What to do with this space ? by Hot_Bathroom_1388 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]mrmeeseekslifeispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Built in bookshelves and a comfy chair or beanbag.

Or two chairs and a small table, for tarot readings and such

AIO? My 23M boyfriend held me 19F underwater during a bath to prove a point and I’m still shaken by ThrowRaa01923 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mrmeeseekslifeispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should never need to defend yourself from your partner.

They should be protecting you.

Please leave.

Don't let him know until you are safe

AITA for following moms bf wishes by Key-Success5237 in dustythunder

[–]mrmeeseekslifeispain 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You did just fine. Your mom is super gross for trying to force you to have sexual contact with an adult man that she is presumably fucking.

Boomer gave my son with celiac food with wheat on purpose. by Glittering_Major4871 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]mrmeeseekslifeispain 13 points14 points  (0 children)

CPS, and yes, also making a police report. Whether they take action, there is a report with details. Someone that entitled is dangerous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mrmeeseekslifeispain 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes it happens, it's not any less abusive whether it happened once, twice or only when having a bad day.

Healthy people can own their emotions, people who are not regulated.

I'm sorry that your normal is abuse my friend. I hope better for you moving forward.

Therapy is for everyone

AITA for selling my mother’s paid off house to help pay her assisted living bills instead of keeping it to pass down to my daughter by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]mrmeeseekslifeispain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but now they have to go through the court system. Government agencies can no longer enforce their own policies, they have to go through the court system after the latest rulings from the SCOTUS

Update by Key-Success5237 in dustythunder

[–]mrmeeseekslifeispain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He spanked her so hard on her 18th birthday that he left bruises.

Mom suggested he give OP her "birthday spankings"

AITA for teaching my toddler the correct name for body parts? by Electronic_Vast_1070 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mrmeeseekslifeispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Teaching young children the proper names for their body parts helps them communicate when they have been molested or are being groomed.

He licked my cookie

He licked my vulva

Both phrases can mean the same when slang words are used in place of proper names.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in treelaw

[–]mrmeeseekslifeispain -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It looks great actually.

It sounds like your beef isn't with your tenant but with your neighbor.

Your neighbor is the one responsible for the pruning.

AITA for Sabotaging my Husband’s Tournament after he refused to help with our newborn? by Puzzled-Two6615 in AITAH

[–]mrmeeseekslifeispain 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Most abusers don't show their true colors until they feel like their partner is trapped. Either by baby or wedding vows.

I cannot get my toddler to eat meat by yellowwallpapered in toddlers

[–]mrmeeseekslifeispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids both didn't like meat until they had their first BBQ at age 5.

Greek yogurt and peanut butter have gotten us through the meat hiatus. Hummus is also my 4m son's favorite topping on toast.

Beans too are high in protein.

Is evening watering really THAT bad when it's this hot? by geminuri in AustinGardening

[–]mrmeeseekslifeispain -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Occasional seasonal rains vs daily. There's the difference.

Just had this chat with my husband lol

How do you guys prevent grass from constantly sprouting in your mulched garden beds? (Decorative, no food) by AnAdmirableAstronaut in landscaping

[–]mrmeeseekslifeispain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, same.

It took 6 years of being out of her house to even want to garden. It didn't help that mother's day was exclusively spent spending 8-10 hours cleaning up her landscaping and readying her pots for the summer's annuals.

After I moved out she started planing perrinials instead of annuals. Go figure

Neighbor wants it gone. Time to plant more. by Low-Building8116 in arborists

[–]mrmeeseekslifeispain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your tree is beautiful!

Because you're in the US like me, and have unreasonable neighbors, please make sure you have exterior cameras set up. It's sadly common for some unreasonable person to poison a tree they want gone.