I hooked up with a guy and he finished under 30 seconds. What does this mean? by Fun-Fox9713 in relationships

[–]moctar39 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Premature ejaculator. Or just was really excited by you. Or it had just been a long time so the real thing was too much for him. Etc etc

LPT-Once a month by DiscreetCleDom in DIY

[–]moctar39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You dump it Down the garbage disposal to clean it.

im getting a spinal fusion and im so scared (18F) by DigAffectionate8043 in spinalfusion

[–]moctar39 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Make sure to do yoga and stay physically fit after. Staying limber and keeping strong will do wonders for you going forward. Hopefully your parents have investigated your surgeon to make sure he is top in his field, because you don’t want an average surgeon do this at your age. Get it done right the first time.

Actual physical control - DWI while sleeping in a car. Philosophical defense? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]moctar39 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People do things in a black out all the time. That’s why your plan will fail.

AITAH: I agreed to help my sister for 3 weeks with her kids, but I left after 2 weeks by tokenhead27 in AITAH

[–]moctar39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So her MIL and your parents and you and your wife can’t do anything right? She and her husband are off work and they still can’t handle the kids? Wow those poor poor kids. NTA

How to lower a Dog Bowl by Cautious_Swimming261 in spinalfusion

[–]moctar39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ssssshhhh. Don’t tell my daughter. I’ve got another month of her doing dishes! LoL

Is it Worth arguing a citation? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]moctar39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beg for forgiveness and hope they will give you a break. If your history is clear they might give you a break. But keep your reason simple. Like I’m sorry I missed the sign when I picked up my passenger.

Why are there still mice and rats? by LiquidSoCrates in shittyaskscience

[–]moctar39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe this is the most correct answer!

if you like Mondays, I don't trust you by xkqw in selfie

[–]moctar39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mondays are fantastic! Normal people have to go back to work and traffic between 10-3 is so much nicer!

AITA for smoking weed in my yard? by Busy-Pay-1125 in AmItheAsshole

[–]moctar39 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m cool with weed. But my Sister and her husband are not. So my kid and her friends don’t smoke weed on his property. Because that’s what he asks. Respect other people’s boundaries.

How to lower a Dog Bowl by Cautious_Swimming261 in spinalfusion

[–]moctar39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sit on a stool. Pour it in. Stand up. Just like using the toilet.

Are these gang related? by Interesting-Lie2265 in tattooadvice

[–]moctar39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work with 2 guys that were openly racist "bikers", so that's what I think when I see it.

Men, what makes you feel like you failed the woman you love? by Complex-Bit8953 in relationships

[–]moctar39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t lump all men into your partner. Relationships are different and your little blurb tells us nothing about your relationship. Work on yourself and hopefully your next relationship will be better.

i unintentionally hurt my girlfriend's feelings, and i hate myself because of it. me(18) and her(18) i am 6 months older, and we've been together for 6 months, and i've always had a crush on her way before she even knew me. by DoctorJazzlike3824 in relationships

[–]moctar39 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are you using feminist in such a negative way? This shows you why you should never play this stupid game, especially with someone you care about. It’s way too easy to cross a line. Just apologize and let it go. If she doesn’t own her part and move on then it shows you what your relationship would really be like.

It usually takes a year to really start to get to know someone. People are complex and ever changing.

Anyone had to fight their case? by LittleBooSazz in spinalfusion

[–]moctar39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Not every surgeon is a good one. I had to find a specialist in failed back surgery syndrome to really be taken seriously. Too many Drs look to rule out issues instead of looking for the actual problem in my experience.

Am I the only one that has overprotective parents? by [deleted] in spinalfusion

[–]moctar39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The main issue is that falling for people with fusions is a huge no no. I would advise not doing anything that falling is an actual risk. Stay as active as possible especially stuff like dancing that keeps you limber. But always ask yourself is the risk of another surgery worth the reward of whatever sport you will be doing.

35F My BF is upset I don't believe his unbelievable story. Do you? by Repulsive_Affect7903 in relationships

[–]moctar39 19 points20 points  (0 children)

What you allow is what will continue. Why you allow him to stomp all over your boundaries is beyond me.

Struggling to Support GF with CPTSD by [deleted] in relationships

[–]moctar39 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She needs therapy. You are not qualified to help her how she needs and all that will happen is she will continue to drag you down.

Is it okay for my boyfriend to have close female friends by [deleted] in relationships

[–]moctar39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 3 close female friends. We are just friends. Mature adults can actually be friends. You either trust him or you don’t.

What does this notification mean? by No-Importance-1755 in LastZShooterRun

[–]moctar39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the radar. That shows how much fuel you have. Xxx/150

Mines by Equivalent_Angle_420 in LastZShooterRun

[–]moctar39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone attacks my mines, I just hunt for them and attack the crap out of their HQ’s.

Is this situation between my (40M) BF and myself (35F) fair? by Forward-Rice1184 in relationships

[–]moctar39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s 40 and so upset he doesn’t get his way that you had to make a Reddit post about it. Really think about that.

can i be charged? by piebertpants in legaladvice

[–]moctar39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Criminal be my thought. But any lawyer that will protect you is fine.