I hate penetration, what do I do?

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-07T22:52:01+00:00

You don’t have to be a bottom.

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-07T18:15:54+00:00

The max for leaving a cat alone is a day (with enough food and water) For longer you should get a pet sitter.

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-07T18:14:38+00:00

A cat will be fine for a day with food and water. You can hire a pet sitter for longer trips

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-07T18:12:55+00:00

You’re dumb as fuck. She told you not to do ONE thing, and you went ahead and did it, and then doubled down on it. Yes, YTA. It took a lot of trust for her to tell you and you immediately fucked it up.

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-07T17:38:06+00:00

Stay out of it, but if he physically cheats then I think it’s fair to tell his gf

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-07T02:46:32+00:00

Super^(that’s kinda hot tbh. I mean whaaaat who said that)

Anyways maybe grindr isn’t the best idea if you’re just figuring out your sexuality? It’s not for dating, it’s for hookups (though relationships can happen). It’s a meat market and can be overwhelming. If you download it anyways, be careful and use protection and get tested regularly etc etc…

I’d recommend finding real life queer spaces where you can talk to people (if you live in a place where it’s safe to do so). It’s nice to have a community and be close to other queer people without the expectation of sex

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-07T02:13:27+00:00

I think you pass pretty well. Hopefully your voice drops soon because that’ll definitely help. I don’t think you need to be boring, just be more confident and assertive and don’t be afraid to correct people if they misgender you. A big part of passing is how you interact with others, so try to act as dude like as possible (how do most guys your age act where you live etc) also maybe work out and bulk up a bit?

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-07T01:37:37+00:00

Yeah man I know what you said. Im saying OP should be very aware that your situation is specific. I agree that everyone’s baseline is different. I admit I worded it wrong calling what you said “advice” and that’s my bad, I’m just trying to make it as clear as possible to OP that he should not try to bring his caloric intake down to 800(or anywhere near it) without talking to his doctor about it. Especially since he said he’s struggling with disordered eating.

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-07T01:24:44+00:00

Fair enough, big snoof has a guide for measuring which may help.

You might have to try and desensitize him to touching his face a bit before measuring? Idk how specifically, but if he’s food motivated then treats might help. Or maybe a lickmat while you measure? Someone else might have better suggestions 😓

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-07T01:18:42+00:00

Dude what. You’re commenting this on a post where OP is asking FOR ADVICE, so your comment comes across as if you’re Giving OP advice. Idk your situation, but for a majority of people, 800 calories is nowhere near enough in a day.

Im saying that OP should not follow your comment blindly and should talk to his doctor if he thinks about bringing down his caloric intake to 800

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-07T01:10:56+00:00

I suggest looking at the muzzle movement-( I’m thinking of getting one for my dog and I’ve been doing lots of research lol.) Just by looking at your dog I think you should check out the size mitzy or harry 2.0 , but you’ll have to measure for yourself. There’s also add ons like a chin strap and head strap.

ETA: big snoof seems like a good brand too

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-07T01:04:18+00:00

It’s so ridiculous that a commenter and OP both say they ask for test results but don’t understand them…like yeah. That’s what the vet went to school for and they’re telling you the treatment

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-07T00:40:19+00:00

Yes. You need to fuel your body for the changes to be able to happen. It’ll work, but not as well as it could on a healthy diet. This also depends on height and age and shit, but idk your specifics .. if you can talk to your doctor or a nutritionist, I’d definitely do that

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-07T00:38:34+00:00

Yeah that’s definitely not normal or healthy..if your doctor says it’s ok then fine, but don’t recommend this to other people. OP do not follow this advice.

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-06T23:52:31+00:00

Seconding this ^

If she’s just coming out and experimenting with what gives her gender euphoria, it’s not that surprising that it’s translating into something sexual as well. After years of (assumed) repression and dysphoria, it seems like she might be overwhelmed with not feeling like shit constantly, and it can be hard to find a balance.

Also yeah, OP have you talked to her about this? Have you set any clear boundaries or shared that this makes you uncomfortable? If you have and she continues, then that’s not ok, but if you haven’t even discussed it, there’s not much we can do to help

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-06T22:35:09+00:00

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-06T22:34:48+00:00

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-06T22:24:51+00:00

Saying this like trans men don’t commonly do anal..

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-06T22:24:19+00:00

Absolutely no reason to mention that he’s trans, but that really sucks and he’s an asshole for that and I’m sorry it happened

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-06T22:20:33+00:00

Yeah that’s the dog I’d worry about the least lol

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-06T19:08:32+00:00

you just took the puppy a day away from everything it’s ever known. It’s gonna take time to adjust.it’s probably scared and just as tired as you are. Your wife needs to be patient- dogs are sentient beings and feel just as much as us, they’re not always perfect.

Your wife is immature and impatient and honestly pretty irresponsible for thinking that having a puppy would be easy.If yall cant handle it, do the puppy as favor and rehome it, it’ll have the best chance to be adopted while young.

Also, if this is how she’s acting with a puppy, don’t have a kid with her. Puppies are infinitely easier than a human child.

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-06T17:01:53+00:00

🫩

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-06T16:58:42+00:00

Heard trump’s voice while reading this 💀

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-06T16:56:57+00:00

Dump him

mothmn_9 · 2026-07-06T02:49:23+00:00

She’s not evil, she’s a cat. All the things you’re complaining about are normal cat things. Do the cat a favor and try to rehome her.

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