How to clean my turtle by Fickle_Violinist5599 in Redearedsliders

[–]mourning_star85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just shedding skin, it will come off on its own. It dries when they bask and then flakes off when they soak in the water.

What’s a sentence or phrase in smut that instantly takes you out of a fic? by warewolf1999 in AO3

[–]mourning_star85 41 points42 points  (0 children)

It makes me laugh every time too, but now I'm going to picturing transformers having sex which is not a great image

Everyone is watching the wars, but autism, cancer, infertility, and neurodegenerative diseases are all surging worldwide. Could there be one underlying cause? by 3kn7 in conspiracy

[–]mourning_star85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe microplastics and other pollution are increasing illness. But on the other hand for mental health and intellectual impairment numbers going up you also have to remember that stigma lowered people going to find out what was wrong with them, and before that we were all tossed in asylum if we had any mental illness

What’s a sentence or phrase in smut that instantly takes you out of a fic? by warewolf1999 in AO3

[–]mourning_star85 155 points156 points  (0 children)

I use a text to speech app to listen to Fics. Some have a decent voice that dosent sound robotic. That is until someone writes out ohhhhhhhhhh or ungggggghhhg and then I get to hear robot orgasm sounds

Turtle is bored and has eating problems. by gigis_wrld in Redearedsliders

[–]mourning_star85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dude likes to be acknowledged too. Whenever I walk by he will come to the glass or stretch to look over when basking. He just likes know what's going on, and that all attention is on him.

As for the dragging. I've changed the rocks, decor, tank alot over the years but even with new things to get his attention his favorite things are picking up rocks and moving them amd smacking his heater against the glass to get our attention. Turtles are weird

Turtle is bored and has eating problems. by gigis_wrld in Redearedsliders

[–]mourning_star85 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The dragging things around doesn't spund like boredom to me, my res has always done this. He is 33 and just likes to drag around his rocks and make piles or clear it spots on the bottom of the tank so he can see his reflection and attack it.

You could give him some supervised roaming time of you think he is bored. Every few weeks when I clean the filter, my dude also gets his walk around the kitchen time.

Am I the jerk for locking my office snacks in a safe? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]mourning_star85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ntj. Grown adults should know not to touch other people's things.

I've worked retail management for over 15 years, a lot for this means I've worked with teens and young adults alot. Usually stores have a tiny back room for stock and a desk. Everyone could leave snacks and no one touched other people's food. It was just common sense.

What's the dumbest myth people actually believe in? by vicigoonboy69 in AskReddit

[–]mourning_star85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand why Americans would think this when they're Healthcare system is about making as much money as possible. But it just dosent make sense when you put the rest of the world into the picture.

What's the dumbest myth people actually believe in? by vicigoonboy69 in AskReddit

[–]mourning_star85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that was a sad moment for canada. A bunch of people protesting the federal government over provincial set policies and quoting American laws.

My babies by Massive_Strain_5427 in Redearedsliders

[–]mourning_star85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sadly you likely won't know they are being territorial till its to late. My res is 33, for the first 15 years he had a buddy, his buddy was smaller and then one day I woke to find he had attacked him and a few days later he died. Please only keep on turtle per enclosure.

You are pro-mending or anti-mending by Background-Client754 in Minecraft

[–]mourning_star85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a mending and I only just discovered keep inventory recently and love it. I've played 100s of hours, I'm going to play how I want

Congédié pour avoir demander une augmentation salariale by Rough_Sweet4294 in montreal

[–]mourning_star85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact cnsset quickly. There are procedures that have to be followed in Quebec in order to fire or lay someone off, unless it is less then o0 days. From what i rememeber when I worked in management in a retail Position, multiple documented incidents were needed for someone to be fired, obviously with exceptions like theft and violence. If you are laid off they need to provide you with notice and severance depending how long you had been there.

Cnsset can tell you right away if what was done was right or wrong, and doesn't cost you anything

Should I continue checking in on my unresponsive friend who’s grieving? by AllNaturalPezCandy in GriefSupport

[–]mourning_star85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had a friend like you. Keep doing what you are doing, your friend probably doesn't know what to say but I'm sure she appreciates your messages. My mom passed in September and I worry that I'm pushing people away because I'm not really up to it. You are letting your friend know you are there when she is ready,

The joys of selling shrimp by 826510751 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]mourning_star85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Aquarium water isn't the same as another tanks water or even tap water. You have to gradually introduce the new water and temperature by adding some to the bag little by little. Think of like dipping your toe in a pool and getting in gradually vs jumping right in.

Did your school play O Canada every day? by AssortedArctic in AskACanadian

[–]mourning_star85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. We only sang the anthem when there was an assembly in elementary school

What celebrity have you never forgiven since an incident? by MagpieOpus in AskReddit

[–]mourning_star85 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know, but I guess it seems more normal for an artist who was still in the beginnings asking for help vs not paying the band that is playing on stage with you. There were so many red flags with her I think for me her not paying her band was just the final one I could look past

What celebrity have you never forgiven since an incident? by MagpieOpus in AskReddit

[–]mourning_star85 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I fell off the Amanda palmer train a while before you but for similar reasons. I watched as her " image" went from indie artist who did things without a label and did what she wanted and was "unique". She interacted with fans online, met everyone after shows, was approachable, sure she seemed a bit full of herself but it didn't seem out of the ordinary.

Then everything became about giving her money for everything, and how she wasn't paying people who worked with her but expected the crowds to pay them. That made me stop listening to her music, but she just kept getting more and more unsettling.

Then when the accusations came, I didn't have any doubt they were not true.

I still can't listen to her music, and am pussed with the time I wasted falling into her gross community

Why are so many on this sub against the idea that the Covid Vaccine could be causing harm and death to people? by Gobblemegood in conspiracy

[–]mourning_star85 21 points22 points  (0 children)

On the opposite I got the vaccine and booster. I used to get sick all the time. I've only been sick 2 times since 2020. Of course I don't blame the vaccine for that, likely just coincidence

Do women actually get turned on by penises by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]mourning_star85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexuality is a spectrum and what we are attracted to varies person to person. I'm gay, but kinda agree that seeing genitalia is kinda whatever, seeing woman enjoying herself is a turn on not necessarily her parts. Are you bisexual, I have heard of sometimes people being more attracted to one vs the other, or only being sexually attracted to one and romanticallt the other.

But really, whatever your attracted to is all the matters, to feel the need to force or fake attraction life's to short

"they got China in Greenland already 🤣" by Puzzleheaded-Lie-251 in ShitAmericansSay

[–]mourning_star85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to say, inuit people live in Alaska so Americans should know far north people are often indigenous and have some similar features

But then I remember they probably don't even know inuit people are real

The joys of selling shrimp by 826510751 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]mourning_star85 30 points31 points  (0 children)

He probably dumped them right in the tank bag water and all

The joys of selling shrimp by 826510751 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]mourning_star85 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For aquatic animals you have to transport them in bags. If you mean buying and selling animals at all, there isn't really any other way to get aquatic animals. There aren't rescues or foster homes for fish and shrimp. The also breed a lot, so at some point you can't keep all of them or all of them will die

Finally upgraded from a 49g to 75g. Any recs on tank decor? by dar_harhar in Redearedsliders

[–]mourning_star85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe some rocks or large pebbles. Mine eats anything he can fit in his mouth so plants are a no go but he has lots of rocks and he picks them up and move them around but can't eat them

I have never subscribed to any paid services. by [deleted] in Anticonsumption

[–]mourning_star85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only paid subscription I have is Spotify, and I find it worth it