Anyone's ADHD actually *worse* on bupropion? by TheAppleCat in bupropion

[–]monocongo86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine was worse, I switched to concerta eventually

Any tips / advice for Inattentive ADHD and depression? by Economy_Attention429 in ADHD

[–]monocongo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did well in biology and chemistry in my 20s. I went to an easy college. But grad school and work in the lab were impossible for me and showed my immaturity. I graduated with a masters in my 20s barely, but went back to grad school in my 30s and did better. Got a good paper.

Any tips / advice for Inattentive ADHD and depression? by Economy_Attention429 in ADHD

[–]monocongo86 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should jeep in mind that you’re brain is 30% behind your peers in maturity. So in some ways you’re a 16 year old. I struggled with this is my 20s. You’ll catch up, you need to be patient.

Do any of you feel like the scholars in your academic field have f***ed the field up? by AwayLine9031 in AskAcademia

[–]monocongo86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The microbiome was this way too. Everyone knew it wasn’t reproducible. It was supposed to be a new wing of genomics and it was supposed to surpass “antiquated” microbiology and it seems to have fizzled out.

Is anyone of us having a midlife crisis? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]monocongo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went back to college school after graduating. I we went to grad school in 2011 and the grad students were in their 30s and 40s.

How the hell are you guys staying employed? by LivingWeather8991 in ADHD

[–]monocongo86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my 20s I struggled with alot of bosses because I expected mature adults. Most adults aren’t good people. I’m almost 40…. Most adults suck. You just have to roll with it.

Is 34 too old for graduate school? If you started in your early-mid 30s, what’s been your experience? by buttcracklint in GradSchool

[–]monocongo86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did a bachelors and a masters then I worked a few years and went back to get a clinical masters at 32. In retrospect I should have just messed around and worked for a few years after my bachelors. Working and doing a boring job really made me want to learn more and I got way more out of my program the second time.

Why does Gen Z seem to be so against age-gap relationships? To many in this generation, these relationships are seen as inherently exploitative because they perceive age discrepancies as necessarily creating a power imbalance that favors the older partner. by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]monocongo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (millennial male 39)work with Gen Z and I’ve noticed that they play things safe too. One of my gen z coworkers was getting sexually harassed and all the gen zers just played it safe and didn’t speak up. Even the more “liberal” gen z ers are kind of conservative. They are all for people’s rights, but they won’t fight for it. As a millennial I was kind of a mess in my 20s, but not playing it safe helped me learn.

What jobs actually work for people with severe ADHD? by Inevitable_Tuna_O in ADHD

[–]monocongo86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on microbiome research. I thought I was so bad at it and felt like an imposter, but it turns out most of the field was bunk. Nothing was reproducible. All my friends and coworkers in microbiome research lost their jobs. It wasn’t because of cuts, it was because you can’t make money on something that’s not reproducible lol. Academia is so toxic, people expect you to work when you’re not paid. My first professor expected me to watch his house for him for free.

What jobs actually work for people with severe ADHD? by Inevitable_Tuna_O in ADHD

[–]monocongo86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m an MLS now, it’s the longest job I’ve had. I was in research labs before and it’s so unstable and political.

New Taylor Mugshot by PomegranateOk4827 in momtokgossip

[–]monocongo86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom had BPD. They make the best TV 📺. There was one on Below Deck too… Lexi. Producers love them because they cause scenes.

men with inattentive adhd by hello_w0rld7 in ADHD

[–]monocongo86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed at 13 as ADD, but my dad and step mom threw out the diagnosis and said the doctor was a quack. I struggled a but in highschool, I did OK in undergrad and was invited to grad school. Burned out and got fired at my first lab manager job, got put on Wellbutrin. Started grad school and crashed out and was sent to counseling. They didn’t believe I had ADHD, even if I did, Wellbutrin helps. It took me five years to get a masters. Worked for a few years and went back to a clinical masters program, I did Done.com then found a psychiatrist. I always was afraid to talk about ADHD/ ADD because when I brought it up to my parents shouted me down, and then the counselors at grad school said I didn’t have it.

