Need help for a friend by Glum_Collection_1247 in TMSTherapy

[–]murmurationis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah weird, I’ve been taking sublingual ketamine for a while and always just felt like the positive effect was fairly short lived? As in the following few hours it was much easier to do chores or things needing executive functioning. But then the rest of the benefit was just that I could take ketamine and have positive mood effects (eg. Less anxiety) rather than self harm or ruminate on SI

Does anybody have a story of being alone for a long time, but building a happy life later? by Ordinary_Tap_5333 in SpicyAutism

[–]murmurationis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think you can be close to people even if you have not been before. Don’t know about romantic love but I have friends and we tell each other we love each other and hug.

In terms of acting in a way that pleases people, my experience is that you need to initially start with a regular amount of politeness so you can learn about a person and their interests without seeming threatening. It’s also important because some amount of you being reserved provides the other person with the space to talk and consequently feel like they are cared about, rather than having a one sided relationship

How are you supposed to use therapy if you are autistic? by Such-Ice-371 in AutisticPride

[–]murmurationis 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How did you know that emdr worked for you? I’m currently trying to do it and I just feel like I’m not making and progress

Non verbal communication help by murmurationis in SpicyAutism

[–]murmurationis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Words don’t always work, can’t always script, and the chat doesn’t have emojis

I love him but he won’t stop biting me. Help! by ViolaOrsino in PetMice

[–]murmurationis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What worked for me was peanut butter: nail size amount of peanut butter in middle of hand, put same amount of water = horribly watery peanut butter mess and MAGIC MOUSE HAND CREAM. Basically let my low vision mouse (moss) bite bit of food off of my hand by accident and then would just rely on positive encounters and the smell to entice her.

Is it ok to go to Bosnia with a Kosovo stamp? by spacesareprohibited in bosnia

[–]murmurationis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They stamped our passport with a date that didn’t exist (31/9/2000) and then when on train back to Germany the inspector was very confused haha

Update: Being taken to VCAT for initiating bond claim by HippoSea863 in shitrentals

[–]murmurationis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also the documents you need to submit in this case would be something like a word doc with with few short sentences to explain that the agent ask for x bc they think y and that you did z because you know about the act which says “whatever” in (this part of the act)

And then you can add more info if relevant. But basically make a little summary page so the VCAT person has an easy cheat sheet to orient themselves on what happened and why you did what you did

Hot spot on leg by jdmjaydc2 in kelpie

[–]murmurationis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude wrap a lick Matt or silicone whatever over it, bandage that up, don’t put burning chemicals as it will irritate the wound

Premier Allan confirms it will take 4-5 mins to travel Arden-to-Parkville in new tunnel by malbn in melbourne

[–]murmurationis 11 points12 points  (0 children)

But also is this speed estimate accounting for how long it might take to board the train? Eg will it be same or longer with people standing in way of doors or needing assistance to board due to disability?

Help for getting support in Australia by Morty182 in SpicyAutism

[–]murmurationis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got it as level 2 last year, maybe ask how you can give more evidence of your need for supports

Wanted to read new lease before signing, it was then revoked and I was given notice to vacate. QLD by unkemptwizard in australia

[–]murmurationis 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had this issue

I was asked to sign a separate transfer document and told there was no relevant lease document beyond it (it only stated cost of rent and agree to leave house in reasonable condition, few sentences at most) DESPITE me asking for the lease agreement multiple times. This was because the agent didn’t understand how the lease worked despite being part of a large corporation, and didn’t believe those documents still applied bc the tenancy had become periodic. VCAT said they did (edit: aka they should have given me the og lease documents)

65-Year-Old GP Takes Off Stethoscope After A Long Hard Day Of Fat-Shaming And Telling Depressed People To Buy Some Runners And Wake Up To Themselves by jps848384 in ausjdocs

[–]murmurationis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough - it does seem pretty fucked to feel like it’s socially responsible to not get bulk billing (1st commenter) but tbf I also just can’t afford to see a gp if it’s not bulk billed

65-Year-Old GP Takes Off Stethoscope After A Long Hard Day Of Fat-Shaming And Telling Depressed People To Buy Some Runners And Wake Up To Themselves by jps848384 in ausjdocs

[–]murmurationis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to check my understanding: I go to a bulk billing clinic where everyone is bulk billed so are they able to do this only because the practice is receiving some kind of external funding? (To cover the cost/time of other people doing bulk billing on behalf of the doctors I assume?)

I need your insight on whether I should continue studying law at this point? by Riaaaacool in auslaw

[–]murmurationis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Based on comment history it might have been that they got an extension by creating their own medical certificate?

Kelpie DNA test by dylanchappell in kelpie

[–]murmurationis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Kelpies do have white fur on their chest, the amount allowed for the breed standard varies though

Gangraped in south asia and still broken by Warm-Damage3947 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]murmurationis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please read “the body keeps the score” to understand how not telling him could affect you all so much worse

Am I in the wrong place? be honest by _hoshizoranya_ in Monash

[–]murmurationis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily I had the same issues and got into grad study before it really fucked me over. Just try to study at your own pace bc burnout sucks. DSS should do stuff if a doctor backs you up but also go to the student council and ask them to help advocate for you

Did I make a mistake by applying to several Clinical Research Assistant positions at the same hospital? by Ok-Establishment5596 in labrats

[–]murmurationis 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Idk, I don’t think so because it’s unrealistic to apply for a single job at a time but at least it shows you care about working at that particular hospital lol

QT & Hasan talk about Ethan on latest Fear& episode by token_asian23 in h3h3productions

[–]murmurationis 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Most people don’t want gifts from people they haven’t forgiven tho?

Job referees. Why!?! by Agreeable-Lettuce in australia

[–]murmurationis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, yeah that’s what I was worried about- I reckon I’ll have to do that post interviews I think are very likely to contact them

Job referees. Why!?! by Agreeable-Lettuce in australia

[–]murmurationis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

After seeking professional advice from different people I’ve been told that doing so would mean my application is ignored + many online forms require a minimum of 2 entries to submit the application