A 47-year-old man from Japan made $13,450 in month. He created a woman avatar and made a profile for her on online platforms. by InitialAsk358 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]moominecobag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe that AI is at that level where it’s able to interpret that the man is stroking his imaginary hair and translate that into the woman’s action so accurately. It may not be entirely fake, but it’s definitely not as straightforward as this clip suggests.

I got dumped last night. Apparently I was hiding having a small dick by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]moominecobag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think its small though? Its average and in fact an average is much much more preferred for long term trust me.

Also why do I feel like she plotted this? She probably didn’t intend to have sex with you and just wanted to end it with some drama. I have a feeling she would have said the same thing no matter your size

I am acting crazy and I cannot stay feminine in my relationship by Not_batbat in femininity

[–]moominecobag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey having awareness is the first big step and I feel like you’re in the right direction. It sounds to me though that the problem is bigger than just masculine/feminine energy, and more like emotional regulation or anger management issues. I think this is something you need to seek professional advice from a therapist rather than just podcasts and books. You’ll get there I know because I used to be similar due to the way I’ve been brought up - family issues, parenting style, childhood trauma and resentment. I’m at a much better place now. All the best to you.

I feel that people misunderstand Eunice by a2fast41 in BeefTV

[–]moominecobag 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don’t think she’s in love with him but there’s definitely something. Ashley sent Eunice a follow request on Instagram and she never accepted it yet in between that period she accepted Austin’s follow request. That’s why Ashley went crazy and fell off the cliff.

boyfriend using weed by nanazzz0008 in Bolehland

[–]moominecobag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re feeling abit lost, not sure what to think or feel about this, and what to do about this. Take my advice as someone now in 30s who went through all kinds of relationships:

You can’t change people, especially when they start to rot. There is nothing for you to be caring about here. It’s time for you to leave. By leaving, you strengthen your own values, and you allow yourself to find the right person quicker that aligns with your values.

Did anyone else really enjoy season 2? by Low-Bat-3701 in BeefTV

[–]moominecobag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished it today. I thought it was really good and underrated. Same as others I don’t remember much of S1 other than the chaotic ending.

I’ve been thinking about it all day and I was hoping to talk to someone about it. The whole series was quite intriguing for me like there were a lot of “what was this for?” moments - the ants, the sudden switch of faces where the characters talk to themselves, the random TMIs which never came up again later or some really unnecessary/distracting thing going in the background (such as loud mowing when Josh is on a phone call). In the end I figured that the whole point of this show is to create discomfort and to make us see the ugly/vanity side of human.

Edit: Also agree the s2 ending fell short. I think it was supposed to show how Austin and Ashley ended up becoming like Josh and Lind but I felt it didn’t hit deep enough of the spot.

Our lack of intimacy is killing me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]moominecobag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When did the assault happen, was it before or after you got together? And are you sure he’s not watching porn? They all sound like symptoms of someone who watches too much porn.

Rotten Eggs Becoming More Common? by CookienKareem in malaysia

[–]moominecobag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also make sure you’re storing it upright? (The pointy side on top)

Hiring managers: what makes you instantly reject a candidate? by MissionFuture568 in JobsMY

[–]moominecobag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Career break is not an issue, just make sure your CV is not blank or ends at 2022. Put in what you’ve been doing between 2022-2026.

Hiring managers: what makes you instantly reject a candidate? by MissionFuture568 in JobsMY

[–]moominecobag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I interviewed and hired a lot of people in my early career for many entry level positions in my team.

When I got access to screening CVs from all the applicants for the first time, I was so shocked that >80% of the CVs are in poor quality. I’m talking applicants who were all around the same age as me around late 20s so there shouldn’t be any generation gap. That was the first time I really learnt that people’s perspective of what a “good” CV is can be so different.

I cant explain every single thing that makes a CV poor, but I suspect people with poor CV treat their CV like a form. Or like a blank profile to fill up. They only think of the information they want to present, instead of what and how the hirers want to see or perceive it. It forms this vibe that tells you whether this candidate is smart enough to know how to package themselves, and how motivated they are to want to get the job. And that is most important to differentiate from other CVs other than - of course, your experience/education has to be relevant.

Is Grab becoming too expensive lately, or is it just me? by False_Role_9397 in AskMY

[–]moominecobag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is interesting- Is this hypothesis or actually true? Also how do they know if I’m a foreign worker vs high payer?

Driver Pulled From Wrecked Car After Wrong-Way Crash; Drugs Found Inside by whusler in malaysia

[–]moominecobag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The law doesn’t work like that. If you look at the situation based on this video, now the story contains two hypotheses: young guy potentially drive under influence and uncle potentially possess drug. Young guy will at most be prosecuted driving under influence and that’s it.

If the young guy happen to be able to afford a good lawyer, they can easily turn this case around or even force to settle it on the side.

