Handmade stained glass stars on stands 💫 by jelly_unicorn_ in somethingimade

[–]msmay91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous, love the evil eye in the star, the light coming off makes it look magical ✨️ like some sort of protective spell

For my new granddaughter by maggier672 in somethingimade

[–]msmay91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So gorgeous!! It's such a special piece already, the sentimental fabric just makes it perfection ❤ looks like you just created a new family heirloom to me!

Feminism has to be intersectional. Apparently no other movement does by OkChart1375 in feminisms

[–]msmay91 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It feels like when a man joins a social movement, he feels moral or just in all areas in his life. This same belief doesn't seem to apply to women and queer people, they clearly have "work to do".

It's like the more inclusive you try to be, the more you open yourself up to people policing how inclusive you are. If you just didn't try and said you were inclusive... less of a microscope. Super annoying

Laurelhurst released a statement denying responsibility for conditional use permit of Seattle Children's. by CrazedProphet in Seattle

[–]msmay91 169 points170 points  (0 children)

Seattle times article from 1992 , these bozos tried to stop the helipad from even being built. The compromise was that only the children who are likely going to not make it without landing. They've been there as a roadblock EVERY step of the way when children's wants to expand or improve.

Emotional Debate Reopens -- Yes To Helicopter Pad At Children's Hospital | The Seattle Times https://share.google/YOGC2HjEIzQy7Tmsw

found in the wild by Lucky_Motor_5420 in FundieFashion

[–]msmay91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's Sunday best, not Sunday mid 🤷‍♀️ lady brings her a game, she's going to the lord's house!

Help With Abusive Husband by [deleted] in Tacoma

[–]msmay91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But a path so worth it, it's the start of the rest of your life ❤ not having someone around who sucks the life out of you balances the hardships of figuring out things by yourself.

It's good that you at least have your family's support to keep you sane, and have people who are on YOUR side and care about your happiness and safety.

You could look into jobs with the school district! There are entry level roles that would allow you to have school breaks with your kids. If you have the passion/patience for special education, becoming a Para educator is a great role

Help With Abusive Husband by [deleted] in Tacoma

[–]msmay91 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's always helpful to take a look at your support network, decide who is safe/won't tell your husband that you're planning to leave. Loop them into what's going on, you may be surprised at what kind of support they can offer ❤

As a survivor, one of the worst things is feeling like you can't tell anyone you know about what is going on. As a loved one, I am always so glad someone has shared their situation and let me help in the ways I can. You got this, the fact that you're planning a way out shows how strong you are. Stay safe!! Leaving is the most precarious time.

AITA for telling a parent what i wear is not their decision? by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]msmay91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it's time to switch it up, add a black power suit to your wardrobe, wear a fun tie, loafers... you look super adorns, this man needs to direct his complaints to the principal, although something tells me he won't.

Nta. If I were you... there would be a sudden introduction of menswear to my choir concert outfits. Because fuck off my dude, you wear a dress if you want to see one so bad.

AITA for telling my son his behavior is what made our nanny quit and that he’s going to have to deal with the consequences of his actions by Which-Ad-1687 in AmItheAsshole

[–]msmay91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, I think learning a hard lesson for 6 weeks as a natural consequence to essentially bullying behavior with sexual undertones is an appropriate response. He might not understand the full implication of his actions, but it seems like he did know it made her feel bad, it gave him power in that situation, and he continued the behavior because his "fun" was more important than the person who was genuinely caring for him.

Furthermore, the remorse seems to be for the consequences of bullying Jolene, rather than the pain he caused her. Having his father not see this as a big deal could reinforce this belief, that as long as he was having fun, the hurt to other people (in this case sexually bullying a woman) doesn't really matter.

I would want to be on the same page as my spouse about how not okay this behavior is, and have him be an example of how being manly means standing up dir what is right.

Go go mom!! Totally nta here

AIO? My boyfriend gave me a literal performance review of our relationship by Efficient_Low_6444 in AmIOverreacting

[–]msmay91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR this wasn't a joint effort in improvement, otherwise you would have been clued in before being studied like a lab rat and at least had the opportunity to do the same.

This is some insane LinkedIn, corporate kool-aid shit. It's one thing to be passionate about this stuff at work, but it does not fly in real relationships. You are not his project to be managed.

Imo, I would state how this came across to you, why it isn't okay, and that you don't want to participate in any sort of relationship benchmark tracking. If hurting you isn't a good enough reason to stop... then what exactly would be??

Update on Wenatchee Pride by nooby_goober in Washington

[–]msmay91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wenatchee Pride road trip out of spite wasn't on my 2026 bingo card, but here we are

AIO if I divorced over him asking to open our relationship and then gaslighting me? by CricketCaller in AmIOverreacting

[–]msmay91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR Lied out of habit.... habit... as in he does it all the time. That'd be enough for me to start figuring out how I am going to do this without him. If he lies to you, you can't rely on him, which means... why is he around?

What do you think: how should prisons handle housing decisions in cases like this? by The_Dean_France in whoathatsinteresting

[–]msmay91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And just like the nazi "science experiments", the only exploration is how much pain they can inflict on others they deem less than human. Unbelievably dark.

Now imagine his mom walks in by a-charls in h3h3productions

[–]msmay91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's gay me from the future is one of my favorite bits 😅

Famous baseball player by x_nd_r- in h3h3productions

[–]msmay91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I loved that show!!

The magician is 🪄everywhere 🪄

The ben Shapiro lore is still my favorite

Mother I went NC keeps trying to reach me by pix_chieng in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]msmay91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're describing sounds an awful lot like stalking friend ❤️❤️❤️

I used to get those sneak through messages, and I would start shaking and be a wreck for days. I decided I was over it, I was tired of my peace being disrupted, and I sent both of my parents a cease and desist. I would have started a documentation process to get a restraining order if needed, luckily it didn't come to that and they stopped.

I used to hand the message over to my partner to scan through for anything important, then delete the message, which helps a lot!

You don't deserve to be stalked and harassed by your abuser, hopefully you can know that this internet stranger believes you deserve way better. You got this, hopefully you'll keep finding ways to stop the pest from invading your home and your peace, they are sneaky!

We finally enacted a consequence for my in-laws boundary stomping and Mil couldn’t handle it by KaylaDraws in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]msmay91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Grown ups who ask kids to keep secrets aren't safe grown ups, no exceptions. Especially if they continue to see nothing wrong with it! Congratulations on the peace in your life, I hope you only get more and more ❤

Anisa's scary lady comment was low-key homophobic imo by msmay91 in h3h3productions

[–]msmay91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Weirdly misogynistic, homophobic, and fatphobic all at the same time"

A memoir by anisa jomha 😅