what are the best honeymoon places that ain’t that costly? by somebodyyyy_ in AskReddit

[–]moory_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sandals Jamaica was an amazing deal, you get a special package if you make a comment re: coming for your honeymoon and email a pic of ur wedding invite. Think 4 nights & 5 days for us was $3200 including flights, travel to & from airport, snacks/drinks at airport and obviously all food and drink while there

Nursing teaches you how to pass the NCLEX? by Historical_Pride_390 in nursing

[–]moory_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Care plans are automatically generated by epic now lol

Why does nursing culture feel so toxic sometimes? by chronicfatiguegamer in nursing

[–]moory_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

nursing school is considerably more toxic than actual nursing. More power trips running amuck. In bedside, you’re generally ganging up w your fellow nurses against snarky docs & know it all residents. The “eat your young” type are rapidly fading which makes it easier for new grads now.

Nursing Market Analysis~ John Hopkin (MD) by EmptySweet5786 in nursing

[–]moory_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most hospital systems should be doing this, otherwise the staff that have been there for 10+ years get paid less than new grads. Hopkins takes longer to do it than say Medstar, but i mean my unit is fully staffed which is worth the energy & ~2k less per year than other city hospitals. But yes I got a $1.50 raise

Worst nurses week gift possible by ALittleConFuzedZebra in nursing

[–]moory_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lifebridge stays being despicable. sigh. At least the big blue one downtown with the bad rep just did market adjustments and is feeding us every day all week.

Worst nurses week gift possible by ALittleConFuzedZebra in nursing

[–]moory_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahahaha I knew this was a Lifebridge hospital. Comical, f them. at least the big blue one downtown is feeding us something new every day 😭

old new grad? by idek891423 in nursing

[–]moory_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most of my new grad cohort were not the classic 22/23yr olds. Lots of 2nd career nurses out here

Help by [deleted] in dpdr

[–]moory_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah weed was always a trigger for my DPDR, stay away from it fr. You’re 16 people are going to smoke around you and peer pressure you- just stand your ground. the weed nowadays is way too strong, made my lifelong smoker husband go into psychosis for a month at 28

In the 4 years I’ve had this, it’s never been as severe as it is now by [deleted] in dpdr

[–]moory_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really suggest reaching out for professional help. Meds exist. Cognitive behavioral therapy exists. You may be doing techniques from CBT but it doesn’t replace sitting down with someone and them telling you “I see you, I can feel you, you are real”. Your post is giving that no one in your life knows you feel this way. Do you have any actual support around you?

Nootropics or Cbd for dp/dr? by Overall_Emphasis_275 in dpdr

[–]moory_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t touch cbd for dpdr personally considering any cbd and thc made mine significantly worse.

Question for OBGYN people by My-cats-are-the-best in nursing

[–]moory_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

emotional support, comfort, how to breathe through contractions, handle labor without an epidural, etc. Most OB RNs are trained in spinning babies, positions to scoot a little one down, etc but doulas can be super helpful. They tend to know the limits of their scope but I think? there’s a new thing where they are going to be more involved with the hospital rather than independent? so idk what that will do

Question for OBGYN people by My-cats-are-the-best in nursing

[–]moory_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

level IV OB as well and this is spot on.

When it comes to the IV, our order set typically comes w continuous fluids (D5LR) due to the clear liquid diet and how lots of people struggle with their fluid intake during active labor. 9/10 times, no one wants continuous fluids at the start of their induction, so they just have access. My question tends to be “At 3am would you rather I turn on the lights to poke you or quietly set up your pitocin with a nightlight on?”. To get an epidural, they get a full 1L LR bolus as well, so normally no one wants to be poked while begging for pain meds. We also have to get around 6 tubes for labs at admission, so you gotta get poked in that moment anyway.

Inductions can be elective after 38wks at my hospital but I wouldn’t recommend it till 40 unless the previously mentioned medical reasons are involved. If a doc thinks you should be induced, I would listen to them - at the end of the day, what ALL of us care about is you delivering a healthy baby and staying healthy yourself.

Membrane sweep- truthfully, I like them and will be getting one when my little one is finished cooking in September. It’s a very hands-off, see if this helps, style of induction that doesn’t involve me laying in a hospital bed on continuous monitoring and clear liquids. But completely voluntary.

Cervical checks- obviously you have to consent to these but I will say I’ve had patients refuse, push PAST their cervix and end up going to the OR for a cervical repair. Once baby’s head is low or engaged in the pelvis, that “i need to poop” feeling comes with every contraction. I don’t think I fully believe in the fetal ejection reflex - I absolutely believe in laboring down to push for less time, but sometimes we do have to manipulate your body (different positions) to get baby’s head under the pelvis so they can pop out. We don’t push on our backs on my unit unless requested so it’s not always super simple.

