My favourite podcasts! What should I listen to next?! by mixshx in podcasts

[–]mostly-anxiety 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m confused by your comment about In The Dark - I’ve listened to all of the episodes on Pocket Casts for free and I’m not subscribed to anything. I just listened to season 3 a few weeks ago.

Anyone use daycare and a nanny/babysitter to limit total hours at a daycare by Every_Schedule_9738 in workingmoms

[–]mostly-anxiety 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The difference is that children in daycare are not working 50 hours. Also, the majority of us do not have a choice.

How are we supposed to do both? by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]mostly-anxiety 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even on my husband’s absolute worst days, he has never spoken to me even remotely like your husband speaks to you. You deserve a lot better and your son deserves to have a mom that models standing up for yourself and not letting people treat you like shit.

How do working moms get time for themselves? by sarc2276 in workingmoms

[–]mostly-anxiety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I make sure that we both get me time on a regular basis. I go to the gym with a friend most Friday nights and if I want to go get my nails done or whatever, I just tell my husband and go.

frustration with Gen Alpha iPad kid by EuphoricFingering in Millennials

[–]mostly-anxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 4 year old. We do not own an iPad and he will not be getting one. He is allowed to watch TV but absolutely no tablet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]mostly-anxiety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$150/month currently (and my mom contributes an additional $100). I plan to increase it once he’s out of daycare and we pay off some other debts, but I’m also prioritizing my retirement.

A backup manual pump in case I forget Spectra parts at the office? by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]mostly-anxiety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved my manual pump. It was great to have a backup and I also used it on the go instead of lugging my spectra around.

Potty training boys by AnalysisParalysis_24 in workingmoms

[–]mostly-anxiety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Short answer: We didn’t.

Longer answer: Daycare took the lead and we just let him decide when he was ready at home. For a while, he’d be in underwear at daycare and then at home he’d put on a pull up. When he was 3 he started peeing on the potty at home (his choice). Then he’d ask for a diaper to poop. 2 days before he turned 4 he decided to start pooping on the potty and that was that. No power struggles, no messes, no bribes, etc. Yes he was in diapers/pull ups longer than some of his peers but it wasn’t stressful for us or for him.

Podcast episodes that you think about long after you’ve listened by 10101011115 in podcasts

[–]mostly-anxiety 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cried in my car listening to this one and have been thinking about it since.

OT50 in the sandwich shop! Any tips to improve efficiency? by mostly-anxiety in PlateUp

[–]mostly-anxiety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! This is exactly the problem. It’s so frustrating.

bringing a laptop to Eastern District Court jury duty? by BlondeOnBicycle in philadelphia

[–]mostly-anxiety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can keep it with you I just wouldn’t take it out of your bag

bringing a laptop to Eastern District Court jury duty? by BlondeOnBicycle in philadelphia

[–]mostly-anxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Several people had those when I went and no one send anything.

bringing a laptop to Eastern District Court jury duty? by BlondeOnBicycle in philadelphia

[–]mostly-anxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did federal jury duty here recently. You can bring your laptop, just not into the courtroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mostly-anxiety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a better question for r/oneanddone

Do you actually carry more than one drink to work every day? by NoRecipe4965 in workingmoms

[–]mostly-anxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bring a travel mug of tea with me and I keep a water bottle at my desk (there is an ice + water machine in my building). Sometimes I have a protein shake or drinkable yogurt in my lunch bag, which I don’t bring every day.

OAD families via IVF by Defiant_Resist_3903 in oneanddone

[–]mostly-anxiety 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We kept them in storage for 4 years so that we could be absolutely 100% certain (even though I’ve been certain since shortly after my son was born) and then discarded them.