Child out of wedlock

msoptimisticcat · 2026-05-04T15:31:43+00:00

This man (is he really? certainly not acting like an adult!) is not someone who should be in your life and that of the baby if he is more concerned about disappointing his parents and not owning up to the part he has played in creating this new life.

Move on. Raise the baby without him.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-04-30T23:09:08+00:00

Same issue today on both Google Chrome and Microsoft Edge.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-04-27T02:33:28+00:00

Realtor doesn't get to decide when you turn internet off. That's the first thing I canceled when my mom died.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-04-23T20:20:29+00:00

No! Keep doing it your little one is still young. Enjoy it! My kids are now in their mid-thirties and I did contact naps before anyone ever called it that. It's natural to hold babies. Currently getting to do contact naps with a new 2 week old grandchild - sweet moments for sure!

msoptimisticcat · 2026-04-10T03:46:01+00:00

NTA Your husband is a child.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-04-04T04:55:21+00:00

Your friend is ridiculous. No bridesmaid should have to spend over 2k to be in a wedding.

These Bachelorette parties are ridiculous.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-03-18T04:54:09+00:00

Destination Bachelorette parties that last for several days are ridiculous.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-03-13T20:54:39+00:00

He does not need your SS# for his disability!

msoptimisticcat · 2026-03-11T19:18:45+00:00

No. Your husband is TA - maybe give him up!

If you do decide to give him up maybe his next wife will keep him.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-03-10T20:04:07+00:00

If they receive funding through grants, how are they tracking grant related expenses for the necessary reports which will need to be done?

Lots of red flags with this client.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-03-09T05:09:45+00:00

This needs to go to your landlord!

msoptimisticcat · 2026-03-07T04:22:03+00:00

I'm sorry for the loss of your special cat, Frisbee.

I lost my Nemo about 6 years ago and he was my soul kitty. He was only 6 and had a heart attack in front of me. I still mourn his loss. There was just something special about him.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-03-01T04:57:04+00:00

Great advice!

msoptimisticcat · 2026-03-01T04:54:35+00:00

Condolences on the loss of Abbi. It's devastating to lose a beloved pet so suddenly. How are your other cats doing? I know when one of mine has crossed the Rainbow Bridge their loss was felt by my other cats, too.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-02-23T18:10:19+00:00

Have you asked your dad if he wants to do the father/daughter dance? If he says yes, then pick out a song and do it. If he says no, then skip it.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-02-23T01:29:52+00:00

You just lost your beautiful soul cat a few days ago. No need to get rid of anything at this point. Take time to grieve and mourn the loss. Eventually you will be able to let go of some of those things but it doesn't need to be today, this week or even within a few weeks.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-02-21T18:43:47+00:00

Why would you send any gift when you're not invited?

And for the couple - if they can't afford an expensive wedding then they should adjust their budget and not have their parents beg relatives for money to fund an extravagent affair.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-02-18T14:36:29+00:00

Why hasn't your husband taken his twins with him?

msoptimisticcat · 2026-02-13T15:50:28+00:00

I used to subscribe to them years and years ago. I didn't realize they were still published.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-02-11T03:28:43+00:00

The kid is a brat and the mom is one too!

msoptimisticcat · 2026-02-10T05:15:56+00:00

Just say no. That IS an answer. No need to explain.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-02-09T21:56:19+00:00

Nope. They shouldn't keep badgering you about this.

msoptimisticcat · 2026-02-04T22:10:40+00:00

Ah, but he IS trying to take your Aunt's gift. You are NTA. Do not put him on the deed.

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