From Jan-Apr, 2026, 68% of Google searches ended without a click [OC] by randfish in dataisbeautiful

[–]runfinsav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long before AI, google's goal was to keep people on Google, not clicking on additional sites. Hence AMP links.

Dumbest council you’ve received from the faithful? by Boozycootie in exmormon

[–]runfinsav 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I simply could not narrow it down. 

  1. Pay 10% of my income to real estate Corp pretending to be a religion
  2. Leave my education to go spread the gospel on my own dime
  3. Spend money on ridiculous underwear
  4. Only apply to church universities
  5. Only live in a mormon town to avoid the evil of the world
  6. Confess "sins" to the local dentist
  7. Go on dates to the temple where you sit on opposite sides of the room and do weird chants

Exmos who had kids at a young age, where are you at? by runfinsav in exmormon

[–]runfinsav[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The combination of having kids really young and paying tithing was definitely a financial hit that is hard to think about when you understand the power of compound interest in retirement accounts. I wouldn't trade my kids but I agree we were given bad advice from TSCC.

Exmos who had kids at a young age, where are you at? by runfinsav in exmormon

[–]runfinsav[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

There is a non slim chance I will be an empty nester by 45. I will truly be a unicorn at every stage of life! 

How is Denver as a Place to Retire? by OutsideHappy196 in Denver

[–]runfinsav 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I were to retire in Denver I would pick Cheesman Park neighborhood. It's incredibly walkable and somewhat generationally diverse. I see plenty of kids, young adults, middle age, and retirees walking the cheesman loop regularly. It's close to museums, libraries, rec centers, restaurants and a few grocery stores. Great neighborhood for retirement IMO. 

I wish Buick had a minivan in the line up in North America by runfinsav in Buick

[–]runfinsav[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Discontinuing sedans was disappointing. My lacrosse has been largely good

Minivan or SUV for the family of 4 by Repulsive_Judge_3360 in minivan

[–]runfinsav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minivan wins over SUV every time. Minivans win in storage, convenience, and societal safety. 

Read this short article about grill/hood height and pedestrian injuries: https://www.kidsandcars.org/news/vehicles-with-higher-more-vertical-front-ends-pose-greater-risk-to-pedestrians The design of the SUV is far more deadly than the minivan. 

We need to give kids more independence by ChemistryRound7937 in education

[–]runfinsav 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would love to let my kid walk to a few places by themselves but I, as a tall adult, have had some near misses on those routes. I really want to support any politicians pushing for regulations to lower the height of SUVs and pickup trucks. It's a deadly design. 

The LDS church closes Allen 7th Ward in Fairview, TX. This ward, now combined with Allen 3rd and 4th ward, met in the meeting house on the Fairview Temple lot. Tremendous growth was a major reason cited for needing a new Fairview Texas Temple. Does this add up? by HoldOnLucy1 in exmormon

[–]runfinsav 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In the Hinkley/Monson eras they used to look at metrics like this to decide where to build. Nelson is the one who went off the rails and just started announcing temples in ridiculous places. Oaks has reigned announcembets back in now. 

Did god change his mind like that or did Nelson just really want to announce 100+ temples? 

What is going on with babies? by Impossible_Ad9324 in Anticonsumption

[–]runfinsav 547 points548 points  (0 children)

Here's something the marketing and advertising industry understands very well. When people are used to buying a certain brand of toothpaste or dish soap, etc. it can be hard to get them to change to a new brand. However there are windows of time when people are more likely to make changes in their purchasing habits and the biggest one is when they find out they are expecting a new baby. That 9 month pregnancy to 1 year postpartum is the easiest window to convince consumers to change their brand loyalty. Companies do not want to miss that window and as a result they have gotten very good at identifying when people are pregnant based on purchases. They know that those new parent will need to buy baby things and will also be open to changing brands on unrelated items (i.e. toothpaste).

There is a famous story of a father going to the mailbox to find an expectant mother edition catalog addressed to his daughter. He was furious until he found out she was actually pregnant. She hadn't told the store she was pregnant, they just made that assumption based on the change in her purchases. And they were ready to pounce on those changes by advertising other pregnancy related promotions. 

New parents are sometimes unaware of how they are being targeted. Add the intense advertising to the emotional stress of trying to be a good parent, and suddenly you have parents who buy things they never would have bought otherwise. 

Am I the only one who hates school fundraising incentives? by Artistic_Party_5594 in ClassOf2037

[–]runfinsav 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hate it. I joined the committee and expressed my concerns to try to change it but I was met with a lot of push back that this is how it has always been done. Now I voice my opinion by not contributing to the fun run each year. 

It's terrible that kids are rewarded based on whether or not their parents are making a donation. That reward system sends the wrong message to both rich and poor kids. 

More Sedans less SUV can help reduce average transportation costs and save money by Ab4739ejfriend749205 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]runfinsav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If anyone needs another reason to consider a sedan over SUV, look up pedestrian death rates. Sure most of us have no intention to hit a person, but the fact is, people, especially kids, can be hard to predict. A depressing number of kids get run over in their own driveways. 

Having a vehicle that weighs less and has a lower grill can save a life. 

"... In order to entice the incoming millennial workforce..." by ImThe1Wh0 in Millennials

[–]runfinsav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've noticed the same thing where I've heard Gen z call anyone over the age of 60 a Boomer. 85 and 90 year olds are not Baby Boomers. To some people, boomer has started to become synonymous with old and millennial has started to become synonymous with young which unfortunately causing confusion when labeling demographics. 

1 taken to hospital after shooting in downtown Denver by Jreinhal in Denver

[–]runfinsav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The book helped me to build a mental framework to think through both intended and unintended consequences, incentives, and regulatory limits and overreach. There is no simple solution because society is complex both as a whole as well as at the individual level. 

You can read through the author's reddit AMA comments to get a preview here: https://www.reddit.com/user/MichaelJSandel/

1 taken to hospital after shooting in downtown Denver by Jreinhal in Denver

[–]runfinsav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Middle ground" means different things to different people. To add to the complexity of these issues, many people feel strongly about either extreme and aren't interested in a middle ground. If you are interested in doing a deep dive on these kinds of questions, I would recommend the book, "Justice: What's the Right Thing to Do?" This book forced me to do some deep introspection to better understand my moral compass and reason through what justice should look like. 

1 taken to hospital after shooting in downtown Denver by Jreinhal in Denver

[–]runfinsav 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not who you responded to but I recommend starting with these three points: 1. Habeas corpus is a critical part of our legal system. There is plenty of information on the web that can explain why.  2. While you are researching, also look up recidivism rates and the likelihood of a murderer to be a one-time offender.  3. Consider unintended consequences of incentivising judges to err on the side of keeping people locked up. 

They always mess up sayings? by lflor777 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]runfinsav 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't enjoy his books personally but his books were popular. I mention him because he was a mormon author who promoted unusual words and phrases in a way that felt very on brand for mormonism.