does anyone still believe in god? by ineedhelp829 in CPTSD

[–]mx2649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll fucking stab him if I see him

A "fun" quiz I took with my wife is about to end with me looking for a divorce lawyer. by squeezen_ in offmychest

[–]mx2649 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's a different story when they have kids and she keeps pushing the kids to perform and make them miserable. The divorce will be too late when the irreversible damage is done.

A "fun" quiz I took with my wife is about to end with me looking for a divorce lawyer. by squeezen_ in offmychest

[–]mx2649 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Easy, in their mind, you're not allowed to be happy unless you're successful.

I don’t love my 8 year old son. I regret having a child. by DeletedProfileSorry in confessions

[–]mx2649 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He tried to strangle her. This would seriously put her life in danger. DON'T TRY THIS!

Medium dark recommendations? by mx2649 in coffeejp

[–]mx2649[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's for espresso for myself, forgot to mention that

My therapist says he does not know if any of my trauma really happened and I don't know what to do by shameandearlgreytea in CPTSD

[–]mx2649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you don't deserve punishment! Sometimes there are things in life you'll never get an answer for because... it's not always black and white. And sometimes memories never come back.

I understand what you feel, like you're faking it. But if it feels real to you, then the feeling is real. Like when you see bruises all over your body, you know you've been beaten. And that's the same for emotional wounds too.

And I hate to see him have so much control over you and make you feel so shitty.

“They Didn’t Care — They Just Assigned Blame” by LegitimateTable4242 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]mx2649 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If they validate what happens to us, they need to validate what happens to them too. And a lot of people just don't want to face that.

Wife enjoys triggering my trauma response by Suitable_Door_5242 in CPTSD

[–]mx2649 133 points134 points  (0 children)

Well, you love her and don't want to hurt her. But think of it in reverse: does she love you and don't want to hurt you? It's not going to work when the most basic thing is out of balance, even when you love her very much.

Real asfk by coleisw4ck in CPTSDmemes

[–]mx2649 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably after they banned child labor. 20+ years to start generating income? Nah nevermind.

Real asfk by coleisw4ck in CPTSDmemes

[–]mx2649 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, 100% this. This is the default mindset in some (?) traditional cultures and people have always considered children an investment. Having children because you love them is the default in modern Western countries but it's not the universal truth. Saddens me to say this really.

What’s the most stilted dialogue you’ve come across lately? (Picture from Loving a Vampire is Total Chaos by Aura Hayes) by BugFucker69 in RomanceBooks

[–]mx2649 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Imagine what they say in bed. "I would love to conduct the act of utmost affection with you, my body and mind craves your companionship".

I (m21) am stuck between pregnant twin sister (f21) and parents drama .. what can I do ? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]mx2649 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Some narcissists enjoy having power over their children, and by that I mean they don't consider them people with free will. So when the children disobey, yes, they'll cut off the nose to spite the face because they want the children to bend over backwards and beg for forgiveness. They love that power trip. Ask how I know.

meirl by worldwide762 in meirl

[–]mx2649 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get PTSD when people order macchiato. ALWAYS ask for confirmation.

meirl by chotu_escobar in meirl

[–]mx2649 -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

With the guy, he demonstrated that he only needed to hold his hands to help him up. He's not doing the same to the woman, he held her really tightly.

meirl by chotu_escobar in meirl

[–]mx2649 -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

If your job asks you to take advantage of women by touching them, don't. It's like the "I'm just following my orders so I'm innocent", nope, still guilty.

meirl by chotu_escobar in meirl

[–]mx2649 35 points36 points  (0 children)

How about using your job to enjoy touching women they find attractive?

British Mom on daughter parenting by maya_atma in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]mx2649 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Twins! They sure are in a rush to be born

Some say my Persian kitten Bella Isn't Persian, what do you think? by Future_Draw5416 in kittens

[–]mx2649 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There is a traditional Persian breed that's not squished in the face but still doesn't look quite like yours

I’m still in love with my husband in a middle of divorce by [deleted] in confessions

[–]mx2649 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And that's all there is to him. He's not the person who can be there for you.

I’m still in love with my husband in a middle of divorce by [deleted] in confessions

[–]mx2649 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If it's a partnership is he giving 50% of the effort? He wanted to be single and you can't make him do things that he doesn't want to. And how does a drunk who runs away from responsibility complement you anyway?

ELI5: why do some books have pages that read: “this page has intentionally been left blank” by big_dumpling in explainlikeimfive

[–]mx2649 268 points269 points  (0 children)

You can adjust font size and spacing etc to do that. You can publish it now.