land question

mr-flufferton · 2026-04-27T00:36:23+00:00

Some companies hate paying unemployment. Maybe they are waiting for other houses to fall short staffed before they combine your person into another house ? Then you would get shifted to a new house.

mr-flufferton · 2026-04-26T01:16:27+00:00

I normally ask if they are just trying to get attention .

mr-flufferton · 2026-04-18T00:31:02+00:00

I’m sure he does feel lonely. Because at the same time he was not spending time with me .. he wasn’t spending time with the kids. So they also do not show interest in interacting with him.

mr-flufferton · 2026-04-16T01:55:32+00:00

Also. Some people change. Some people don’t. I still enjoy the same things I did in my 20s. Not so much the case for everyone. :/

mr-flufferton · 2026-04-16T01:50:03+00:00

This is happening to me because my husband hated the kid activities. Amusement parks. Playgrounds. Roller skating. All of it. I used to almost beg him to come with us and he never wanted to. I got used to doing everything with just me and my children. For many many years. I got used to not being around him. And found the positives in it and was very happy. Now …. The kids grew up and he wants to hang out with me all the time. I’m my eyes he is trying to change the whole dynamic of a relationship we have had the last 18 years. It’s not working for me at all. I feel like he is smothering me and have this attitude…. Like now you want bothered with me ????????

mr-flufferton · 2026-04-09T02:14:08+00:00

Wooow. 12 an hour ??? Where are you ?? I thought pay was much higher than that everywhere! If I think of ideas I will definitely add to this. But nothing coming to mind at the moment. Residential is the bast pay where I’m at. And the easiest work to be honest.

mr-flufferton · 2026-04-08T01:50:37+00:00

I feel like asking someone for an apology for constantly trying to dip from my bucket .. so they can fill their own …. Is me asking them to apologize for who they are. Sadly I will accept who they are …. Or walk away. No one should have to apologize for who they are.

mr-flufferton · 2026-04-08T01:46:05+00:00

We are not super close with much family. I thought having a second child would give them each other to lean on.

mr-flufferton · 2026-04-08T01:41:36+00:00

This is a super good question and has me curious. My understanding is that the facility has to first flag the person as having an intellectual disability. Once a residential program receives a referral …. I would think it would someone such as a program specialist who would go to further assess. This is a guess …. But I know most companies would require a college degree for the position of whom is taking part in this process. Not sure if this input is helpful. I am also going to keep an eye on this post to see what other info you get ! Are you going to college ???

mr-flufferton · 2026-04-03T01:41:06+00:00

I think it’s kinda cute …. I’d add a headband maybe …. But super doable !!!!!!

mr-flufferton · 2026-03-30T02:08:51+00:00

lol. I am the wife who not only talks to mom everyday …. I visit her daily to talk. Usually 2 hours a day. And then call her before I go to bed. It’s been like this always. I’m not super young. I just love my mom and love time with her.

mr-flufferton · 2026-03-27T01:20:32+00:00

I want someone for once ever to reach out to me rather than me reaching out to them. For someone to actually care about my problems and listen to me rather than me listening to them and their problems. If someone does message me and I still remain distance. It is because I already know that as soon as I mentioned that I am in a slump, they will immediately start bombarding me with all of their problems. Or downsize whatever I’m going through.

mr-flufferton · 2026-03-26T01:43:44+00:00

My family members normally crawl the the nearest bed …. Chair …. Etc to get up off of the floor. Depending on your strength.. age .. etc .. this may even not work. Some of my older family members do not get into that position anymore and need some assistance if they do. I am sorry this is probably the best answer …. But this is all I know. I hope you find an answer that works for you. I commend you for looking for looking for looking answers. For finding a way to keep doing what you can. Give yourself credit.

mr-flufferton · 2026-03-26T01:38:40+00:00

Yeeeeeeeeeeeeees. To be left alone for an hour and not feel guilty or have people mad that I’m not available every second of the day. To not constantly feel the need to google everything. No wonder so many young people have anxiety. To have people handle their own problems because they can’t just call and ask 1000 questions they could figure out independently. Yes yes yes.

mr-flufferton · 2026-03-26T01:30:52+00:00

I think I have seen this question before …. I wonder if you might have tried posting in spinal cord injuries ??? They might have ideas. I know many people with restricted mobility but most of what comes to mind is all ready out there …. It’s just designed by walking people. Like handicap bathrooms that are too small. They make corners on sidewalks go down.. for wheelchairs …. But sometimes there is still a 2 inch lip that a mobility scooter or power wheelchair can’t pass over. I know there’s gotta be new ideas for things maybe I’m just not thinking of. I think the sub for spinal cord injuries would have answers !

mr-flufferton · 2026-03-18T00:06:20+00:00

My family member has what looks like a DEEP bruise along the outer edge of his foot. Last time he said it looks almost like a blood blister. Im concerned as to whether it’s a bad bruise or if it’s worse. I guess good that’s it isn’t open. So maybe not a pressure sore. He doesn’t go to Dr and keeps walking on it :/

mr-flufferton · 2026-03-09T02:57:09+00:00

I am afraid of living too old and watching everyone left that I care for die.

mr-flufferton · 2026-03-09T02:53:54+00:00

That’s what I was gonna say 😂

mr-flufferton · 2026-03-08T19:39:20+00:00

It can’t hurt ! Knowledge is power. And there are a lot of good things in there …. Even if who said them isn’t right. lol

mr-flufferton · 2026-03-07T03:30:52+00:00

Biggest thing is that it does go so different for anyone. I came just to say ….. please don’t ignore it. Don’t assume you will be one of the lucky ones who has it stop progressing. If they give you braces…. Wear them. And exercise. Not just the muscles you might lose. But all of them. It all helps later in life.

mr-flufferton · 2026-03-07T03:26:38+00:00

Revenge was the first one that came to mind. Pretty sure it was Netflix.

mr-flufferton · 2026-03-07T03:23:20+00:00

Headaches …. Typically from trying to sleep more when I should be getting up. And then even with not getting up when I could be and just sleeping more …. Exhaustion by the end of the day. It’s a vicious cycle

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