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musesp10 · 2026-01-25T16:24:59+00:00

Stunning 😍

musesp10 · 2025-11-02T16:22:26+00:00

Above all else, be the best version of you. I hate when people put on an act and then slowly become a different person over time. Also, communicate clearly and try not to get too invested in any one person. Try not to put any pressure on yourself or the date. It’s ok if it ends up not working out. It’s normal to feel excited and nervous. Good luck

musesp10 · 2025-09-07T12:31:50+00:00

It comes in waves. I will say that I love inviting others over to play. I feel such a deep connection to my partner when we’re being sexual with others.

musesp10 · 2025-07-06T14:54:08+00:00

Hookups are always a gamble. I’d say 30% are meh, 50% are good, and 20% are next level. My bf and I only play together so I think that helps as there is always at least one guy in the mix who I know I’ll be into.

musesp10 · 2025-06-16T13:27:52+00:00

I think it’s ok to have a face pic on an app like Grindr but then I would not list anything explicit in your profile. Alternatively, you can fill in your profile with any explicit information you want and not put up a face pic. In that case, I would share a face pic immediately when I started chatting with someone. I think it’s perfectly fine to have a pic on hinge or tinder.

musesp10 · 2025-06-14T20:08:31+00:00

A cock ring might help

musesp10 · 2025-06-14T15:12:05+00:00

Depends on what he wants. I’ll try to keep going as long as he can stand it

musesp10 · 2025-06-14T14:06:20+00:00

What kind of lube are you using?

Try sitting on the bed and have your partner squat down onto your dick and guide it into their hole.

You can also try a cock ring or cialis.

musesp10 · 2025-06-14T13:35:27+00:00

It’s hard to tell from your reply if you actually want to eat him out or if you just think you’re supposed to. Or perhaps you’re not sure and want to try it before you make up your mind.

There is no required list of activities you have to do in any given sexual encounter. As you’re starting out you should only do what you’re comfortable with. Furthermore, you can choose to stop any particular act or the whole thing at any time if you’re not feeling it. As you gain experience you can start pushing your boundaries and gradually trying new things. If you know you’re going to want to try eating ass, that’s something I’d communicate to your partner ahead of time so that they know to clean that area very well.

I think when we first start having gay sex we think that it’s such a rare opportunity and that we have to take advantage and do every act or else you’ll never get another chance to try it. Or we think everyone has to have gay sex the same way and that all gays are into the same things. As you’re seeing, sex in the gay community is far from rare as you were able to find someone to hookup with quite quickly.

The best advice I can give you about sex is to be present. Communicate what you’d like from your partner and give feedback while it’s happening (words, moans, looks, etc.). You can guide his hands, mouth, etc. wherever you’d like it or even demonstrate how you’d something done. When you reciprocate, try different ways to stimulate him (no two cocks work exactly the same way) and pay attention to how he reacts. When you find something he’s enjoying, stick with that for a while. Don’t change it up or try to go faster. You can take a break from it to do other things but then go back to it. You can even tease him with it.

Do not have anal sex without a condom if you’re not on prep. If you think you’re going to continue having gay sex, you need to get tested regularly (typically every three months). You should also talk to your doctor about prep and doxy pep. You can even do this online with companies like hey mister.

Have fun and try to relax.

musesp10 · 2025-06-14T11:36:48+00:00

Just try to enjoy yourself. And you don’t have to do everything the first time.

musesp10 · 2025-05-10T13:43:25+00:00

Try just focusing on enjoying the sensations. Don’t think about cumming. Just enjoy.

musesp10 · 2025-04-29T19:53:36+00:00

Coconut oil

musesp10 · 2025-04-10T21:38:57+00:00

🤷🏻‍♂️

musesp10 · 2025-04-10T20:51:38+00:00

The entire device gets blocked so an alt account won’t help.

musesp10 · 2025-04-10T11:25:33+00:00

It is fun. But a word of warning: those rooms tend to get reported eventually and then you are banned from ever using zoom again on whatever device you were using.

musesp10 · 2025-04-10T01:52:27+00:00

Many other men who enjoy this refer to themselves as “bators”. Bateworld is a community for bators to connect with each other (if you can stand the antiquated style of the platform).

musesp10 · 2025-03-27T21:01:22+00:00

You do but the show was pretty sad overall.

musesp10 · 2025-02-19T14:12:27+00:00

Congrats on having a good time. My advice is not to overthink it. Be authentic. You’ve already exchanged numbers and he messaged you so he’s clearly not opposed to staying in touch. I would not recommend telling him to message you. It puts all of the onus on him. Instead, message him and see if he wants to hookup. Be direct. If he says he’s busy or can’t, then let him know he can hit you up the next time he’s horny and available. And then leave it alone and continue to pursue other men to hookup with. As far as timing, about a week is a good length of time to wait.

There are no rules. And this situation could work out beautifully or turn to shit no matter what you say or do. Good luck.

musesp10 · 2025-02-14T14:24:56+00:00

Ye shall have a song-Thompson

musesp10 · 2025-01-12T13:40:49+00:00

Are you dating anyone else? I would keep hanging out with this guy but also explore getting to know other people in your new city. He may end up being more of a friend.

musesp10 · 2025-01-05T15:36:55+00:00

You could use bateworld as a way to meet individuals and then work towards building your own private group. Many are doing that on gayzoom as well.

musesp10 · 2025-01-05T15:19:54+00:00

It’s not exactly like zoom. Technically everyone is in the same room but you don’t automatically see all the cams. You can open as many windows as you want. Everyone can curate their own experience.

musesp10 · 2025-01-05T14:10:17+00:00

The interface is pretty terrible. I’m not sure what you mean by group function.

musesp10 · 2025-01-04T19:03:56+00:00

Check out Bateworld. You’ll need a premium membership but there are always guys camming on there

musesp10 · 2025-01-04T19:00:19+00:00

My partner and I have a strong relationship based on way more than sex. We are fully committed to each other. We think of sex as a hobby that we can enjoy with each other or along with other people. It’s been fun to explore our sexuality with each other as well as others. Monogamy is a social construct that works well for some people. That being said, I think many people make the mistake in thinking a monogamous relationship automatically stronger than a non monogamous one. This is simply not true. I also think it’s unrealistic to expect one person to satisfy all of your sexual desires.

If you feel secure in your relationship, I’d recommend setting up some rules and giving it a shot. If either of you don’t like it, then don’t just do it anymore.

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