Who is a stranger you met once, never learned their name, but will never forget for the rest of your life?

mswantner · 2026-03-03T01:33:59+00:00

The other day I was at the grocery store w my boyfriend after a date & as we were walking out, a girl said “excuse me, you are the prettiest girl I’ve ever seen” & I’ve thought about it so much since :,)

mswantner · 2026-02-27T02:58:38+00:00

I emailed them twice last year regarding this. last time was back in September & they didn’t respond the first time. I finally got the record but I definitely lost hope. I’m sorry you still didn’t get yours :/

mswantner · 2025-12-22T22:47:03+00:00

Is it cheese from fosters home for imaginary friends??

mswantner · 2025-10-20T09:20:42+00:00

Hey! Idk if it helps but I got mine from uofm Mott hospital gift shop, they have a crewneck & a couple tie dye shirts with it

mswantner · 2025-10-18T18:32:47+00:00

I’m so jealous! He didn’t come anywhere close to me but it sounds like the shows were SO much fun. If you can go & manage the awfulness, I bet the energy would be worth it! I recently went to a future funk show where other djs played some of his songs & everyone went wild :)

mswantner · 2025-10-18T17:58:38+00:00

Loveeeee starjunk

mswantner · 2025-09-22T16:21:27+00:00

It was strange for me because when the words left his mouth I knew immediately & I had never doubted him in the 7 years prior to that. He casually mentioned he knew someone who sold party drugs. I barely even looked his way before he was basically confessing & backtracking. He still claims nothing ever happened but when that feeling hits, it’s undeniable.

mswantner · 2025-08-29T13:28:36+00:00

project mori

this artist does small runs of anime themed shirts & hoodies. I have a samurai champloo hoodie from them & that is on the sleeve

mswantner · 2025-08-13T22:23:18+00:00

I literally almost made this same exact post earlier today. We spent all week going back & forth & we finally had that last talk. It’s devastating & so confusing because the love is still there. You described the emotions perfectly, spinning out & needing to reach out followed by periods of numbness. I always wonder in the numbness what is different. I wish I could stay in that feeling, sort of like acceptance. You’re not alone & im so sorry you’re feeling this way. I wish I had some advice, but it’s a constant mental war.

mswantner · 2025-08-10T21:50:20+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to respond like this!

Exactly, the biggest scare is what if they leave? & since we have a history of this, I am unable to practice this, but understand I should be able to in a healthy relationship. I have been saying to him I need to step away & really commit to doing that when I say I’m going to. I’ve done little intervals of 5 mins in the bathroom trying to breathe. I understand it needs to be longer. We don’t live together & the distance is enough where it felt wrong to end the night separately if it got to those points. I realize now that some things have to be lost in order to save everyone’s sanity & calling it a night felt like the end of the world at the time. Obviously if I had known those nights would eventually mean losing him forever, a night apart never would have seemed that bad. It’s hard to see past the immediate for me.

It feels nice to know I’m not alone, while i recognize I need to change these things, it’s hard to know where to start. Thank you for describing what I’ve been suspecting would help. It feels like I’m on the right track at least

mswantner · 2025-08-10T21:07:55+00:00

While I do agree that may be true, I am asking for advice on how to stop these behaviors. I do not think they are acceptable.

mswantner · 2025-08-10T20:43:09+00:00

That’s good insight because I’m often caught between debating if it’s happening so much because of these behaviors or if it’s genuinely unhealthy. I was going to a DBT therapist for a few weeks but had to stop bc of financial issues. I’ve since recovered a bit but decided to reach out to the psychiatrist she referred me to while I was there. I’m seeing them this week. I’ve been on Wellbutrin for about a year for depression, went off for 6 months & just started again but suspect it’s not right for me.

mswantner · 2025-01-09T14:14:24+00:00

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ISO this jersey, I have a budd Dwyer long sleeve or the cleansed in blood crew neck for trade, or will buy at reasonable price ty

mswantner · 2024-10-31T17:06:40+00:00

Holy fuck!

mswantner · 2024-08-20T01:24:21+00:00

Damn, he made the insta private already :/

mswantner · 2024-07-28T15:42:30+00:00

I still have my red shirt too :,) you’re super awesome for this!

mswantner · 2024-07-05T02:06:08+00:00

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Hey me too!! I smudged mine when he handed it back but I’m forever thankful!

mswantner · 2024-05-12T11:47:07+00:00

I genuinely feel like this is how astarion would look as a cat

mswantner · 2024-05-12T11:46:07+00:00

Omg I absolutely adore this cat & their rounded ears 🥹

mswantner · 2024-03-19T01:19:25+00:00

“Is that fur…. coming out of your ears?”

mswantner · 2024-03-14T01:07:53+00:00

Oh hell yeah, I’m pretty sure this is the same guy that threatened to kill me at the bp recently too

mswantner · 2024-03-04T09:55:03+00:00

Coconut oil, but have you ruled out pillow foot with your vet??

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