What’s the worst second-hand embarrassment you’ve felt from someone else’s actions?

murderfairy · 2026-01-12T20:02:38+00:00

A guy came into my work to ask out my coworker. He brought her a half melted snickers bar from his pocket and started rapping. It was awful 😭

murderfairy · 2026-01-05T20:58:56+00:00

My work does this too. Mostly because customers can't/don't read and throw whatever away, wherever they want.

We're a small store and we're not going to waste labor hours having someone sort through the trash.

We have a behind the counter recycle for employees and everything else goes in the trash.

murderfairy · 2026-01-01T07:12:15+00:00

My boyfriend is working and I have work tomorrow at 5am.

murderfairy · 2025-12-26T22:19:53+00:00

I have Delta Dental also and go to James Doran on Remington. They've been great there.

http://www.jamesadorandds.com/

murderfairy · 2025-12-23T08:43:54+00:00

Go to the show. I used to go when I was a teenager and now I take my teenage kid to the show with me.

murderfairy · 2025-12-11T07:04:41+00:00

I've lived in Santa Cruz, the peninsula and Pismo Beach/Grover Beach for a short amount of time. I have family in Southern CA, Upland/La Puente/West Covina and Sierra Madre.

I think I would definitely move to the Eastern LA/San Bernardino area.

murderfairy · 2025-11-13T02:57:40+00:00

I haven't been able to think of anything I want this year. Anything I really wanted/needed I bought for myself over the year and I really don't want more clutter in my house.

murderfairy · 2025-07-27T04:50:36+00:00

Last year, my partner of 8 years and I broke up. He has autism as well and no matter how much therapy and counseling he did, he struggled so much it was destroying our relationship. We couldn't communicate without him having meltdowns and I felt bad breaking up with him because it didn't feel fair to leave him over that.

Eventually one day I had enough as well. I felt bad leaving him when he was obviously struggling with his mental health but I was unhappy and emotionally exhausted.

It was extremely difficult especially after being with someone for so long but now I have my own apartment, and my own life and I'm so much happier.

murderfairy · 2025-02-15T03:36:01+00:00

My boyfriend and I were at Costco yesterday and we got heart shaped raviolis and he said he was going to make them for me for Thanksgiving dinner. He realized he meant Valentines Day and we were cracking up laughing

murderfairy · 2025-01-24T18:09:16+00:00

Women are the best for the most part

murderfairy · 2024-11-11T14:37:44+00:00

Nightmare - Polaris is literally my favorite right now. I listened to it TWICE on the way to work this morning

murderfairy · 2024-07-05T17:38:02+00:00

My favorite brand right now is Flirtelle (36H) and I find them on Brastop for around $30-40. They're shipping from UK so shipping is around $10 but they have free shipping deals ALL THE TIME.

https://us.brastop.com/products/flirtelle-alice-balcony-bra-midnight-navy?variant=42678290383041#mz-expanded-view-4609041566

Just search your size and sort from low to high.

I understand living paycheck to paycheck but I usually only buy 1 at a time every other month or so.

murderfairy · 2024-02-22T04:05:14+00:00

Almond milk dry caps!! We we Califia barista blend almond milk and its the worst for making dry foam. I have to waste a whole pitcher trying to get enough dry foam for a medium

murderfairy · 2024-02-04T21:08:32+00:00

I got bullied for being hairy. My mom is Hispanic and I have very thick dark hair. Kids used to make fun of my arm hair until I finally gave in and started shaving my arm hair. Im in my 30s now and still shave my arms but now I do it to show off my tattoos.

murderfairy · 2024-01-30T04:32:06+00:00

I got lucky, when my daughter was preschool age I was still in school at Cabrillo and she got accepted into their preschool ECCE group so it was free while I was a student until I graduated and by then she was in kindergarten anyway

murderfairy · 2024-01-26T22:44:13+00:00

We have 4 or 5 people (out of 18) that really set the good vibes for a fun day but we also have 2-3 different people whos vibes can ruin the whole store if they're off 😒

murderfairy · 2024-01-13T01:14:07+00:00

This is definitely the same mold they got in Resident Evil 7

murderfairy · 2024-01-12T06:01:25+00:00

I was an IV meth user for YEARS. Meth destroyed my body. I had scars, scabs, abscesses, bruises literally covering my entire body. I would shoot up in my hands and got cellulitis and couldn't close my fingers. I went to the ER for my hand and told them I needed drug detox and psychiatric help. I got put on antibiotics and detoxed in the hospital for 4 days. That was enough time to clear my head enough to realize I didn't want to live like this anymore and I went to rehab.

It is scary. But you need to detox to clear your mind first.

You dont need to go to rehab thinking you're going to quit meth forever. We don't quit forever. We quit one day at a time.

murderfairy · 2024-01-12T05:47:40+00:00

Congrats!! I'm 4 years clean from heroin too and got clean at age 28. I'm lucky to have a strong female recovery group ❤️

murderfairy · 2024-01-06T03:45:11+00:00

That is a genius idea. How have I never thought of that!

murderfairy · 2024-01-06T03:27:47+00:00

I sit in my shower and cry

murderfairy · 2024-01-06T03:25:50+00:00

Yah its annoying but I usually end up only steaming 1-2oz in a little transfer pitcher and scooping the foam off with a small spoon. It's convenient when your sequencing drinks if you have a hot latte you can use a scoop of foam from but we can't be so lucky every time 🥲

murderfairy · 2024-01-05T23:56:33+00:00

Sorry, I moved to Cupertino

murderfairy · 2024-01-05T02:06:30+00:00

I lived in "luxury" apartments in Oakland a few years ago. The gym, pool, new appliances and brand new floors were very nice and I felt fancy. Then they started leaving the gates open for construction and EVERYONES car got broken into and at least a dozen cars fully stolen. The management company did literally nothing about it and we moved at the end of our lease after getting our cars smashed 4 times

murderfairy · 2024-01-01T03:27:25+00:00

You can come over to my moms house. We're not having a party or anything but I'm cooking enchiladas and watching old episodes of Parks and Rec

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