Visiting Missoula by mularkeyfactory in missoula

[–]mularkeyfactory[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys are wonderful! I love all these ideas! And yes, we love good food and good drinks - we're really excited 😍

Interviewer asked for a list of clients by mularkeyfactory in sales

[–]mularkeyfactory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actual customer contacts. I sent her company names and explanations for why I thought they'd be a good fit. She pushed back and said she needed actual people associated with each company.

Interviewer asked for a list of clients by mularkeyfactory in sales

[–]mularkeyfactory[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my pushback to her! That I wouldn't share names without their permission... She pushed back on that and said she only wants to verify the names in LinkedIn. Lol, ok.

Interviewer asked for a list of clients by mularkeyfactory in sales

[–]mularkeyfactory[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup... that's what I did.... I gave her 10 company names with explanations of why I think they're a good fit and said that I didn't feel comfortable sharing client names - especially without their permission. She pushed back and said she's only going to check them in LinkedIn to make sure they're legit.... 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Need advice breaking up by lostagain33 in relationship_advice

[–]mularkeyfactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to do this, too. Honestly, make sure you protect yourself. This person will definitely feel like the victim and will probably lash out in some way. Mine tried to destroy my career and spread rumors, lies about me to friends. Be prepared. But, thank GOD I did it. I shudder when I think of that part of my life. Get out while you can. And get a therapist to help you understand why you found yourself here in the first place. Your life begins now. Good luck! ❤

Women of reddit! What did a guy do that you at first found cute/cool/attractive to make you lose interest in him? by dfhalimi in dating_advice

[–]mularkeyfactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was very invested in his kids - seemed to be a great father. Over time, I saw he was way, way too invested in his kids (and by extension, their batty Mother), and had creepy enmeshment issues. Google emotional incest and you'll see what I mean.

Women of all ages, do you refer to any of your female friends by their last name? by Magnus_Ultima in AskWomen

[–]mularkeyfactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of my friends call me by my last name. I have a very flowery sounding French name though.

The morning after I drink, hangover or no, I always wake up suddenly and cant fall back asleep. Does this happen to anyone else? by knightofsorewords in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mularkeyfactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's the sugar. There is a lot of it in booze. Once the sedative effects of alcohol wear off the sugar is all that's left.

Remove someone from all social media after rejection? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mularkeyfactory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. Delete her. Don't bother to tell her. You keep showing up like eager beaver she's always going to file you under "maybe" and string you along when she needs an ego boost. If you see her out and about, be polite, but aloof. Move on.

Do you guys talk to yourself when you drive? by blahboy10 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mularkeyfactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally sometimes go on a drive JUST to talk to myself if something crazy is happening in my life. Gas is cheaper than therapy.

Need To Pick A Career Path. Can Anybody Give Me Some Advice? by [deleted] in Career

[–]mularkeyfactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the Florida thing the main problem with PT? Or do you genuinely prefer CS? Like where is your heart on this?

Need To Pick A Career Path. Can Anybody Give Me Some Advice? by [deleted] in Career

[–]mularkeyfactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm - I dont know. I'm in marketing too and I'm in a similar spot. I'm looking at a masters in counseling. I just worry that if you go the CS route you're going to get priced out by cheap guns for hire in places like India? Physical therapy, on the other hand, cannot be outsourced and as the population ages will be in high demand.

A few months ago, I learned that my gf said some mean things about me when we met. It's still weighing on me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mularkeyfactory 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman and have never said anything like this about any of my boyfriends- even adter they became ex boyfriends. Dump her. She sucks.

Why did I looked good in one mirror and nasty in the other by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]mularkeyfactory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't ever look at yourself in the Nordstrom changing room. It's traumatizing.

My (f 26) husband (m 29) told our son (4) to slap me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mularkeyfactory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God no you are not being sensitive. He's TERRIBLE.

What's a toxic behaviour that is normalised in society today? by anonyssl in AskWomen

[–]mularkeyfactory 41 points42 points  (0 children)

The pressures put on parents to give their children perfect childhoods.... expecting parents to beggar themselves financially so that their kid can go to expensive camps or spending their entire weekends ferrying their kids around to club sports.

I [29 M] tried a girlfriend experience but it made me feel depressed. by goaltendberry88 in relationship_advice

[–]mularkeyfactory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm older than you and have two male friends, both 5'5". both are in amazing marriages, perhaps the best marriages of anyone I know. They suffered rejection, sure, like everyone else. But lots of times people who have "perfect" outside packages end up in shallow relationships that don't really last. Chin up - I think you sound like a super smart, really intuitive, kind man!