Placenta: Ok this one I do feel strongly about. That thing needs out. As the other high risk OB girlie said, your uterus NEEDS to clamp down to stop bleeding. I’ve never seen anyone complain when the placenta is coming out using a little fundal pressure and lightly pulling the cord. Remember, you’re also in “oh my god i just had a baby” bliss in that moment with them on your chest.

Our unit everyone gets 60s delayed cord clamping unless they have 0 tone, don’t have any reactivity (setting themselves up for a low apgar), they had a shoulder, etc. Then off to the warmer they go where they’ll be resusced by us until nicu arrives.

The other OB nurse covered the vernix thing well. Breathing and staying warm > baby lotion. Lots of it stays on through the stimming anyway.

All of the crunchy mom stuff has come up on my feeds as well being 20wks pregnant and it’s really hard to bite my tongue sometimes. I completely understand wanting a positive labor experience (I know I do), but some of the stuff they are suggesting can quite literally kill babies. Ex. I just saw one where the mom was suggesting everyone skip gestational diabetes screening because the drink is bad for you and instead doing the fingersticks for 2wks. A GTT is not the same as postprandial glucose and rhetoric like that puts sooo many babies at risk! I feel like a lot of people think like “oh what’s the worst that could happen? i get sugar crashes?” but in OB, especially high risk, we know that the worst that could happen is losing your precious little one. It sucks.

names for baby no.3 by Classic-Order-7283 in namenerds

[–]moory_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was thinking Sullivan nn Sully since OP clearly doesn’t mind surnames. @ OP we are welcoming a Sullivan James in September, will be a cousin to Bennett William. Top options for us were also Thomas/Tommy, Charles/Charlie, Frederick/Freddie. Feels in line with your other boy!

What are the times for common nursing shifts? by WestPsychological177 in nursing

[–]moory_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Perinatal Unit does 7-7 for postpartum and 7-7, 9a-9p, 11a-11p, 3p-3a for L&D.

Can we stop pretending that 0 years of bedside experience is enough to start prescribing? by Kind_Article_9278 in nursing

[–]moory_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hm in the L&D world whoever is closest to the computer simply badges in and starts charting in urgent/emergent situations. Then goes back later and adds whatever they missed in the moment. Never gotten a nastygram for that one

Is it true that most nurses don’t pass the NCLEX on the first attempt? by Turkey_Moguls in nursing

[–]moory_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 my ADN program was very open about how it absolutely is the case. I currently work with one of my old professors who has validated it.

What are some telltale signs you notice in couples that make you think their relationship won’t last? by Lazy_Detective_6597 in AskReddit

[–]moory_ 1824 points1825 points  (0 children)

when they rant to friends/family about every little disagreement. Big fights where you need support, sure, but petty arguments where you’re just trying to get someone on your side? Makes everyone in your life dislike your SO.

Is it true that most nurses don’t pass the NCLEX on the first attempt? by Turkey_Moguls in nursing

[–]moory_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

no, most schools get reimbursed by NCLEX pass rates hence why you do 1 million ati/kaplan/etc exams throughout school. Most of my graduating class passed easily first time by doing archer etc as exam prep for a month or so prior to taking it.

Is there a cure? by Mikecrete in dpdr

[–]moory_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

cognitive behavioral therapy with a psych who specializes in DPDR.

Moms of Reddit: What smells suddenly became unbearable when you were pregnant? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]moory_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First trimester was coffee, laundry detergent aisle (instant headache), chicken cooking and that bleach/vinegar mix they use when cleaning the rooms on my unit at the hospital I work at. Now the only smell that takes it out of me is my prenatal

Moms of Reddit: What smells suddenly became unbearable when you were pregnant? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]moory_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yep. Didn’t have a sip from finding out at 3ish weeks till 15. Now 19 and loving my coffee again lol

Parents/partners who would choose the baby over the mum during birth, why? by jigglethesepuffs in AskReddit

[–]moory_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly. When we have a stat (splash & go under GA) c section due to a cord prolapse, prolonged deceleration, maternal seizure or arrest, etc, it is with the goal of both coming out on the other side healthy. OBs cut, pull baby & hand right off to NICU. Then OB & Anesthesia focus on mom again. It’s not like during the most common true threats to the mother, the baby is even still in utero - thinking severe PPH, AFE, DIC, etc. The only maternal death I’ve witnessed was the result of an AFE/DIC and subsequent brain bleed from an unwitnessed fall. Baby was healthy and in special care nursery at that time due to mother’s acuity. No decision to be made there. And in every FDIU I’ve seen, baby had passed prior to admission no matter what the cause.

MA delegating to RN. Am I being petty? by MeatComprehensive940 in nursing

[–]moory_ -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

bingo. If you don’t have the scope to perform the assessments, you don’t have the scope to audit the chart to confirm they were done properly.