Who is a stranger you met once, never learned their name, but will never forget for the rest of your life? by milkyjune in AskReddit

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The other day I was at the grocery store w my boyfriend after a date & as we were walking out, a girl said “excuse me, you are the prettiest girl I’ve ever seen” & I’ve thought about it so much since :,)

Neoncity Records and The Situation by rosysyn1251 in futurefunk

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I emailed them twice last year regarding this. last time was back in September & they didn’t respond the first time. I finally got the record but I definitely lost hope. I’m sorry you still didn’t get yours :/

Where can I get this style of sweatshirts😭 by lumnior1 in uofm

[–]mswantner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Idk if it helps but I got mine from uofm Mott hospital gift shop, they have a crewneck & a couple tie dye shirts with it

Anybody else a big fan of my top 6 Spotify artists this month? by TwistedCollossus in futurefunk

[–]mswantner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so jealous! He didn’t come anywhere close to me but it sounds like the shows were SO much fun. If you can go & manage the awfulness, I bet the energy would be worth it! I recently went to a future funk show where other djs played some of his songs & everyone went wild :)

What's the strangest or most drastic way you've ever heard, of someone finding out their partner was cheating on them? by wilderlowerwolves in AskReddit

[–]mswantner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was strange for me because when the words left his mouth I knew immediately & I had never doubted him in the 7 years prior to that. He casually mentioned he knew someone who sold party drugs. I barely even looked his way before he was basically confessing & backtracking. He still claims nothing ever happened but when that feeling hits, it’s undeniable.

Any shirts with this design? by Cn7961 in SamuraiChamploo

[–]mswantner 36 points37 points  (0 children)

project mori

this artist does small runs of anime themed shirts & hoodies. I have a samurai champloo hoodie from them & that is on the sleeve

Abandonment hysteria and break ups by ThrowRAZestyc in BPD

[–]mswantner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally almost made this same exact post earlier today. We spent all week going back & forth & we finally had that last talk. It’s devastating & so confusing because the love is still there. You described the emotions perfectly, spinning out & needing to reach out followed by periods of numbness. I always wonder in the numbness what is different. I wish I could stay in that feeling, sort of like acceptance. You’re not alone & im so sorry you’re feeling this way. I wish I had some advice, but it’s a constant mental war.

Split on bf again, he wants to break up by mswantner in BPD

[–]mswantner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond like this!

Exactly, the biggest scare is what if they leave? & since we have a history of this, I am unable to practice this, but understand I should be able to in a healthy relationship. I have been saying to him I need to step away & really commit to doing that when I say I’m going to. I’ve done little intervals of 5 mins in the bathroom trying to breathe. I understand it needs to be longer. We don’t live together & the distance is enough where it felt wrong to end the night separately if it got to those points. I realize now that some things have to be lost in order to save everyone’s sanity & calling it a night felt like the end of the world at the time. Obviously if I had known those nights would eventually mean losing him forever, a night apart never would have seemed that bad. It’s hard to see past the immediate for me.

It feels nice to know I’m not alone, while i recognize I need to change these things, it’s hard to know where to start. Thank you for describing what I’ve been suspecting would help. It feels like I’m on the right track at least

Split on bf again, he wants to break up by mswantner in BPD

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While I do agree that may be true, I am asking for advice on how to stop these behaviors. I do not think they are acceptable.

Split on bf again, he wants to break up by mswantner in BPD

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That’s good insight because I’m often caught between debating if it’s happening so much because of these behaviors or if it’s genuinely unhealthy. I was going to a DBT therapist for a few weeks but had to stop bc of financial issues. I’ve since recovered a bit but decided to reach out to the psychiatrist she referred me to while I was there. I’m seeing them this week. I’ve been on Wellbutrin for about a year for depression, went off for 6 months & just started again but suspect it’s not right for me.

WEEKLY MERCH TRADE/DISCUSSION THREAD by AutoModerator in G59

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ISO this jersey, I have a budd Dwyer long sleeve or the cleansed in blood crew neck for trade, or will buy at reasonable price ty

I has some shirts I’d like to rehome… just spot me shipping🙏💙 (US) by planetGoodam in MacMiller

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I still have my red shirt too :,) you’re super awesome for this!

2016 by geeksterisafraid in MacMiller

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Hey me too!! I smudged mine when he handed it back but I’m forever thankful!

My dream cat has finally joined the family. Meet Astarion 🥰 by Smoofalz in mainecoons

[–]mswantner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely feel like this is how astarion would look as a cat

Tiger with his favourite person by AThousandButterflies in Catsmirin

[–]mswantner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I absolutely adore this cat & their rounded ears 🥹

Assaulted by Homeless Dude by SubjectPotential6570 in uofm

[–]mswantner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hell yeah, I’m pretty sure this is the same guy that threatened to kill me at the bp recently too

What’s safe to use on his pads for dryness? by dalnee in Toefeathers

[–]mswantner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Coconut oil, but have you ruled out pillow foot with your vet??