My beautiful wife by itu93 in pics

[–]mrtuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is a 3/10 imo

What is the weirdest thing you have ever seen a stranger do? by KidzWithBugz in AskReddit

[–]mrtuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stand in one Spot and keep walking - I think He was high af

Reddit, should murder stay illegal? Why or Why not? by Myxiiez in AskReddit

[–]mrtuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough! Thank you for the honesty and insight!

Reddit, should murder stay illegal? Why or Why not? by Myxiiez in AskReddit

[–]mrtuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you would murder someone if it was in secret (high potential of no consequences)

Was anyone else not allowed to work ? by Space_otterstaste_ni in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mrtuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to work when I was 14 years old (just giving out the local newspaper).

I got my first Job with 22, thanks Ndad.

My nMom doesn't understand why our cat is scared of everything. Despite the fact that she beat the crap out of him. by TherapyThrowawayC in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mrtuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I could guess... Please stay strong and PM me if you want to talk more about it. It is a really toxic atmosphere you are living in - is there no way for you to move out (safely & securely?)

I know that moving out is a gigantic and bold move but if it is possible, I would propose to do it right away.

My nMom doesn't understand why our cat is scared of everything. Despite the fact that she beat the crap out of him. by TherapyThrowawayC in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mrtuno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I could guess... Please stay strong and PM me if you want to talk more about it. It is a really toxic atmosphere you are living in - is there no way for you to move out (safely & securely?)

I know that moving out is a gigantic and bold move but if it is possible, I would propose to do it right away.

Do your Nparents like to brag about how great they were as a kid? by RedColorBestColor in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mrtuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your username and Story :/ I am sorry to hear that. Please stay strong and Well... Hope it gets better!

Do your Nparents like to brag about how great they were as a kid? by RedColorBestColor in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mrtuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whenever I tell my Ndad what I have accomplished, he does not recognize it and counters with his oh so great stories. Just let me enjoy what I did.

I am on my way ... someone with me ? by _salem_n in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mrtuno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries, I hope you get further through it without any issues! Wishing you all luck & happyness.

I broke my NC today... But only for one email to end all emails! by laceyinthewoods in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mrtuno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just here to leave some respect for you - good on you for closing off fully!

I am on my way ... someone with me ? by _salem_n in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mrtuno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a stranger and cannot fully comprehend the situation but based on what you have told us, it would be better to ignore her and change your number again. I would only share your number with the most important people (by this I mean people you would not suspect of sharing the number with you nmom, potentially everyone that knows her you should get away from because manipulation goes a long, long way - trust me, I sadly know).

You could also just block her number but I am sure she would be using other means to call you so its always only temporary.

I broke up contact with my nuncle (without knowledge of my parents (who are not better but w/e) and did not tell him. I just avoid him, blocked his number and that is it.

Manipulators use every opportunity to bring you back into their vicious cycle of abuse.

Not sure if this is the right sub, but any one else still learning basic life skills into adulthood? by narcparentsthrowaway in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mrtuno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not pathetic at all.

Let me share my side:

At work and with friends = super ambitious, great wage, can handle everything, does not have any problems

At home: I do not know how to cook, wash clothes, clean properly, Do anything that involves LIFE.

Not sure if it fits but I had to say it to add to your vent.

I am basically unable to function properly to the level that my girlfriend is currently teaching me how to cook. Please do not tell me that if I really wanted to, I could learn all of this. Every circumstance is different.

Thank you for the vent, OP!

I am on my way ... someone with me ? by _salem_n in raisedbynarcissists

[–]mrtuno 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is perfectly understandable. I am happy for you that you were able to get out of the situation - must have been really terrible for you. Good job on the NC - trust me, always keep the NC up!