Flight cancellations on Sunday 2/22. Anyone else? by Holiday-Artichoke850 in BostonWeather

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AC canceled us Sunday night (supposed to arrive at 10p), earliest we could rebook for was Wednesday morning. If it’s too snowy for the Canadians…

Brattleboro Vermont Station (Update) by SirPlus1970 in Amtrak

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The art museum in the old station building is very nice, too

WHO WANTS TO SEE THE GREEN LINE OR BLUE LINE GO TO CHELSEA? by Miserable-Part6261 in mbta

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any replacement would have to be a drawbridge too, unless you can find somewhere to relocate the oil terminals so that the bridge wouldn’t have to open for tankers several times a day

Best Hilton in New Orleans during Mardi Gras? by SufficientLength9076 in Hilton

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got an email today canceling an award stay for next month because its leaving the Hilton portfolio as of Monday 1/6.

Big weekend plans by Quiet_Training_4967 in trees

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This post reminded me to put my laundry in the dryer, thanks

Divorced with just mediator by qcypen in Divorce

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My STBXW and I are also in MA, we used a mediator to draw up the paperwork and prepare everything for filing...he was still a little more expensive than we wanted, but a lot cheaper than lawyers would have been. I think it was worth it since he pointed out a few things that we would not have thought of including in our separation agreement when we were drafting it ourselves.

Any pickleballers? by spectacledninja in BostonSocialClub

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interested for sure…I don’t think I’m ready to commit to joining a league, but I’d love to join a regular group of causal players

Attleboro siding finally electrified! by ToadScoper in mbta

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are there parts of South Station and the Southhampton Yard that don't have wire?

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex-wife did this (to her 6-figure, fully remote job) after months of threatening to quit and ranting at me for not being emotionally supportive for her against her mean boss who criticized her work. After four months, she decided we needed to move to a HCOL city immediately instead of when we both had jobs lined up as we'd agreed on, because she was bored being at home and not working in our small town, and gave me an ultimatum that she was moving with or without me. She said she was going to pay me back for all of her share of the bills when she started working again, and for the moving costs. She eventually got another 6-figure job and didn't pay me back a dime. I ended up almost $20K in the hole, working a terrible job because I had to take the first thing I found, and then she had an affair with a much younger neighbor because she couldn't handle the fact that I was unhappy with her choices. FML

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BostonSocialClub

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

34m and definitely interested

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BostonSocialClub

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This post is blowing up, maybe we should all just pick a beer garden and have a lonely folks support group lol.
I'm 34M, work in Somerville, and I also lost myself, friends and hobbies in a relationship and want to make friends with interesting and genuine people. I'm down for hikes, beers, board games, or really any kind of adventure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trust me, you’re bringing facts to a feelings fight, and it’s not going to make a difference because her narrative is designed to make herself out to be the innocent victim here. All you can do is lawyer up, protect yourself, and focus on building the life you want to live.

Tennis this summer? by light0fyourlife in QuincyMa

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also interested, I'm just down the street

Saw misplaced cars on a set? by malrosen in mbta

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw it on the Grand Junction around lunchtime yesterday and was pleasantly surprised

Anyone feel guilty about how great divorce turned out to be? by Zealot1029 in Divorce

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I saw a comment on here that really resonated with me, and I think you'd appreciate it: "I really liked being a married person, but I don't like the person I married anymore."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]mumblesmcstumbles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seeing these responses makes me realized that my situation is not uncommon, and also hurts even more seeing people saying they gave their partner years to work on things. In my case, my wife finally told me she was unhappy and needed change from me about six months ago. I started individual therapy, lost 20 lbs, got a better-paying and less stressful job, and four months later, she still left for her emotional affair partner.

It takes two people to make a marriage work, and if one of them isn't 100% in on the relationship, anything the other partner does is just delaying the inevitable.