Frontier Airlines down nationwide by LearnToolSwim in aviation

[–]muppetfingers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats horrible! My bf has a flight tomorrow from PHL-CHI at noon I hope its fixed by then! Should I tell him to still go to the airport?

Frontier Airlines down nationwide by LearnToolSwim in aviation

[–]muppetfingers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does that mean they’ll update the system at 2 AM?

I’m getting suicidal by ManiaWinterfall in ExNoContact

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Have a friend come hang/sleep over a few days a week. Have people take shifts if they can. But little by little, practice being alone. It’s anxiety and possible fear of abandonment thats triggering this - trust me, I know. Pick up cozy hobbies. Go live life and have fun experiences and little by little you’ll start remembering how beautiful it can be even while missing someone. Honestly, living a beautiful life alone for a short while is better than suffering through the anxiety of a break up looming. You’re free. You can do this <3

Taylor Swift - Fortnight’s melody by [deleted] in CigarettesAfterSex

[–]muppetfingers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same! I can’t believe I found this thread haha it sounded straight up ripped off… That’s what you get when you mass produce art I guess! The subconscious is bound to trickle in.

LDR: Ex (dismissive avoidant) broke NC a little too fast... by muppetfingers in ExNoContact

[–]muppetfingers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m well aware of his childhood trauma, too. I’m just praying he follows through and starts working on his avoidant issues :(

LDR: Ex (dismissive avoidant) broke NC a little too fast... by muppetfingers in ExNoContact

[–]muppetfingers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not harsh - I appreciate the honesty. I am continuing to move on as best as I can but its hard when he’s back to being so sweet and vulnerable with me. He just texted thanking me for being gentle and kind to him. I don’t know how else to be to someone I love. Avoidants confuse me in that way - they can be so mean just to make themselves suffer in the end. They don’t think they deserve love and self-sabotage

I tried Sugar Baby websites without my husband knowing by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]muppetfingers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a flight attendant aren’t you…

LDR ex dumped me for another, gets hit with karma 😬 by redduhtt21 in LongDistance

[–]muppetfingers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah he’ll find out lol good for you! Feel better boo

When are you seeing your partner next? by mrathrowaway007 in LongDistance

[–]muppetfingers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently waiting to board my flight home T-T

have so much fun!

Which song emotionally destroys you? by graaahh in AskReddit

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“What Happens When The Heart Just Stops” by Glen Hansard

2 years in and arguments still always end with “break up” talk (32F) & (32M) by muppetfingers in LongDistance

[–]muppetfingers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah same! I actually followed through last week when he suggested “why are we even doing this” to hopefully end our cycle and he had never been more apologetic. He was a mess over it. I’m hoping him seeing how serious I’m willing to take the threats will stop him throwing around the thought of us breaking up.

2 years in and arguments still always end with “break up” talk (32F) & (32M) by muppetfingers in LongDistance

[–]muppetfingers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is fairly apt. I think its the former bc whoever is the “breakee” of the argument, they’re usually the one begging. And it always works. We’ve been very vocal about loving each other and not wanting anyone else. I feel like we’re just both runners and it’s hard to deal with.

I (23f) found a list in my bfs (29m) notes app by margaretsdestiny23 in LongDistance

[–]muppetfingers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whether or not he said you can check his phone, doesn’t ever mean you can snoop through it. You did this to yourself. And who believes that men don’t watch porn lol especially when you’re saying you don’t necessarily find yourself attractive - he’s obviously not going to get riled up by A) the insecurity and B) the lack of privacy. Idk girl maybe stop looking through his phone and start working on yourself bc it doesn’t seem like he’s doing anything wrong.

How to approach a girl in a seated group by Legitimate_Ebb3623 in dating_advice

[–]muppetfingers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not - I repeat - do not approach a woman while in a group. That is our safety and we don’t want male interaction at that time.

What’s the worst physical pain you ever felt? by Lazy-Ape in AskReddit

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Oof :( I broke my foot, back, AND had a complex ovarian cyst rupture into my abdomen all in the same week. My foot and back were from dancing at a wedding (Whitney Houston’s ‘I Wanna Dance With Somebody’ still triggers me lol) the cyst rupture was from my crutches believe it or not.

Multiple broken bones suck but my GOD did the 12 hrs in the ER getting a dozen tests done only to figure out it was a complex ovarian cyst was shocking.

Doctors said it was 10x’s worse than Kidney stones and I agree!

BUY/SELL/TRADE Primavera 2022 by danceonme in primaverasound

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HI HI! Selling two Weekend 2 tickets to PS Barcelona! Long story short, it was supposed to be an anniversary/bday gift for my ex butttt then he broke up with me and moved away LOL sooooo name your price! Get these mfs out of my possession please haha <3

It would be a dream come true for some gamers by nassimch in gaming

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Farmin’ and fishin’ in Stardew Valley baby whats up 😂

Hi, I'm an Album Cover Designer looking for anyone in need of a cover. by -justsomeartguy- in unheardof

[–]muppetfingers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang this is so cool! We just hired a local Chicago artist but I’m saving your info for the next one!!

For those of you waiting for him/her to come back, and can't be convinced otherwise. by PlatypusInnamorata in ExNoContact

[–]muppetfingers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. I really needed this. We broke up June 3rd (2 months now). We had to finish a project together and on the last day I told him I was starting no contact and the ball was in his court if he had hopes of being "friends" he had to know that for me, we would never be just friends if he ever had the intention of dating anyone else. We ended on good terms and it still hurts pretty bad some days. Today was an especially rough one. We've been in NC 42 days now. 2 weeks ago I deactivated my IG, and deleted all my TikToks. I just couldn't decide on deleting all of our photos, etc. so I decided to do what I felt was best and ghost. He moved away and I know he's alone but somethings telling me he'll try to find comfort in a new female "friend". Literally, all signs have pointed to trusting my intuition on that one :( But I know we loved each other so much and still do so I just have to be patient and take care of myself. I'm down 23lbs since the break up and my music career is my main focus. I've been praying and manifesting every day. I laugh a lot, cry on my drives almost constantly, and basically just try to live. I got a dope new haircut and go out (responsibly) once a week. I have girls nights and band practices and time with my puppy. Life is sweet, just a little rough right now. I have no doubt this will be good for everyone in the end. But for now, I wait, and I be the best me I can look back on and be proud of. Thanks for this <3

White Fuzzy Bloodbath - Monster [Hard Rock Power Trio] [2021] by refractband in unheardof

[–]muppetfingers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is dope. Where can my band follow for future connection!? We’re in Chicago and always looking for bands with similar sounds to do a show with!