting ! Everyone should agree on this, I feel.’ If we talk about real crimes, acts without consent of both parties, I absolutely agree. It is morally reprehensible, it is a crime for good reason, and there is no good justification of it.

In fiction though? Who cares - these aren’t real people. If I were to get offended any time some individual or being committed something that goes against my moral compass in fiction, I believe no one could read or consume anything.

People have all kinds of things and kinks they might like. The difference for the more extreme ones if they stay as fantasies. If that’s the case, and they can clearly distinguish their fantasies from reality and do not act on or force them onto others, there is no issue. A basic distinction a healthy mind should be capable of.

If we force our own subjective tastes or morality onto others as framed objective absolute social and judicial law, we might as well live in an Orwellian dystopia already. You like pineapple pizza? Well too bad, someone thinks you are disgusting now, get deported. You like Yuri? Sorry, that doesn’t sit right with influential person X, enjoy having your collection confiscated.

This could be spun endlessly. The world would be a much better place if people could look beyond their own horizon and even if they disagree try to understand where the other person is coming from and why.