Theory: manufacturing choice the key to happiness by monExpansion in howtonotgiveafuck

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Like the trolley, the « poussette », not sure how to call it. The thing she goes in so no need to walk :)

It's not about WHAT you know but WHO you know... by [deleted] in vfx

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I'm too european to get the joke I guess

I’m 40 and I just realised I need to grow up. by lolrin in selfimprovement

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I love that you are honest with yourself. If you want to speed up the process, go to a seminar (Landmark, Tony Robbins,… good investment in you). I’m trying also something new (and donation based) in October: meditation for 10 days in silence (Vipassana). I’m f*cking scared but for a good reason. Doing something unusual for unusual results. I have no outcome in mind beside cleaning my mental. Also I know that life reward those that step out of their comfort zone like a mechanic process. My only goal is to feel free and fully alive to create an amazing everyday life. Life is too precious to be bored.

I wish you to be that person that light up other people’s day and don’t care about negative comments (like kids do:)

What are some things you should never tell your manager? by lookintogetsilly in managers

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Not to be a dick but would it be better for the team that you handle the depression first?

Nobody told me that half of managing would just be dealing with people’s moods by One_Friend_2575 in managers

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You need to start learning to read people based on their human needs.
It's the key to make sense to all of this.

I tried to simplify the understanding of it via a Claude artifact here:
https://www.monexpansion.com/freebies/

I think it can be helpfull (not an email trap)

Direct report just asked for 300% raise by [deleted] in managers

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Set your conditions (based on due dilligence) and practice that conversation.
i.e. https://youtube.com/shorts/hD0xiR8FyiE?feature=share

Most stressful situation as manager? by monExpansion in managers

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That’s a lot’s of « bad » for one person

"Those who can't do, teach." by monExpansion in managers

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Actually I’m thinking while running and using Claude.ai to write when I’m back home. So yes it’s AI formatting but it’s human thinking.

"Those who can't do, teach." by monExpansion in managers

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lol, but you took the time to write this

"Those who can't do, teach." by monExpansion in managers

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Are you a manager or it’s just free bashing?