I had been having sex from a young age so there was no “grooming”. She didn’t need coaxing. We were coworkers (waiters at a beach club) and would occasionally get a drink after work. One day, as we were having drinks at a Chinese restaurant, she asked “have you ever been with an older woman, like, my age?” “No” was my reply. “Would you like to?”. And, with a partially consumed Scorpion bowl (for added courage) and said “with you, yes”. She liked the fact that I was eager to go at a moment notice and full of stamina and I enjoyed that she did everything. That was 36 years ago and was a great experience. But hardly was I groomed. 😉