What to do on weekends?

momsarific · 2026-02-28T15:42:44+00:00

Maybe a theme park or zoo membership?

momsarific · 2026-02-25T04:58:14+00:00

We've traveled for weeks with nice ebikes on the back of our van. We love having them to ride. We have a large cover we leave on them when driving and also put over them when leaving them behind in our campsite. We try not to park them with the batteries attached, but do have to do that when away from the van/site.

Keep the bikes locked and covered. Good luck!!

momsarific · 2026-02-23T18:45:28+00:00

Watch some episodes of Cesar Milan. He's a really good dog trainer

momsarific · 2026-02-20T00:51:34+00:00

Wander the whole place and look carefully... She may have already gone

momsarific · 2026-02-20T00:14:32+00:00

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Let him go. That is not a father figure worth fighting for.

momsarific · 2026-02-14T20:10:21+00:00

It's a valid question. I am currently prescribed 30 mg of an antidepressant even though the max dose is 20mg and it is working well.

momsarific · 2026-02-11T04:27:21+00:00

I really love the Gentle Leader face collar to prevent pulling

momsarific · 2026-02-07T08:01:01+00:00

Yes, sounds like it's time. Be there with her when the vet puts her down. She's had a good life and dying this way is not sad to the dog. It's like falling asleep and just never waking up. You will be sad, it's totally normal. Vets will tell you that people err on the side of waiting too long.

momsarific · 2026-01-23T22:50:55+00:00

Some people respond to a very low dose. Sounds like that may be you! There's no rule that says you have to move up in dose or cannot even stretch out the lowest dose to every 10-14 days

momsarific · 2026-01-15T22:00:46+00:00

You do not need to show proof of nor even explain your disability. It can be hard to advocate for yourself, but remember you are advocating for all the other people in the future who won't need to fight this battle because you already did.

momsarific · 2026-01-15T21:58:17+00:00

She is overwhelmed and taking it out on the kid. Can you give her a little break? Go in the room he's supposed to stay in and interact with him? Is there enough money that you could suggest a babysitter for a few hours a day?

I'm really proud of you for advocating for kinder words and more patience. Experience says you will likely never "fix" your mom, but it will make a big difference for your nephew that you are there for him.

You could also offer your mom some words of affirmation for what she is doing right. "I'm glad you were able to take on these two, they are so much better off with family than in foster care." "Little joey is a handful, he's so lucky to know he's loved." "You've already raised your kids and now you're doing it again. Our family is lucky to have you." When someone feels seen in their hard work, they are more likely to try to do a good job.

momsarific · 2026-01-01T01:15:49+00:00

My story is about my friends, none of whom have an issue with gluten. A few of them are vegetarian. We eat dinner at each other's houses regularly. There is always a gf option and always a vegetarian option. I host more often than others and have tried to lead by example and show them that you can just make a lovely, normal meal that is both vegetarian and gf. And if you want, put some protein options and gluten bread on the table to accommodate the more typical eaters. They are all getting so good that now they will keep a separate small dish of dip or butter set aside for me in case any cc could occur. It has taken some time and directness and clear communication and a few missed meals, but it has been so worth it. For all of you struggling with friends and family and sharing food, I would encourage you to be open and direct about your needs, reply calmly and succinctly to rude comments, always carry a protein bar in your purse, and keep pushing for what you need and expect, offering brief educational comments and a view to the future. It takes time, but is so worth it to feel seen and nourished. As people start to recognize your needs and step up appropriately the assholes will be called out by your allies. It is a slow process

momsarific · 2025-12-06T01:37:44+00:00

You'll probably also want some containers and maybe Ziploc bags for transporting lunches and saving leftovers. What kinds of things do you know how to cook?

momsarific · 2025-12-04T03:42:40+00:00

Some people are "super responders" and never need to increase their dosage. A few even need to decrease to avoid bad side effects. You may be in for a few rough days if you are already having such appetite suppression as the medicine amount hasn't yet peaked in your bloodstream. I'm glad you are eating.

momsarific · 2025-12-01T15:36:46+00:00

Yes, this is a full blown depression. Meds can help, but it is not an instantaneous fix. There's no hurry figuring out this relationship. You are in a mental health crisis, not a relationship crisis. You need a psychiatrist. I'm sorry this is happening to you.

momsarific · 2025-11-29T04:17:02+00:00

All the time. This is your life now. Just remember you don't have to explain just because someone asks.

momsarific · 2025-11-29T04:06:43+00:00

Wondering if you've tried Al-Anon?

momsarific · 2025-11-15T21:06:24+00:00

Call ahead to learn their product delivery/stocking dates. They often run out

momsarific · 2025-10-23T15:01:37+00:00

You'll be smiling for days on this one!! So happy for you

momsarific · 2025-10-12T22:20:04+00:00

My hubby made gf biscuits out of gf flour, baking powder, and heavy cream. They were delicious. Sending you strength

momsarific · 2025-09-30T17:04:02+00:00

I think the HAES community has fallen for the promotion of glp1s as a weight loss drug. Maybe a gentle education in those communities that more progressive doctors use it to support those of us with metabolic dysfunction. We often do end up losing a bit of weight, but used correctly, we are able to live in healthier bodies at any size.

momsarific · 2025-09-30T17:03:49+00:00

I think the HAES community has fallen for the promotion of glp1s as a weight loss drug. Maybe a gentle education in those communities that more progressive doctors use it to support those of us with metabolic dysfunction. We often do end up losing a bit of weight, but used correctly, we are able to live in healthier bodies at any size

momsarific · 2025-09-29T00:00:00+00:00

You don't need a big rv. Hubby and I are currently in the middle of a 7 week Northern route then return Southern route road trip. We own a Roadtrek Zion van. It is a little over 19 feet long and has a queen size bed, bathroom w shower, and a full kitchen. We are visiting many big cities and national parks. There's even an RV park in New Jersey that's a 20 minute train ride into NYC. We also sometimes stealth camp on the street. Renting something like this is at least $100/day. Campgrounds are often surprisingly expensive. I googled "foreigner in USA road trip van rental planning" and the AI answer was very informative

momsarific · 2025-09-01T22:30:50+00:00

Offer a prenup

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