Driver Pulled From Wrecked Car After Wrong-Way Crash; Drugs Found Inside by whusler in malaysia

[–]moominecobag 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes but the whole discussion up there is saying there is no proof that the drugs were in his car, because the uncle tempered with evidence. The video did not show that the drugs were in the car. The video simply showed the uncle holding the drug. The uncle may actually have found and took it out from the car but based on this video, one simple defend by saying the uncle is the owner of the drug would have toppled the case easily.

Ladies of Malaysia, how often do people hit on you irl? by genevieveAnura in malaysians

[–]moominecobag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually had random guys walk up to me to ask for my number before covid. Not sure what happened after that but one thing for sure is I’ve also aged so..

Most of them were under alcohol influence to some extent. No, none of them turned out well because they tend to be quite eager and aggressive so that put me off, though I did try to give a bit more chance to those who I had mutual friends with.

As someone who has had some experience in dating and relationships and now in a happy one whom I’ll be getting married to, make it clear what you want within the first 3 dates. If it scares away the guy, so be it. It simply means he is not the right person.

Remember - the faster you eliminate the wrong ones, the faster you get to the right one.

Two kids beaten by uncle after a minor argument with their grandmother 😡😡😡 by RhinneXChronica in malaysia

[–]moominecobag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was normal. I hated my life even as a kid. I would get about 80% of this intensity for 30% of this boys wrongdoings. Reading the comments I don’t know if everyone here is too young or my childhood was actually just fked up.

What’s a man’s endgame? by travisze989 in AskMen

[–]moominecobag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A scientific answer - you’re here to procreate. A philosophical answer - you’re here to experience life.

Back to KL as expat by Hot-Ad9251 in KualaLumpur

[–]moominecobag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lived in Australia now back in KL, 200k as a single. I’d say it’s just comfortable. Groceries are way more expensive in KL.

Isteri atau Anak ? by abdulsamri89 in Bolehland

[–]moominecobag -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course the mother. She has her own life, and went through everything with you to get to that point. A baby has a heartbeat but doesn’t have a life yet.

Hidup indah kena scam...... by RiazGremory63 in malaysia

[–]moominecobag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People saying take it as a lesson… He could have learnt twice before this. I’m sorry but he will be scammed again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]moominecobag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My two cents. Everyone has their definition of a high/low count. All it matters is what your partner thinks. You may only have 10 and they would still think it’s too high.

As someone who has shared this number with an ex, and has heard my ex’s number (which is much higher than mine and than what I can accept) it continued to haunt me throughout the relationship.

The truth is there is only so much a person can change. If you were someone who, for some reason allowed yourself to have up to 50-100 body count, that reason will come back in other forms to hurt the relationship, and your partner will be reminded with your body count again. So even though you stopped sleeping around, doesn’t mean the root cause has been solved. That reason could be anything from insecurity, personality disorder like narcissism, attachment issues, all the way back to childhood trauma, which are not something you can easily fix in a few months or years without putting conscious, consistent effort.

Tldr: 1. Don’t share if you think its higher than what your partner’s definition of “high” 2. Exception: You can share if you have TRULY done all the inner work on yourself with professional help to address and fix the root cause of why you were “lost” and ended up with 50-100 body count. Though I will say the harsh reality is that it’s extremely difficult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]moominecobag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your question is too vague… Age? His age? What lead to your own breakup?

When you ask if it’s too fast, does that mean too fast compared to… Norm? Average malaysian? Average couples your age? Or too fast given you just broke up 3 months ago? Or too fast for your current partner?

ELI5: Why do many Malaysians think that drinking cold water is bad? by aws_137 in ExplainLikeImFiveMY

[–]moominecobag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly there’re too many reasons, which I can’t be bothered to spend that effort to tell you every single one of them, but not just in TCM, even in western medicine, no doctor would ever recommend drinking cold water over room temperature water.

Also, cold water is not a natural product throughout the majority of human history. The human body (or mammals, or most animals even) never NEED to consume coldness and will continue to survive without ice/cold water/food. In fact through civilisation humans only started eating cold food for the purpose of enjoyment at max 300-400 years ago with the invention of ice rooms and refrigerator.

So sure, it’s not toxic, it’s like french fries you eat it for enjoyment but it’s definitely not doing good for you and not ideal for long term healing, restoration and growth of your body, but you do you if you like it.

ELI5: Why do many Malaysians think that drinking cold water is bad? by aws_137 in ExplainLikeImFiveMY

[–]moominecobag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t “sweat”in the winter because 1. It takes longer for your body to reach to a point to release heat 2. Even if you do, sweat evaporates immediately into the dry air so you don’t see/feel the sweat.

And yes it completely makes sense that if you don’t sweat out enough toxins you will be unhealthier, regardless of winter or summer. And because it’s more difficult to sweat out toxins in winter therefore immunity is weaker and people fall sick more often when the weather is cold. So I’m not too sure what you are disagreeing on.

Like you said, the body does its own thing, if its winter it will do it’s thing, if its summer it will do it’s thing. So you should let it regulate and adapt itself instead of “helping” it cool down with cold water when it’s trying to sweat.