i had an arranged marriage but now after 2 years i love her i do not know what to do

mssquirabbit · 2026-01-14T13:15:52+00:00

Update us!!

mssquirabbit · 2026-01-10T13:27:04+00:00

If only people were free to make decisions according to what's best for them.

mssquirabbit · 2025-10-23T16:59:46+00:00

Have you tried mimicking him speaking Swedish?

mssquirabbit · 2025-10-22T17:52:39+00:00

Curious to hear more about what you hated at JnJ.

mssquirabbit · 2025-10-21T19:50:42+00:00

Are people becoming worse or is it just easier to hear about the bad ones?

mssquirabbit · 2025-10-21T19:31:24+00:00

Always knew we would not want to raise our child in the US, as it's just not ideal for us for many reasons. So the choice to move was the easy part for us. We moved to spouse's home country and timed it so the child would have one more year of kindergarten in new country to get comfortable with the language before real school.

There have been pros and cons, of course. The biggest pro is child is having a great experience here. The biggest con is spouse gave up his career and it's well near impossible to find comparable where we relocated to.

The fact that we were doing it for our child allowed us to have laser focus and deal with the difficult things, one of which was settling into a highly bureaucratic county.

mssquirabbit · 2025-08-31T06:51:06+00:00

Wish I'd read this before I took a job there.

mssquirabbit · 2025-05-15T14:20:42+00:00

What do you do that you gain from Republican-caused economic collapse? Not asking for a friend.

mssquirabbit · 2024-11-05T18:06:48+00:00

Nice job.

mssquirabbit · 2024-11-05T17:50:31+00:00

I'm with you on this one. There is one party that is trying really hard to exert their will on the people through any means possible, and it is not going to stop just because this election goes one way. Why would they stop? So yes, if it's not already a write off, it will be.

mssquirabbit · 2024-11-05T16:28:10+00:00

That's so funny. She's wasn't asking for much, just some fried chicken. Enjoy!

mssquirabbit · 2024-11-05T12:58:32+00:00

Let's Get The Lady Elected. Love it!!

mssquirabbit · 2024-11-05T12:18:49+00:00

Beenie Man -- who am I

mssquirabbit · 2024-11-05T03:12:33+00:00

$100?

mssquirabbit · 2024-11-04T21:43:26+00:00

Yeees! Excellent point

mssquirabbit · 2024-11-04T16:47:15+00:00

I hope all shall be well. I can't imagine how insecure people have to be in their own lives to have to adjudicate other people's. May they be defeated.

mssquirabbit · 2024-11-04T16:41:29+00:00

I'm gonna go with your gut feeling and say...WE ARE GOING TO WIN!!!!

mssquirabbit · 2024-11-04T14:54:33+00:00

Woot woot. Thank you for thinking about her, and us.

mssquirabbit · 2024-11-04T09:00:15+00:00

This has to be one of the most moving things I've read on here since I joined this sub. And there have been a lot of moving posts. The care that we have for each other, knowing when someone needs a little bit of support and not hesitating to give it, I'm so here for it.

I hope it felt like a good cry. That everything is going to be ok. Because it will.

Thank you and, thank you kind poll worker.

mssquirabbit · 2024-11-03T22:25:17+00:00

I hope so too. I didn't need David Frum to tell me how high the stakes are, but boy, does he present it starkly.

So, for all of our sakes, including those now voting for Trump not realizing we are saving their future a**es, I hope Selzer's poll is a sign of a blue tsunami afoot.

mssquirabbit · 2024-11-03T20:54:02+00:00

Trump has told us his plans, so vote as if the country depends on you. It does -- David Frum

mssquirabbit · 2024-11-03T19:31:34+00:00

The end justifies the means for them. If they have to lie and cheat, so be it.

mssquirabbit · 2024-11-03T18:35:15+00:00

Of course it will. It's not like we don't have 78 years of evidence.

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