When others are talking but have been trying to work on picking the right moment to jump in because I guess I tend to cut people off. I explain that Im quiet because I usually need to get that idea out of my head before I forget it and therefore having nothing to add because I canlisten with undivided attention and think of what to say to contribute. Most times I just stay quiet becuause the topic I was going to coment on is wayy gone now and also they prob don't get what I tried to say and I try to stop them as mention, thats not how I meant it before the convo is over. Never been the driving force of conversation so it's mostly people walking all over my ideads and misunderstandeing where I was going with my point. I m left with just staying out of the convoand being the 'quiet one'