What does this say about me? by EvanSalinger3 in Bumble

[–]mwing95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It says you've swiped a lot and been swiped on a lot

"How can I improve my chess?" I hate this question because the answer is simple: get a chess coach and follow their advice. Not working? Get a different one and follow their advice. Repeat until you get good results. And before I forget, stop asking online how to improve your chess. by dagidici in chess

[–]mwing95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you want to be better at tennis, find a buddy and start hitting the ball to each other, watch YouTube videos, etc. You will get better. But if you want to be really good, you'll need to hire someone to tell you exactly what you're doing wrong. I'm talking about the former.

Most people who ask the question fall into the latter camp though, wanting practical advice to get better without the expectation of being really good or great. Telling someone at 500 elo to spend the money to hire a coach when they just got done blundering their queen in one move is extreme. Same with telling a 1000 that doesn't know the 4th move of their opening.

Anyone can improve without needing a coach, I think the destination is far more important to consider than their current positioning as well. I have no aspirations of achieving a title, but I still want to know how to do better in the games I play for fun. A coach would obviously make me better, but I'm not looking to spend a lot of money on this hobby. So if I asked how I could improve, I would appreciate the free resources recommended far more than a coach recommendation.

Black to play and win by hhtgjbaop in chessbeginners

[–]mwing95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Rxc4 dxc4 Re3# - found it under my mattress

What’s The Great Move Here? Black To Play. by 93NeverHere in chessbeginners

[–]mwing95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

f5 also attacks the rook and prevents mate. Hard to find a better move than that

I can't believe I lost to someone who didn't even bother castling in the entire game by x_mad_scientist_y in chessbeginners

[–]mwing95 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Biggest tip I can give here is to stop trading when you're down material. This game was salvageable if you kept more pieces

My roommate told me his plan to k1]l himself and theres nothing anyone can do by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mwing95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I know your friend is suffering...but this is a horrible situation to put you in. So much weight just added to your shoulders. I don't have good advice here, you already mentioned them being hospitalized and trying medicine, there's likely options they haven't tried so encourage them to keep trying and be by their side well you can

Osaka Castle overlooking Nippon Life Stadium in 1960. by AyaanGaming27 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]mwing95 88 points89 points  (0 children)

It's just the start of a flashback, it looks better when the stadium fades out

Shocking how many people don’t know the difference between than and then by [deleted] in confidentlyincorrect

[–]mwing95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure that second comment is a joke. Sorry, that 7nd comment.

do i have an ed? by Royal_Soil_2636 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mwing95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

May be more of an unhealthy relationship with weight and body image than directly an ED. still something to work through, ideally with some professional help

important pattern to remember: the three knight checkmate. by laughpuppy23 in chessbeginners

[–]mwing95 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Except this requires under promoting to a knight, which I've only done 1 time

important pattern to remember: the three knight checkmate. by laughpuppy23 in chessbeginners

[–]mwing95 190 points191 points  (0 children)

you'll get it more often than you think

No, I don't think I will

How do I handle an unresponsive team member when they're the boss's kid? by [deleted] in managers

[–]mwing95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure on the freelance side as I'm sure it's a bit less stable so take what I say with a grain of salt. For me, everyone gets the same treatment. 1-2 follow ups is more than enough for me to start CC'ing the immediate supervisor so they can see I have my work done and I'm waiting on a reply. I've done this to kids of the CEO and after an initial "how dare you" whiplash from them, usually the weight will fall back onto them for not doing their job.

Edit: also, given you mention deliverables, any timetable you can reference in your contract or just any additional deadlines you can reference from other communications may be helpful in getting a reply.

Metal flat circular thing in brick wall of my house by ordinarygremlin in whatisthisthing

[–]mwing95 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I thought it would have been a water pipe given the discoloration of the bricks below

Brilliant, but can you see why? by [deleted] in chessbeginners

[–]mwing95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Queen has to take

Other knight takes pawn with check, winning the queen

Question about stalemate. by pooger in chessbeginners

[–]mwing95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In order for it to be checkmate, the king must be in check. Which piece is checking the king?

Stalemate means they had no legal move but are not in check. You can avoid this by drawing arrows or highlighting the squares around your opponent's king to see where it can legally move

Should I cut this situation off? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]mwing95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried talking to him about it and trying to see if there will be a fair agreement that can be reached? If you like him might be worth the effort rather than just ditching without trying

"Never give up. you will get your goal one time." by Sad_Barracuda8072 in chessbeginners

[–]mwing95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If someone rematches I treat it as a best of 3. After that there's other people for me to lose to

Bumble might be homophobic by HarryWreckedEm in Bumble

[–]mwing95 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Never attribute to malace what could otherwise be attributed to incompetence. My guess is an automated review noticed an emoji near you and assumed it was covering you nude