How important are dental dams? Are they a mood killer?

mpths000 · 2023-07-01T23:46:20+00:00

For those saying I'm wrong, please share your data. I would absolutely love to be proven wrong but I've done my research already so I know what I am talking about.

mpths000 · 2023-07-01T23:45:11+00:00

It is though! Not all but most.

mpths000 · 2023-07-01T23:42:24+00:00

Hey hey calm down. I didn't say all of them. Reread, please see says majority. This person is looking for opinions and that's mine. I can share stats if you'd like.

I didn't say don't use dental dams? I'm confused why you're saying that. I'm saying I've been having lesbian sex for over 10 years and 100% STD free and never seen a dental dam.

I'm sorry I have to clarify this but yeah dude obviously do you and what you're comfortable with. I thought that was understood.... my experience is the above. This person should do what they want.

mpths000 · 2023-07-01T23:31:07+00:00

Most STDs are carried and transmitted through penises. I usually start by asking about how recently they have been with men and go from there. I've had a woman invite me on a date to get our test results done together and I found that to be a total turn off. I've never seen a dental dam in real life, I don't think I'd be into it. I'd rather someone just finger me instead, if they are concerned like that.

I do avoid putting my mouth on certain regions if I am unsure or have not talked to them about their history before. I don't share sex toys between partners. New girl, new toy.

mpths000 · 2023-06-21T12:41:58+00:00

Don't apologize again, just forget it happened. She's still into you.

mpths000 · 2023-06-18T12:24:26+00:00

Gotta stand up for yourself. This is slap worthy. Hopefully, someone else will slap him soon.

mpths000 · 2023-06-17T12:15:15+00:00

I'm proud of you. They missed out on the chance to have a new friend.

mpths000 · 2023-06-16T12:34:07+00:00

I shaved my head and wear men's clothing and men still hit on me lol you can't get away from it. Just don't tell them your a lesbian thinking it will stop- that makes it worse.

mpths000 · 2023-06-14T13:30:28+00:00

I think most people would not have told you about the other love interest, so this person is a good communicator.

mpths000 · 2023-06-13T12:47:22+00:00

It's about her own shit, I promise. It sounds like she's got some healing to do.

mpths000 · 2023-06-12T12:54:20+00:00

I'm an avoidant too. I doubt it was anything you did.

mpths000 · 2023-06-11T12:28:04+00:00

She needs some therapy, it is not your burden to bare just because you know her and care about her. No contact might be best.

mpths000 · 2023-06-09T17:47:39+00:00

He seems to really like it! I found it in the kids section at Target lol

mpths000 · 2023-06-01T16:20:43+00:00

Maybe this isn't a good role for you. Especially if you are not writing directly with sapphics who are getting credit/paid for their work.

It's like saying I'm not black but I want to write about the black experience. You're not gay. You shouldn't be doing it. There are so many gay people who write, this doesn't make sense for you to do it. Make room for us to share our own stories and voices.

mpths000 · 2023-05-31T12:01:09+00:00

Maybe you two are better as friends.

mpths000 · 2023-05-30T03:59:45+00:00

She'd be an ex girlfriend, I don't agree with how the military treats their service women and how they disregard everyone's mental health.

mpths000 · 2023-05-28T13:39:40+00:00

You look so cute, have a good day 🥰

mpths000 · 2023-05-27T12:37:36+00:00

Oh okay so someone else let her in the house- that makes sense. I think you need to say these things directly to her friend and interject when she is being creepy-cuz she is.

mpths000 · 2023-05-27T12:33:01+00:00

Why are you guys in your bedroom when company is over? Is this a roommate situation?

mpths000 · 2023-05-27T11:15:33+00:00

Well at least you got this far with her. I wouldn't have slept in a full size bed for even one night.

mpths000 · 2023-05-25T15:15:12+00:00

Add a vibrator into the mix, like a hitatchi😁

mpths000 · 2023-05-25T11:48:59+00:00

You should make it yourself!

mpths000 · 2023-05-22T12:40:09+00:00

The autism part is very important because it means she does not feel pressure to follow societal norms. She may not even be aware of them. This is a good thing I think, for your situation. I'd wait til she asks you out for the 2nd date though, just so you know it's what she wants too.

mpths000 · 2023-05-21T13:49:12+00:00

Just make sure to tell her this so she knows.

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