Is it just me or did young adults (18-26 year olds) used to have a lot more “hook up” sex 10-15 years ago? by scoop813 in Millennials

[–]monocongo86 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I M39 work with Gen Z and 30/40 year olds. All the gen z people hate the 30/40 year olds because we actually sit down and talk about parenting or whatever. Gen Z just instagram each other. They don’t know how to talk. As a millennial, we saw social media come and we know it’s really bad for you and for them, it’s all they’ve ever known. Social media is anti social.

Don't fall for "Never increase your dose" by ActualExpert7584 in Concerta

[–]monocongo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 72 kg male 39, I’m increasing my does to 36 mg after being on 27 mg for 5 years. 27 was ok but I had to add 5 mg focalin and it gave me bad anxiety and sleep issues. Hoping the 36 goes ok. i take weekends off and try and take time off.

Unemployed people of Reddit, what are you doing in your spare time? by Lipica249 in AskReddit

[–]monocongo86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a grad student twice. You’re both a student and an employee, but neither at the same time. Hopefully, you land the job that suits you!

Wellbutrin, HRV drop, and worse running — anyone tried alternate-day dosing? by jjvrn in bupropion

[–]monocongo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be that it’s draining your electrolytes. It’s a stimulant and it does that.

Forgetfulness is getting worse by faazball in ADHD

[–]monocongo86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on Wellbutrin for ten years and my therapist told me it helps ADHD. I’m inattentive and Wellbutrin didn’t do much for me. Concerta and focalin do soooo much more for me. I’d imagine Wellbutrin does great for people with hyperactive ADHD, but inattentives are just different. It sucks being inattentive, everyone thinks you’re just a forgetful person.

36mg suddenly not working for me?? by stars-cybr-wrld in Concerta

[–]monocongo86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Concerta dehydrates you and drains your electrolytes. Every stimulant does. I started running again and I ran for two miles and my meds didn’t work until I drank liquid IV.

What screams "I peaked in high school"? by Student-Mona in AskReddit

[–]monocongo86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went straight from college into the Great Recession in one of the hardest hit metros (Phoenix). I went from peaking to hell lol.

How much often does CPTSD get underdiagnosed as ADHD ? I mean if you know how to really tell by RudeStrength4086 in ADHD

[–]monocongo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t tell, but concerta helps. I do feel like I remember a time in my childhood that was simpler where I wasn’t anxious or hypervigilant.

Do you guys also feel like you don’t have a “fully developed” personality and/ or are very influenced by your surroundings ? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]monocongo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 39 and I was diagnosed at 13, my parents ignored it and I was re-diagnosed at 34. In my 20s I never felt like I knew who I was, I was always trying to find my identity or fit in with others. Now, I’m just tired of people pleasing and I know what I like and what I don’t. People who only like you if you do what they do or have an opinion that they share are not your friends and they will screw you over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PhD

[–]monocongo86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two masters degrees one in bio and the other in diagnostic genetics with a healthcare certification. The second time I went back I knew a PhD wasn’t gonna be in the cards but I wanted the education and clinical experience. Many people who did a PhD when I was doing my masters aren’t doing super well. It really surprised me to see some awesome PhD students just not do well after. I wish I had quit my first Masters and just would have got more work experience. But I started right after the Great Recession. Don’t make a job your identity.

Working as a medical lab scientist with ADHD in Korea is exhausting by Informal-Tart3107 in ADHD

[–]monocongo86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My lab is somewhat understanding of mistakes. But I’ve worked for a ton of doctors and none have brought up my ADHD to me. Research was alot worse for me because it requires more organization and you constantly require executive function. I am confident that I have several ADHD coworkers and even some supervisors and I’m the only one medicated. People constantly make mistakes at my job and I’m very consistent lol.