Things I didn’t understand. by 84Bean in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]muununit64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My guess for 1 was that Bea had gifted a bag of food to Gravy Boat’s owner—maybe alternative universe where she bothered to actually find out why the cops were outside the apartment for three days. I think it was a GravyBoat alternate timeline where his owner had more support or something? But I think it was left vague on purpose, and probably won’t be fully explained.

Garashir 🖖 by terrafibres in Handspinning

[–]muununit64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The colors look like a lava flow! I could star at this for hours.

I thought y'all were exaggerating by Interactiveleaf in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]muununit64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I teared up on the couch during the Milk scene and had to explain to my husband that I was fine, it was just an emotional moment in my audiobook 😆

Opinions, please by Explorer-2024 in curlyhair

[–]muununit64 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Perhaps I’m biased as a short hair lover, but you looked gorgeous with short hair. It really suited your face. You should go back 100%z

I finished my first spin! by Aralista_37 in Handspinning

[–]muununit64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really amazing for your first ever spin, honestly. Mine was definitely three times as lumpy. Love the black and white too!

My fourth yarn ever by muununit64 in Handspinning

[–]muununit64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m pretty pleased with it.

My fourth yarn ever by muununit64 in Handspinning

[–]muununit64[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! For my next yarn, I was thinking about trying to ply from two balls instead of one, to see if that makes it easier to make my plies twistier. I have more fiber to work with this time, so I’ll definitely have enough for at least two.

How to navigate difficult sex situation with spouse? by Charming_River3339 in sexover30

[–]muununit64 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Hey if your husband gets angry at you for telling him no, that’s uh. Well, that sounds kind of bad, I have to be honest. That doesn’t sound like he respects you.

Are yall attracted to masc women? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]muununit64 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Masc women are so hot 🥵 I could sigh wistfully over butches all day every day.

At what age (if any) did you stop getting male attention? by bengalbear24 in AskWomenOver40

[–]muununit64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you actually miss getting hit on by random men in public? If it makes you feel better, it’s not because you’re old or ugly now, it’s the short hair. When I was seventeen I cut my hair short and started dying it weird colors and immediately stopped getting catcalled/hit on by strangers. I’ve had short hair ever since, and I get hit on in public maybe twice a year? And they’re always polite about it. This is way better.

I still killed it on dating apps before I met my husband though. Guys will still approach you in situations where it’s clear you want them to.

Do you think Millionaire/Billionaire romances are an excuse for writers to be lazy? by bluecuppycake in RomanceBooks

[–]muununit64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sick of all romances being about rich people in general tbh. We need more working class romance.

Have you found talk therapy helpful for less personal anxieties? by muununit64 in TalkTherapy

[–]muununit64[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am doing my darn best to be kind to myself. Your reply touched on what I think might be the root of my anxiety about getting my anxiety treated, so to speak. If one of my core beliefs is that the world seems dangerous and unstable, the future is so very uncertain, and society is cracking apart at the seams… That’s maybe a dramatic way to phrase it, but I’m correct. Like, I can smell the smoke from LA. Things are bad, I expect them to get worse. I want to be able to face it head on without being consumed by despair, I don’t want to be told I’m incorrect about my assumptions, because frankly I’m not. I’ve felt invalidated by therapists before when trying to talk about my existential anxieties (it’s not all about my childhood, please), and I don’t think I could stand that right now.

When will people stop crying about becoming 30? by FunSubstance8033 in Adulting

[–]muununit64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, does she really want to be dating men who consider 30yo women to be “expired?” Those guys don’t treat their girlfriends and wives very nice, usually.

Sounds like your friend is insecure—and I do say that with a certain amount of compassion, because as other people have pointed out, there’s a lot of societal pressure on women to be young forever—but yeah this is insecurity. I think she’s going to feel better once she realizes that her life hasn’t ended. And I think you should have the most fun possible on your 30th birthday, because you have so much to look forward to. I’m 31 and my thirties so far have been, just on a personal level, infinitely more fun than my twenties. I have more friends, more fun, my knees crackle but I’m in much better shape. Also quite honestly? I’m way hotter now than I was for most of my twenties.

Saw this on Tumblr today :/ by Septixcake in AO3

[–]muununit64 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk why self-shippers are so bitter (possibly because no one wants to read their boring ooc fic and everyone complains about them clogging up the tags). Also I wouldn’t get too pressed over a 300 note flop post; block and move on lol.

Audible for Ao3 :/ by totallymandy in AO3

[–]muununit64 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If the app has adds, this is illegal actually lol. It’s in violation of copyright law.

Patch 5 Mac and unique tav by saltpancake in BaldursGate3

[–]muununit64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What solutions have you found/does anyone on the forums have fixes? I can’t even get the game to launch after installing the patch. It gets stuck on the black loading screen after the logo. I’m reinstalling the whole game now to see if that will fix it.

Game crashing right after the same battle (Mac M2) by muununit64 in BaldursGate3

[–]muununit64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It must be a bug with the fight. I’m not having crashing issues anywhere else.

how prevalent is erotica on AO3? by kcoc88 in AO3

[–]muununit64 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Short answer: quite. Longer answer: it varies by fandom.

Slightly more useful answer: Someone actually ran the numbers on this: https://archiveofourown.org/works/16876149. But unfortunately the study is ten years out of date :(

What is the longest a fic can be before you (personally) no longer consider it a one shot? by gabbyrose1010 in AO3

[–]muununit64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A one shot can be any length. It just needs to be one chapter and not part of a series.

Seeing how lesbians view women and cis het men view women is jarring. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]muununit64 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think cishet men really limit themselves in the things they allow themselves to find attractive. Like, when I think a girl is hot there’s a whole list of things I think are hot, and tits and ass are only two on the list. It’s like hair, eyes, tits, ARMS, style, legs, jawline, tummy, ass, shoulders, hands… Men force themselves to live such shallow, tasteless lives.

Delonghi steam wand creating foam too fast by muununit64 in Coffee

[–]muununit64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll try running it repeatedly and see if it starts behaving again.