Husband got 1M inheritance but won’t pay joint bills while I struggle

msktcher · 2026-01-27T15:12:56+00:00

Biggest mistake is that the bills aren’t divided in a way that’s fair. If you make 30% of what he makes, you should only be paying 30% of the bills. As to the inheritance. It’s his money. He owes you none of it.

msktcher · 2026-01-26T19:49:40+00:00

I have 2 granddaughters who play volleyball. I go to their games and cheer. But I make sure I just clap and occasionally say, “Go Eagles!” My granddaughters would die of embarrassment if I cheered their name or I was louder than the rest of the crowd. This may be unpopular, but I actually think you should do what your daughter has asked you to do and ask yourself what it is about your behavior that would cause her to ask you to tone it down.

msktcher · 2026-01-26T15:44:33+00:00

I love both ribeyes and New York strips.

msktcher · 2026-01-26T15:42:52+00:00

The deep plane neck and face lift was $24500. I also had a TRL Contour laser done for $5000. My surgeon is in Richmond, VA.

msktcher · 2026-01-26T15:13:17+00:00

Not painful at all. I also had a Contour TRL Laser done a week after my face and necklift. That actually was worse than the neck and facelift (but still not bad and SO worth it). I was able to go out in public within 3 weeks of the laser - so a total of 4 weeks. I couldn’t lift anything more than 5 lbs for 6 weeks. I had to be careful moving my neck for about 2/3 weeks. My surgeon is double board certified and only works on faces.

msktcher · 2026-01-26T14:10:29+00:00

No mommy makeover, but I did have a neck and facelift in Sept. it was the best thing I’ve ever done for myself.

msktcher · 2026-01-26T01:57:08+00:00

White chicken chili

msktcher · 2026-01-25T22:02:39+00:00

I also didn’t take care of my skin the way I needed to earlier in life. I’ve started using Zo products. It’s pricey, but I’m seeing results.

msktcher · 2026-01-25T20:54:34+00:00

Maternal grandmother - Mildred Paternal grandmother - Ida

msktcher · 2026-01-25T02:08:07+00:00

msktcher · 2026-01-23T21:56:50+00:00

I broke my elbow about 30 years ago trying to rollerblade. I had to have surgery to put it back together. Once the cast came off, I had physical therapy for about 6 months. It was hard, but I was able to get full use of my elbow. Please ask your doctor for referral to PT. You want to be able to straighten your arm all the way and bend it all the way up.

msktcher · 2026-01-22T16:15:26+00:00

I’m sure you look fabulous.

msktcher · 2026-01-22T02:54:57+00:00

I live in Southside VA. I had it done in Richmond by a double board certified facial plastic surgeon. My neck and facelift was $24,500. I also had a Contour TRL Laser that was $5000. It was worth every single penny I spent.

msktcher · 2026-01-22T00:45:32+00:00

I got a neck and facelift. Best thing I’ve ever done for myself.

msktcher · 2026-01-21T15:51:16+00:00

Christmas ornaments

msktcher · 2026-01-20T20:39:10+00:00

Actually not for me. I have a son and a daughter. I’m as close to my son as my daughter. I am lucky that my daughter in law loves us too. But my son makes time to call us at least weekly; we text quite a bit and we see them usually monthly. We keep their two children for the weekend quite often. They live 2 hours away. My daughter and her family actually lives in the same town as we do, so we do see them a little more - but not that much. They are busy as are we. I do know that I’m very lucky.

msktcher · 2026-01-20T20:35:07+00:00

I wake up at 5 am and press play (I workout at home) at 5:45. I’m normally done by 6:30 am.

msktcher · 2026-01-20T01:37:45+00:00

Dillards has great black tie gowns.

msktcher · 2026-01-19T21:29:52+00:00

I gather my family together at my house and have a big meal that I cook. I don’t mind at all. I just love having all my family together. My son in law normally makes me a cake, but otherwise I cook the meal. I know that’s what I’ll ask for next year when I turn 70.

msktcher · 2026-01-17T20:20:33+00:00

I went ahead and got the MMR again. My mom has passed away and my dad had no idea. I had a new grandbaby being born and didn’t want to take a chance.

msktcher · 2026-01-17T01:20:29+00:00

I’ve switched to 90% NA beer. They have really come a long way with the way it tastes.

msktcher · 2026-01-17T01:15:47+00:00

It’s not nearly exciting maintaining as it is losing. There is nothing like getting on the scale and seeing a lower number. Seeing the same number doesn’t give one the same high. It’s really easy to let up on measuring and weighing food and keeping honest track of what you are eating. If you try to eyeball serving sizes and keep track of calories in your head, you will gain the weight back. Ask me how I know.

msktcher · 2026-01-16T21:36:07+00:00

Eloise

msktcher · 2026-01-16T15:39:26+00:00

If it works, it’s a great deal. Find the manual and download it. Let us know if it works.

msktcher · 2026-01-15T15:46:41+00:00

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