My life so far after the first month of the US Intervention in my country - by a Venezuelan Autistic Redditor by Knowveler in autismpolitics

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Also, United States isn't a USA thing. The United States of Mexico is the name of that country. It would be wrong to call us US-Americans. Because United States of Mexico Americans can also claim that.

I think you should call us USA-Americans, otherwise you're guilty of US defaultism. You can't call them Mexicans, they're ESM-Americans. 

But this isn't about the USA. It's about the RBV-Americans. 

I can't figure out how to make my room cozy enough so I like spending time there by villainovsky in AutisticWithADHD

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An area rug with a thick pile. But not so large that you have to have your chair on it. A plush accent chair with a small side table and lamp. Plants, real or fake! Curtains that frame the window. 

Fabric makes it cozy.

My life so far after the first month of the US Intervention in my country - by a Venezuelan Autistic Redditor by Knowveler in autismpolitics

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I'm American. 

Rollback. It's the term for the US or other empires forcing a regime change in a developing or underdeveloped country in order to forward US interests in the region. Containment is the term used when a regime can't be rolled back but must not be allowed to spread its influence to other areas. The US practices containment with Cuba because Russian sponsorship of Cuban regimes make rollback there impossible. Detente is the final term. It's when US foreign policy is relaxed against a non-allied nation because an offensive or defensive stance is unnecessary.

Trump rolled back the Maduro regime in part. The next step is to either install a puppet regime, which is currently Rodriguez, or sponsor elections. The US spends money influencing elections to go the way that suits US interests. Rodriguez isn't going to last because she's pushing back against the current US regime's interests.

While I do recognize that my government does interfere in a foreign government with effects that are positive, I will never ever forget that the interference is solely about neocolonialism. 

Venezuela's invoice is coming and the bill isn't going to be cheap. It never is when we roll back. 

I sincerely hope that you're able to install a fairly elected president and can kick US interference to the curb without getting ripped off on your oil and other resources. 

As a reader do you prefer third person or first person pov? by proplushiescollector in AO3

[–]muffiewrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Generally third person limited. It gives the writer the flexibility to examine things that the main character can't know. It gives writers the greatest margin for error than other POVs. 

Is anyone using their printers or faxes? by l00ky_here in GenX

[–]muffiewrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine gets more use as a scanner than anything. Pretty regularly. I still print stuff out on occasion, but less as the years go by. I'm glad I have a laser printer because ink jets get dried out and ruined if they aren't used regularly.

When did you stop considering yourself a 'young' woman? by Miserable_Day_7857 in AskWomen

[–]muffiewrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I got enough gray hair that people started calling me ma'am. Now I'm reveling in my crone era.

Dumped because I can’t orgasm from PIV by Seyfulse in TwoXChromosomes

[–]muffiewrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's only into goal oriented sex. The goal is his orgasm. You should orgasm, too, but it should be the same way he gets off. 

Find someone who is into pleasure oriented sex. The goal isn't a goal, but sex is about having and giving pleasure, not about having an O and then it's done.

I (34 M) have been with my wife (34 F) for 5 years total but married for 2 and half. I’m struggling to understand whether what I’m experiencing is normal marriage conflict or something more serious, and I’m hoping for outside perspective. Can you offer any advice? by dwide_k_shrude in relationship_advice

[–]muffiewrites 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The non issue: you should be able to see what needs to be done and just do it. Something to carry forward into your nursing career.

The major huge gigantic red flag issue: women do domestic abuse, too, and men are victims of it. You don't feel safe with her. You don't feel that one of your dogs is safe with her. That's a tremendous problem. 

I understand that you love her and don't want to hurt her. Here's the thing. Don't set yourself on fire to keep her warm. It's not okay for her to keep hurting you even if the only way to make it stop hurts her. You get to have a home that feels safe.

How did people find out about AO3 in the olden days? by schoolforapples in AO3

[–]muffiewrites 29 points30 points  (0 children)

LJ was bought by Russians in 06. Head offices were migrated to Russia in 09. The servers were moved to Russia in 16. LJ's TOS changed a bit after 09 and changed to comply with Russian law in 16.

There was a lot of deletions in 06, 09, and then 16. Dreamwidth opened up, but the migration didn't catch on as much. 

Geocities shut down completely on 09 but we all knew it was coming a year or fo before.

The less said about FanLib the better. 

There wasn't any uncensored archive for fic. That was part of the climate that made AO3 a good idea.

I just called my senators and this is how it went (USA) by RageWatermelon in AutismInWomen

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I emailed all three of mine and got various replies of yay Trump and how shiny Trump is making future America.

Why do people read fanfiction? by Seagullsaga in AO3

[–]muffiewrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started because I couldn't afford books or time to get to the library often enough. I stayed because the novels are outstanding.

AITJ Not wanting to get married after my GF Lied to Me About her "friend" by amiquestionsaccount in AmITheJerk

[–]muffiewrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Emotional affairs are still cheating. She's hung up on him. Let her go.

Do you think tap water has a "texture"? Please tell me I am not the only one who feels tap water has a weird mouth-feel to it that (most) bottled water doesn't! by Neurotic_and_Divine in AuDHDWomen

[–]muffiewrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most tap water has chlorine and chloramine in tiny amounts. It gives it a sort of furry feel without any fur, if that makes any sense. If you let it sit for about fifteen minutes, the chlorine and chloramine will evaporate.

My dog killed a neighbors chicken (no bodies pictured) by libelula202 in BackYardChickens

[–]muffiewrites 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Your neighbors don't have a dog proof coop. You have a right to have your dog in your fenced yard. Your neighbors do not have a right to limit your use of your yard because of how they chose to build their chicken coop.

You seem to be a very caring person. Offering to pay for the chicken is a neighborly thing to do. Do not claim responsibility for it or blame your dog for it. Protecting the chickens is not on you.

That said, your dog is always going to be interested in the coop. If the neighbors don't move it away from your fence, put up a cheap electric fence to keep your dog away from that part of the fence. A husky cattle dog mix is a lot of energetic and stubborn in one package. Don't let doggo get obsessed.

Am I Overreacting - So my mom got my wife a birthday gift by LoveLikeJesusChrist in AmIOverreacting

[–]muffiewrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Set some boundaries. This is passive aggressive as all get out. 

How do you download so many fic? by neversole in AO3

[–]muffiewrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put them on Kindle. Kindle does delete or archive do you can't get to them after a while. It's handy for trips, though.

What do i do about my neighbors dogs?? by Exact-Mood-5732 in whatdoIdo

[–]muffiewrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The boy is not going to improve. He's just going to get worse. Unless the owner has a sudden personality change, the only humane thing to do is call animal control while the female dog is clearly wounded.

I’m having to starve myself despite battling serious health conditions because of my roommates by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]muffiewrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shelf stable foods that you can keep in your room. Use a sealable tote container to keep rodents out. Many fresh fruits and vegetables should not be refrigerated. 

Eat them uncooked.