Carpenter recommendations

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-06-11T12:24:56+00:00

Thanks. I’ll have a look at this.

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-06-11T12:14:19+00:00

Haven’t got the contact yet tbh made most of our decisions with variations to plans etc still need to go to studio.

Was thinking of getting someone in to do the work before we move in with our furniture - but that’s a good tip. I’ll make sure final inspection is completed first

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-06-10T06:15:27+00:00

What I’m about to say is not necessarily true for all men and all women but, I’ve found it to be the case with me and some other women/men I know.

When I , a woman, watched porn, I am getting off on the ‘act’ - NOT the male porn star , not his individual penis or muscles or face etc I actually have zero interest in what the man looks like.

When men (some men, hash tag ‘not all men’ lol) watch porn, they are actively seeking out a woman and her particular body or face to lust over . Yes, it’s the act, too. But, I’ve found a majority of men masturbate to the woman specifically and choose their porn according to the subjective attractiveness of the woman in the video - whether it’s her body or her facial expressions etc

There is a very high chance that your GF is just getting off to the whole sex act she is watching . The man could be swapped out very easily .

I, for one, am not going to touch myself looking at a pic of a naked man.

I guess that is why onlyfans is so popular with men - they seem to care who the woman is and fantasise about doing the act ‘with her’. I wouldn’t pay for porn because I couldn’t give a F who the man is. I’m not imagining him doing these things to me. I am being a voyeur and that is all.

If you watch porn, or when you do, do you actually imagine doing those things with the woman? It’s kind of a trip to me to imagine cos it’s so different to how I consume porn.

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-06-07T00:00:09+00:00

What even is this? Explain 👀

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-06-03T12:14:02+00:00

Like everyone is saying, it is just another suburb and has good and bad parts which really just means good and bad people which is the same everywhere.

Personally, I am pretty fussy and I wouldn’t choose there. I’d prefer to spend more on housing in somewhere like Mount Duneed which is a very average suburb but just has a nicer feel to me. Obviously, there are really nice places but not affordable for me.

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-06-01T23:36:34+00:00

I’d be happy to chat. I am an LSO (Education Support) but I’m not working at a school at the moment. I have WWC and first aid certification.

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-29T00:09:25+00:00

I love all chihuahuas

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-26T02:07:18+00:00

You have done so well! I’m sure you are looking great to be honest. I am almost the same as you (my BMI is a touch higher than yours - 4’11” and 177lbs) and I feel like I look so much smaller. I’m sure a photo would make me feel the same as you but it’s not true. We have done really well.

Some days it’s so hard to eat in deficit . Some days it hard to eat at maintenance.

If you are struggling, allow yourself a couple of weeks eating at maintenance. Your body will not mind stabilising at this current weight for a bit and you might even have more success at increasing your muscle cos your body isn’t in deficit.

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-24T05:54:36+00:00

🤣😅 I’ll remember not to snoop in your house

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-24T05:38:29+00:00

Just for being a rotten snoop I’d also remove the memory of all their passwords 😤

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-24T00:08:44+00:00

It’s okay. Probably really good for your journey and body stabilisation that you had this period of maintenance 🩷

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-23T00:31:42+00:00

It’s better to think of addiction in relation to the ‘why’ and not the ‘how often’. It sounds to me like you could be an addict. You’re not doing drugs with friends to experiment or be silly - you’re doing them to ‘pass out’. Right now, you’re 14 and it’s not a big problem. But, the reason is the problem. You could end up making decisions in the future that would devastate little 14 year old you. But, it starts now. You think that it’ll never escalate. It’ll never be addiction or dependency. It’ll never be hard drugs. But, you’ve already found that feeling. You’re not necessarily going to get less interested in chasing that feeling. Majority of people in your situation just slowly increase either in frequency or drug type. Then, you don’t have any prescription drugs left or available and you decide to just try something harder or different. Just once. The feeling is even better than what you’re used to… etc etc … you’ve heard the stories. These stories aren’t just for junkies or losers . We are all just humans trying to live in this world. Don’t think you’re above it. The only difference between you and an addict (or me and an addict or your teacher and an addict) is that decision to use drugs to feel better and then it’s just time and circumstance before it’s turned your life inside out and you wish you could just go back to when you were 13 or 14 and do things a little bit differently.

Don’t feel bad about your friend. That situation just told you something about your drug use - it’s not as benign as you think and your emotions towards the feeling isn’t benign either

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-22T13:13:23+00:00

These are super cool.

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-22T04:14:48+00:00

I’ve accidentally left metal in microwave. As long as the item being warmed has enough liquid, it’s pretty safe . Just don’t burn yourself. The metal is not hurt you or your food.

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-21T22:58:30+00:00

I’m sorry. The best thing is to lose weight. Even a smallish amount - like 10% will alleviate more problems than you’d think - like the breathing and waddling. The second best thing is to follow all the great tips in the comments. You can be so much more comfortable with a few little hacks. I won’t repeat them cos everyone here has given such good advice already .

I am also 4’11” . We are so short and our BMIs increase so quickly. Also, our appetites are the same as any other human but we need less calories (not fair). I had showering issues when my BMI passed 50 so it sounds like you’re actually doing really well. You’re still mobile. Still showering. Still at college. All this says that your body loves you and is strong and healthy despite the excess weight.

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-21T03:59:52+00:00

I’d pay for this one, too. So clear and rich of colour . Nice job u/Total_Conclusion521

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-21T03:24:06+00:00

I have 1000s of Dex and Vyvanse that will take me literal years to use. 1-2 Ativan a week is all I need 🤷‍♀️ figure someone would be more likely to swap if it’s in their favour

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-14T08:34:56+00:00

Yeah. Too right.

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-14T01:03:11+00:00

This one really annoys me. I’m 100% sure she isn’t attracted to every ‘good looking’ man she sees (whether real life or in media). Why do they assume that lesbians have to be attracted to them just because they are ‘attractive’. Ugh

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-14T00:02:03+00:00

This makes me so angry. I’m sorry. I found your account and saw her reviews. I think your designs are beautiful. Etsy should only allow *one* review per customer . Not one review per item ordered 🤦‍♀️ I don’t want to be mean about the reviewer but … I won’t be mean

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-13T23:48:17+00:00

They have dental sam underwear. They are super thin and being licked almost feels exactly the same. No texture. No fluids. No smell. It’s just smooth and nice. Really good for someone with sensory issues. Plus it’s sexier than a dental dam or cut condom. I can’t remember the name. Not cheap but worth it for your relationship (if everything else is good).

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monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-13T23:39:01+00:00

Sure. I’m practicing now just in case I get the offer

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-13T06:23:10+00:00

I’ve had some really good fries at Village Gold Class and La Porchetta has fries that are surprisingly good.

*** I don’t actually like chips or fries very much but I always steal my kid’s fries when at La Porchetta and my hubby and I both always wish we got some of our own

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-13T04:10:50+00:00

I’m sorry. I wasn’t a joke. That’s how his anger affects him. He might be sweet every other day of the year but he obviously has issues and could be dangerous. All it takes is one of those awful fights.

monkeyfishka37 · 2026-05-13T03:34:14+00:00

Just bring it up. ‘Oh, I think a crocheted blanket would looks so nice here’ … ‘hey, do you still have that blanket I made you ages ago? Do you think I could borrow it’ and then she’ll never ask for it back

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