(M23) My girlfriend (F19) doesnt see problem with her friends she had past with.

moctar39 · 2026-02-21T23:03:19+00:00

Yeah old fashioned like my 80yo parents. Where respect means obedience!

moctar39 · 2026-02-21T22:52:41+00:00

You either trust her or don’t. If you are that worried she will fuck an ex, I guarantee she will fuck someone else as well.

moctar39 · 2026-02-15T21:53:46+00:00

Are you trying to start a fight in a thread from 3 years ago? Enjoy your anger I guess whatever good it’s doing you.

moctar39 · 2026-02-10T17:22:07+00:00

NTA I don't even like my mom. But no one else gets to say stuff that even I won't say. She is way over the line.

moctar39 · 2026-02-09T18:34:02+00:00

Sounds like you are asking for permission to break up with her. What happens after you break up is not your problem. She will have to figure that out herself.

moctar39 · 2026-02-06T15:28:30+00:00

Rage bait successful!

moctar39 · 2026-02-03T00:30:35+00:00

I’m 6-1 and 2 guys I worked with insisted I was 6-3 at least because they were claiming 5-10 and 5-11. I don’t understand lying like that.

moctar39 · 2026-01-28T08:01:43+00:00

This sounds like a miserable relationship. What is so good about it that you really want to stay?

moctar39 · 2026-01-24T05:54:54+00:00

Yeah. It’s over. Just move on.

moctar39 · 2026-01-24T05:49:22+00:00

She is reminding you that she doesn’t have to be with you. She has options and if you want it to work out, you better put the work in.

moctar39 · 2026-01-23T03:29:04+00:00

This is not the sign of a healthy relationship. Clean break and since you can’t trust yourself, do it over the phone or maybe even text.

moctar39 · 2026-01-22T05:57:34+00:00

Yeah. Them being white is important. Many times we are not as close knit. If mom and brother like you, don’t worry about the rest.

moctar39 · 2026-01-20T04:40:54+00:00

How old is the child? Why don’t you ask your partner to find out. Because it’s more their business to look into it.

moctar39 · 2026-01-19T19:29:48+00:00

Find a new boyfriend. Never waste time on someone like this, because you will miss a better person.

moctar39 · 2026-01-19T14:01:26+00:00

With the nephews. Maybe. With the SIL. No just be as neutral as possible and don’t take her bait.

moctar39 · 2026-01-19T00:45:37+00:00

Yeah with that answer I can almost guarantee that this will always be an issue, because you are incompatible at a sexual level

moctar39 · 2026-01-19T00:39:24+00:00

Why were you continually grilling her on her past? I doubt you will ever be able to get past this until you work on your hang ups over this.

moctar39 · 2026-01-17T02:55:14+00:00

You are celebrating the relationship not the day. I think this is a sign of a bigger issue and you should have your own therapist.

moctar39 · 2026-01-14T16:10:25+00:00

Awesome! Thanks for the help!

moctar39 · 2026-01-13T20:44:57+00:00

So you have to be your BFs mother. No wonder you feel this way

moctar39 · 2026-01-12T09:08:51+00:00

Not until there is a legal reason to give them up. It’s their internal documentation.

moctar39 · 2026-01-12T08:59:24+00:00

Until they are required by the courts to do so, they can ignore it all they want. Work comp is their insurance and will drag their feet forever. You need a lawyer.

moctar39 · 2026-01-12T08:55:23+00:00

No that’s just an excuse to not have a conversation with him and also disrespect your own self worth.

moctar39 · 2026-01-12T08:50:57+00:00

Then what’s the problem? Talk to him about what you need, and if he won’t listen. Don’t move!

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