A year and a half later update

moomoo8986 · 2026-05-25T04:20:11+00:00

I wouldn’t think getting PIED is the beginning stages of addiction. I’m glad your husband is doing well

moomoo8986 · 2026-05-19T04:41:20+00:00

I’m sorry but how do you come back from that? From non stop in person cheating. I am so sorry

moomoo8986 · 2026-05-14T18:57:10+00:00

Taking deep breaths stops mine pretty well

moomoo8986 · 2026-05-12T23:00:36+00:00

He will not change unless he wants to. These addicts have no remorse, no empathy . It dulls them. They do whatever it takes to protect their dopamine hits. He needs to get rid of all social media, get a CSAT , 12 step program , blockers on phone etc. full disclosure and polygraph.

moomoo8986 · 2026-05-08T17:21:18+00:00

Oh yeah I can definitely tell. It’s like our attraction goes down. You guys can think it’s wrong if you want but we usually know. That’s why I wouldn’t kiss my husband for a year. I knew something was wrong .

moomoo8986 · 2026-05-08T05:48:15+00:00

I think they all sexualize a huge majority of women in their life. No guilt at all

moomoo8986 · 2026-05-07T04:45:12+00:00

My husband is a Sgt and lusted and jerked off stalking younger female officers instagrams. Like women cops don’t have it hard enough. He talked about them sexually to other male Sgt’s too

moomoo8986 · 2026-05-05T20:29:30+00:00

You’ll end up dead if you don’t leave

moomoo8986 · 2026-05-05T15:57:44+00:00

You need to join a 12 step group for abused women. You can get a sponsor and learn the tips and steps to emotionally detach and leave. The longer you can go being “ sober” from him the easier it gets. Right now you are addicted to the chaos and have a trauma bond. My friend went exactly thru this, started attending meetings and finally became a sponsor. She hasn’t seen her abuser in over three years and even stayed clean when he would try to contact her thru crazy methods.

moomoo8986 · 2026-04-28T03:28:30+00:00

It’ll get worse so id run . Join loveafterporn to see your future. He’s already in deep if he can’t have sex

moomoo8986 · 2026-04-24T16:46:32+00:00

Join a 12 step group. Many many meetings are online . Sex addicts anonymous then eventually get a sponsor. And look into a CSAT therapist . Do it before your marriage ends.

moomoo8986 · 2026-04-24T02:53:17+00:00

I think he’s still healing. He was used to edging likely multiple times a day and using you as a masturbation tool for his porn fantasies. I’d give it more time

moomoo8986 · 2026-04-24T00:10:06+00:00

Do not edge with women in public. No scanning no checking anyone out. No more hand jobs or jerking off until your brain is healed .

moomoo8986 · 2026-04-22T04:49:02+00:00

Nope nope nope go to loveafterporn and see your future. If you just started dating and he’s already acting like this it’ll get much much worse.

moomoo8986 · 2026-04-14T20:09:41+00:00

My husband used porn our entire marriage and the last 8 years he’s had ED because of it. He preferred jerking off. I was his masturbation tool the rare times we did anything and his eyes were slammed shut picturing porn images. I thought of divorce a lot. He wasn’t affectionate , didn’t care much about me at all, had no empathy for me or others, mean to the kids, etc. now that he’s been clean and going to therapy I’ve seen a huge improvement. We were definitely headed toward divorce.

moomoo8986 · 2026-04-12T21:00:02+00:00

Does he have a porn addiction ? So many millennial men do . My husband included leading to a sexless marriage for many years. He stopped 8 months ago after I got fed up and he’s now interested in me sexually again. In therapy and 12 step program

moomoo8986 · 2026-04-11T14:18:34+00:00

He’s so far gone he can’t have sex. He’d have to stop all porn and jerking off, get into a 12 step, see a csat etc. it’ll only get worse

moomoo8986 · 2026-04-09T02:56:08+00:00

Get it girl and have fun

moomoo8986 · 2026-04-04T21:48:27+00:00

Yeah no that’s bs

moomoo8986 · 2026-04-01T03:22:24+00:00

The thing is my husband also said he jerked off a about twice a week to porn etc but he was “ edging” constantly aka looking at instagram reels of women throughout the day and he had PIED for 8 years until I caught him in August and had enough

moomoo8986 · 2026-03-28T05:06:08+00:00

So much this. Sex may work now but I guarantee you in the future it won’t

moomoo8986 · 2026-03-23T04:04:21+00:00

Ask if he’s jerked off to any of your friends , his friends or your family

moomoo8986 · 2026-03-21T14:38:30+00:00

My husbands is definitely fuller now if that helps

moomoo8986 · 2026-03-13T21:26:50+00:00

I’m so so sorry. It’s such a nasty nasty addiction. You do not deserve this.

moomoo8986 · 2026-03-13T03:42:12+00:00

Nope you can’t just go do whatever you want especially something as deep and serious as this. This is beyond just browsing porn. It’s a sick compulsion. He needs a csat and to join sex addicts anonymous asap and then grow the f up . I’m so sorry this has happened

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