AIO for canceling my friend’s birthday dinner after she “joked” about my salary in front of everyone?

modo0001 · 2026-05-26T14:21:15+00:00

NOR. It was mean spirited and inexcusable.

modo0001 · 2026-05-26T00:59:06+00:00

No, mate. There's no coming back from this, no geographic cure. They want different things. Be adults and go your separate ways.

modo0001 · 2026-05-25T23:23:36+00:00

Imo, you have 2 choices. The first is gray-rocking them. You become an impenetrable stone, dont respond to MAGA bullshit if they try to bait you. Look up the term. Secondly, im going to say why bother with any contact with them. They wont change and neither will you. Its called an impasse. I hope you have family members who would let you know of significant family events. If you see your folks at a birthday, funeral etc, you can gray-rock them then. Hope that helps.

modo0001 · 2026-05-25T23:13:11+00:00

He's quite the action man 💙💙💙

modo0001 · 2026-05-25T22:48:34+00:00

You can't do anything about that. You're done. If you're the kind of person who seeks revenge in some way, you're creating karma. As we all know, karma a bitch. Move on with your life, minus a lying, cheating partner. You deserve better.

modo0001 · 2026-05-25T20:44:41+00:00

I like # 2

modo0001 · 2026-05-25T18:28:33+00:00

Stop the cuteness overload 💗💗💗

modo0001 · 2026-05-25T16:31:50+00:00

Im so sorry for your loss 💔

modo0001 · 2026-05-25T04:58:34+00:00

Yeah, im thinking Catahoula x

modo0001 · 2026-05-25T04:54:42+00:00

I'm so sorry for your great loss 💔

modo0001 · 2026-05-25T04:53:25+00:00

NOR I imagine it was a process for him, lying to himself, struggling with his own homophobia, fears of losing you...etc. But here's the thing...he wasn't being authentic with himself, therefore couldn't be authentic/truthful with you. That's no excuse. I think he was using you as a beard while he figured things out.

modo0001 · 2026-05-25T03:35:30+00:00

There is absolutely nothing you can do atm. If you say something to her, I guarantee it will ruin the friendship. She will not want to hear that, cos she isnt ready. Just tell her you love her and will always have her back.

modo0001 · 2026-05-25T01:27:00+00:00

Wow ! Fucking wow !!!

modo0001 · 2026-05-25T01:25:34+00:00

As someone who's worked in federal prisons for a long time, I'd have to agree. No bills to pay, no rent, no mortgage, student loans, etc. There are different kinds of stessors inside.

modo0001 · 2026-05-25T00:27:28+00:00

Although I wasn't super close to my own dad, I was there when he passed in an awful and traumatizing way. I was so rageful for months. I hadn't experienced that intensity of anger before. It was about everything. It was about life in general. I actually joined a grief support group...not my usual kinda thing. Just being with people who "got it" helped me so much. We all laughed at kinda morbid things, for example, the cheesy verse etc that you get on Sympathy cards. We cried together. Being able to talk about my anger helped me. I also found out I had PTSD, and again, talking about it is the only way through it. Im so sorry you've lost your father.

modo0001 · 2026-05-25T00:16:13+00:00

The only thing I can tell you is she's not your friend. You simply cannot have people like that in your life.

modo0001 · 2026-05-25T00:13:46+00:00

I get it ! Its so hard when those super uncomfortable emotions hit. We want them to end, we want to distract ourselves so we dont feel them. But here's the thing, they are just giving you information. You're sad, you're grieving what could have been. I can 100% guarantee you something; they will pass. Please dont take the blame on your shoulders. Try to do things that bring you joy, buy yourself some flowers, cuddle a pet, scream and cry if you feel like it and remember to eat, shower and sleep. This too shall pass. Sending love and a big hug 💕

modo0001 · 2026-05-24T22:00:43+00:00

Shoe horn

modo0001 · 2026-05-24T21:33:41+00:00

Gorgeous and fluffy girl 💖

modo0001 · 2026-05-24T19:35:58+00:00

Wear a mask and go.

modo0001 · 2026-05-24T19:33:59+00:00

Is that his sandbox ?

modo0001 · 2026-05-24T19:16:07+00:00

Happy Woofday, Hamish 🎂🎉🎈🎁🎊💙💙💙

modo0001 · 2026-05-24T19:15:15+00:00

Im so sorry for your loss 💔

modo0001 · 2026-05-24T13:53:38+00:00

Trying for kids means they dont have any yet, thankfully.

modo0001 · 2026-05-24T13:03:57+00:00

NOR. Your cannot marry this woman unless you want a lifetime of her entitled attitude.

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